Female opinions on sex after implant

[Spanishxb]

She’s never said anything is wrong with it, she just hasn’t given head like she used too…idk why as too afraid to ask so I just leave it as is. I won’t go down in her then and foreplay can go out the window. Fine by me as I’m hard and stay hard now….not my loss really…wish I would’ve had this dick when we used to shoot porn though…she’s over that stage nowadays…

OK, this is unasked for advice, so ou can ignore it if you want.

Do not be afraid to ask for what you want (but be sure you want it, though).

Foreplay is important to most women (and could be enjoyable for you, too, if you let yourself). Sure, I get the appeal of a "quickie", just get in, get your orgasm and get out, with or witout afterplay. But the luxury of an extended sex session is enjoyable, too, and may improve your relationship outside of the sex.

But it is your relationship and my advice is take it or leave it and only you can figure if it will improve your relationship or not. A woman willing to make porn with you is a keeper even if she does not want to do the documentation any more.

I agree, she’s a good one. And half the reason why I got the surgery was to be able to have lots of foreplay as beforehand I had to kind of always do a quickie as we were both nervous on how long before it goes away, so foreplay was always very quick…now that I can have unlimited foreplay, it’s not nearly as fun as she just lays there while I make her orgasm. She never was a handjob type girl and has maybe touched my dick with her hand 5 times in her life which I never understood but it’s fine. We just have much longer sex vs much longer foreplay…

Also, we are still new, I was implanted less than a year ago and she moved out of the house a few years ago but we’ve remained dating. So maybe in time she will come back to blowjobs. Idk…..my only need is to have intercourse with another woman that is unaware of my implant so I can get true answers if they know I’m implanted or not. That’s what I want.

[Hillywilly]

She’s never said anything is wrong with it, she just hasn’t given head like she used too…idk why as too afraid to ask so I just leave it as is. I won’t go down in her then and foreplay can go out the window. Fine by me as I’m hard and stay hard now….not my loss really…wish I would’ve had this dick when we used to shoot porn though…she’s over that stage nowadays…

OK, this is unasked for advice, so ou can ignore it if you want.

Do not be afraid to ask for what you want (but be sure you want it, though).

Foreplay is important to most women (and could be enjoyable for you, too, if you let yourself). Sure, I get the appeal of a "quickie", just get in, get your orgasm and get out, with or witout afterplay. But the luxury of an extended sex session is enjoyable, too, and may improve your relationship outside of the sex.

But it is your relationship and my advice is take it or leave it and only you can figure if it will improve your relationship or not. A woman willing to make porn with you is a keeper even if she does not want to do the documentation any more.

I agree, she’s a good one. And half the reason why I got the surgery was to be able to have lots of foreplay as beforehand I had to kind of always do a quickie as we were both nervous on how long before it goes away, so foreplay was always very quick…now that I can have unlimited foreplay, it’s not nearly as fun as she just lays there while I make her orgasm. She never was a handjob type girl and has maybe touched my dick with her hand 5 times in her life which I never understood but it’s fine. We just have much longer sex vs much longer foreplay…

Also, we are still new, I was implanted less than a year ago and she moved out of the house a few years ago but we’ve remained dating. So maybe in time she will come back to blowjobs. Idk…..my only need is to have intercourse with another woman that is unaware of my implant so I can get true answers if they know I’m implanted or not. That’s what I want.

Spanishxb you never mention the cause of your ED. Curious to know what your diagnosis was and how your erections were if you had any before the ipp as well as how your engorgement is now? Also, who did your surgery?

[phliptrip]

Idk…..my only need is to have intercourse with another woman that is unaware of my implant so I can get true answers if they know I’m implanted or not. That’s what I want.

My wife is brutally honest about just about everything including dick functionality both prior and post. She says she can't tell vaginally or manually with her hand, she says she can tell orally. My right cylinder is set a little lower than my left, and she said she can feel the tip of it when she's doing oral. If yours are both set well in the glans that may not be the case for you though. Let us know what you find out, for science!

[Spanishxb]

OK, this is unasked for advice, so ou can ignore it if you want.

Do not be afraid to ask for what you want (but be sure you want it, though).

Foreplay is important to most women (and could be enjoyable for you, too, if you let yourself). Sure, I get the appeal of a "quickie", just get in, get your orgasm and get out, with or witout afterplay. But the luxury of an extended sex session is enjoyable, too, and may improve your relationship outside of the sex.

But it is your relationship and my advice is take it or leave it and only you can figure if it will improve your relationship or not. A woman willing to make porn with you is a keeper even if she does not want to do the documentation any more.

