Partner-Implant

[annoyed31]

Of course owning the situation is the only way to deal with it, but I just hate that we have to experience this shit and then try and explain it to someone else.

I can imagine.

[annoyed31]

I'm hesitant to get into this fray. First, a woman noticing the pump is a lot different from knowing what the pump is. Nut sacks come in lots of variations. Some men even had tissue masses that can be seen or felt. A few men only have 1 nut.
Women accepting it? My wife suggested that I get an implant twice before I brought it up.
Go ahead, say shes an old woman, you've been married a long time. All of this is true. But at the end of the discussion. She likes sex, she knew that the best chance that she had to get a sex life back was with an implant.
She watched a YouTube video of a surgery. She wasn't happy, but that did not change her wish for an implant. She didn't attend any of the appointments but did go on the day of surgery & drove us to our second home. She was super worried about infection. More worried than I was. She made sure that I had fresh clean clothes & bedding during the recovery. Pretty accepting in my opinion.
A one night stand won't likely scrutinize your genitals as much as a steady gf or a wife. Bed her a few times & I doubt that she'll care once she finds out. By then she knows how well it works & its too late for any reserved feelings.
If she does cause a fuss. You'll of learned by then about any cosmetic surgery that she has had. You can gently throw the hypocrite card at her. Even her Wonder bra or body slimming garments that she might use.
Too much worrying on this topic.

More power to you, I the implant lasts forever for you.

[Jucaro]

I think it could be the case I can hide it about couple of week or months but, the inevitable truth has to come out one day. So better have a better explanation. God! this is hard. Living alone with ED is depressing, I have made decsion to get it fixed, it has taken great toll on my mental and physical health. I am not focused on my other goals for now, always dark thoughts in my mind. I am hopefull that insurance approves it and i can schedule an appoitmnet with the surgeon.

Annoyed31: I am 55 years old, i was married for 30 years, had ED for the last 8 years and then for any multiple reasons my wife left me.
6 months later, being 52, I knew a 29 years old woman and we felt in love, it happened while I was also struggling with deep financial issues, that girl helped to support me in everything she could and we are getting through.
In the mean time I was hiding to her that i was on trt, few months after the relation begins, after a good sex session, I confessed my secret of TRT, she didn't care, she laugh at me asking how was it possible that I could believe she would leave me once she knew that. Our relation continued, there was another secret: I could only perform using viagra + cialis, but i noticed it is being less and less effective, then i told her also that I needed pills but they are not working as good as before, She said she is deeply in love with me and even if I was no longer able to perform, she would stay with me, then she and me decided together that we will go for an implant when my dick stop working with pills.
I have being engaged only in two relationships in my life, one was for 30 years, the other is now for 2 + years, I am proud of that, and happy.
So, I want to say, rather than worry about disclosing about your implant, worry about the quality of woman you want/need with you, go for that woman, love her and let her love you.