frank66665 wrote:Reshuffle wrote:frank66665 wrote:my wife has never allowed me to cum in her mouth, i used to go to escorts and i choose them all with cum in the mouth, now i'm even scared when they take it in my mouth because i feel annoyed, when i fuck i can't get inflated to the max or almost beyond 30/35 minutes, if I don't reach orgasm in those times I don't reach it anymore due to the annoyance that turns into pain, I've never had orgasm delay problems, in fact I used to put the spray or take dapoxetine to delay orgasm, it's great for you that you had surgery after me and that you recovered before me and great, I hope to recover the oral otherwise I'll end up hating this implant
So when you say annoyance and lack of pleasure, what exactly do you feel that you don't experience now? Is it that part of your dick is numb from feeling? For the most part that tends to come back over time, although some people it seems to take longer. Is it only a problem with BJs, not with other types of stimulation/sex?
If it's not numbness, then I'm not sure what else physically would be caused by the implant. Arousal issues and other psychogenic causes of it not being pleasurable would be my only guess. I know some people have issues with 'connecting' with their implant and having it feel like it's a part of their body. It's a major change and how we feel about ourselves and the implant after surgery including feelings of regret or grief about what we used to have I think are more common then is often talked about.
yes, in particular the glans and a sense of annoyance, the shaft less but I manage to have an orgasm, plus after 30/35 minutes that I'm fucking the annoyance begins due to the rubbing, when I ride a bicycle at the most I have no problems up to 1 hour 70 minutes, then the discomfort starts
You're only 10 weeks out, give it 4-6 months. If your glans aren't engorging, try pumping less and also using daily cialis.
Vitamin B12 and ALCAR may also help with nerve regeneration.
Be patient, it's a complex procedure, you're mind/body need to adapt.