I agree, she’s a good one. And half the reason why I got the surgery was to be able to have lots of foreplay as beforehand I had to kind of always do a quickie as we were both nervous on how long before it goes away, so foreplay was always very quick…now that I can have unlimited foreplay, it’s not nearly as fun as she just lays there while I make her orgasm. She never was a handjob type girl and has maybe touched my dick with her hand 5 times in her life which I never understood but it’s fine. We just have much longer sex vs much longer foreplay…

Also, we are still new, I was implanted less than a year ago and she moved out of the house a few years ago but we’ve remained dating. So maybe in time she will come back to blowjobs. Idk…..my only need is to have intercourse with another woman that is unaware of my implant so I can get true answers if they know I’m implanted or not. That’s what I want.

Spanishxb you never mention the cause of your ED. Curious to know what your diagnosis was and how your erections were if you had any before the ipp as well as how your engorgment is now?

I think mainly mental. I had it ever since I was 18 and had sexual encounters. Too much porn addiction, nervous about size, nervous and anxious in general, been cheated on with dudes with bigger dicks, etc etc it wears on your brain…also snapped my dick (broke it) back when I was 21 and it was never the same since, hourglass shape began forming but would go away upon erection. Viagra and all the other PDE-5s worked for awhile but man they made me sick and couldn’t eat much and stuffy and just life was a blur…got sick of it and then those started wearing off after about ten years of taking them nearly daily. So went to injections which was amazing. But obv can’t do that long term and can only do it max like 6 times a month and I was a sex addict with always the hottest women….so it just didn’t work out. Tried gainswave and thought I hit the jackpot. I had my first ever erection without meds the day after my gainswave and it almost didn’t even feel real….but only happened once and not again…. Anyways, switched doctors and went to Mayo Clinic and they said on my first visit: “you need the implant”. I said I’d rather wait (scared to lose my non functioning dick)…but the lady said to trust her I will regret not doing it sooner and things will only get worse the longer I put it off…so I said I had enough and let’s do it. And I’m sooo fucking glad I did….so glad….yeah the pumping and squeak sound are awkward and hard to have romantic hot passionate sex in a bathroom or hallway or the woods at random but oh well….i have a dick that’s guaranteed (for a few years) to get hard and stay hard.

[Spanishxb]

Idk…..my only need is to have intercourse with another woman that is unaware of my implant so I can get true answers if they know I’m implanted or not. That’s what I want.

My wife is brutally honest about just about everything including dick functionality both prior and post. She says she can't tell vaginally or manually with her hand, she says she can tell orally. My right cylinder is set a little lower than my left, and she said she can feel the tip of it when she's doing oral. If yours are both set well in the glans that may not be the case for you though. Let us know what you find out, for science!

I’d say that’s exactly the same for my gf…the tips are pokey and I’m sure don’t feel great in a throat. I completely understand it so I don’t force her or anything…mine are positioned about the same as yours I think…sometimes feel like they could rip out the end of my glands, but I’m happy with the placement. Better to be deep in the glans than not and have that floppy head thing a lot of people were talking about…so glad I didn’t get that. I was blessed and have no real complaints. Just observations. Planning to get UroFill here in a couple months just cause why not…seems harmless and reversible and why not make my dick bigger while I can…make the most of this implant and all the times I couldn’t have sex or didn’t even approach a woman cause of fear of having to have sex….if I would’ve gotten this when I was 21 like I should have, I’d have an ENTIRELY different life. Crazy to think about.

[Hillywilly]

if the woman truly loves you it doesnt matter what you have.

True love is for fairytales. In the real world attraction comes first and love comes second it's a classic example of the the horse(attraction) pulling the cart (love). If you lose one the other will SLOWLY fade as well and result in breakup, divorce,etc.

To be more direct it DOES matter what you have at least to younger women today and I suspect all women as evolutionary psychologist point towards a hypergamous nature of women (meaning women will ALWAYS seek out the strongest man to bear their offspring and provide the best genes for their offsprings survival). I can't think of anything that would dry a woman up faster than discussing your medical issues with her. Did I ASK a women if I thought it was ok to take Viagra or Trimix nope just did and made her cum and they kept coming back. in long term relationship after love and a solid emotional connection is built I am sure it is healthy to share some of your weaknesses to a degree but i'm also sure it diminishes attraction to a degree.

[Lost Sheep]

if the woman truly loves you it doesnt matter what you have.

True love is for fairytales. In the real world attraction comes first and love comes second it's a classic example of the the horse(attraction) pulling the cart (love). If you lose one the other will SLOWLY fade as well and result in breakup, divorce,etc.

To be more direct it DOES matter what you have at least to younger women today and I suspect all women as evolutionary psychologist point towards a hypergamous nature of women (meaning women will ALWAYS seek out the strongest man to bear their offspring and provide the best genes for their offsprings survival). I can't think of anything that would dry a woman up faster than discussing your medical issues with her. Did I ASK a women if I thought it was ok to take Viagra or Trimix nope just did and made her cum and they kept coming back. in long term relationship after love and a solid emotional connection is built I am sure it is healthy to share some of your weaknesses to a degree but i'm also sure it diminishes attraction to a degree.

I will agree and disagree with your statement "it diminishes attraction to a degree". It wil depend on the woman. I went on a dating site and revealed my impotence and my intention to seek a solution (implant) and asking for a "lab partner" to accompany me on my journey. I got a lot of supportive responses, calling my revalation "courageous" and "refreshing". Of course, those women who would be "dryed up" by a man admtting any flaw or weakness would not have bothered to respond. But my experience tells me that women are atracted to a variety of characteristics.

I have also read (evolutionary psychology) that women seek to mate with the man with the best genes, but tend to seek the best provider to establish long-term relationships with. That is they will fuck one, but marry the other. Oh, well.

[Spanishxb]

if the woman truly loves you it doesnt matter what you have.

True love is for fairytales. In the real world attraction comes first and love comes second it's a classic example of the the horse(attraction) pulling the cart (love). If you lose one the other will SLOWLY fade as well and result in breakup, divorce,etc.

To be more direct it DOES matter what you have at least to younger women today and I suspect all women as evolutionary psychologist point towards a hypergamous nature of women (meaning women will ALWAYS seek out the strongest man to bear their offspring and provide the best genes for their offsprings survival). I can't think of anything that would dry a woman up faster than discussing your medical issues with her. Did I ASK a women if I thought it was ok to take Viagra or Trimix nope just did and made her cum and they kept coming back. in long term relationship after love and a solid emotional connection is built I am sure it is healthy to share some of your weaknesses to a degree but i'm also sure it diminishes attraction to a degree.

110% agree with all of that

[Gt1956]

if the woman truly loves you it doesnt matter what you have.

True love is for fairytales. In the real world attraction comes first and love comes second it's a classic example of the the horse(attraction) pulling the cart (love). If you lose one the other will SLOWLY fade as well and result in breakup, divorce,etc.
To be more direct it DOES matter what you have at least to younger women today and I suspect all women as evolutionary psychologist point towards a hypergamous nature of women (meaning women will ALWAYS seek out the strongest man to bear their offspring and provide the best genes for their offsprings survival). I can't think of anything that would dry a woman up faster than discussing your medical issues with her. Did I ASK a women if I thought it was ok to take Viagra or Trimix nope just did and made her cum and they kept coming back. in long term relationship after love and a solid emotional connection is built I am sure it is healthy to share some of your weaknesses to a degree but i'm also sure it diminishes attraction to a degree.

110% agree with all of that

I've had this discussion with my wife several times. Very early on we met my parents at a craft show for a club they belonged to. I talked with them both for several minutes. My then girlfriend grilled me a lot about who those people were. I explained that they were my parents. She hardly believed me. Her father had died & almost every interaction with her mother was abusive. She decided right then that was the type of people she wanted to be associated with. I couldn't of chased her away with a stick.
I had nothing to offer. No drivers license. Only earned side money taking care of some horses that provided the $$ for a movie each weekend. I paid for her school lunch & a drink for the walk home after school.
Btw, it didn't hurt the relationship that I learned very quickly to give her multiple orgasms everytime very early in our dating relationship.

[Frenchie]

if the woman truly loves you it doesnt matter what you have.

True love is for fairytales. In the real world attraction comes first and love comes second it's a classic example of the the horse(attraction) pulling the cart (love). If you lose one the other will SLOWLY fade as well and result in breakup, divorce,etc.

To be more direct it DOES matter what you have at least to younger women today and I suspect all women as evolutionary psychologist point towards a hypergamous nature of women (meaning women will ALWAYS seek out the strongest man to bear their offspring and provide the best genes for their offsprings survival). I can't think of anything that would dry a woman up faster than discussing your medical issues with her. Did I ASK a women if I thought it was ok to take Viagra or Trimix nope just did and made her cum and they kept coming back. in long term relationship after love and a solid emotional connection is built I am sure it is healthy to share some of your weaknesses to a degree but i'm also sure it diminishes attraction to a degree.

Most of the men in this forum are lucky enough that they experienced ED after many many years of marriage with a woman they have been in love (worth to mention that the women of older generation are way better than girls of today) so it is understandable that the support from their partner is bigger. Starting a relationship with ED as a young guy with todays girls is a disaster if you don't hide it and she understands it. Not only will she lose attraction but also lose respect when she understands that you can't get other girls because of your limp dick and she can manipulate you like a puppet. Women want a man that other women want and desire , a man that can cheat but won't do it.
I am currently using injections as I am still young for an implant but I will never go into marriage while my future wife knows I am sticking needles in my dick everytime we have sex while her other previous partners got rock hard in 10 seconds . An implant is the closest thing to a natural,spontaneous and unsuspecting erection ,no matter how difficult the surgeries are and so many revisions that await us. ED at a young age really is hell