Female opinions on sex after implant

[Mark1974]

Posting a story of someone I know. ED ended his marriage to his much younger wife. She was in her mid-30's, he was early 50's. He said ED came on suddenly and pills did nothing. Newly single he knew dating was not happening, so implant was scheduled. Met him after surgery when he had lots of questions. Once he healed up it was find a partner to test it out. Find a partner he did, who turned out to be a lady near his age. She was insatiable and the stories he related about their sex games would make any man jealous. He never told her about the implant, I guess she thought of him as some sort of superman to have sex four and five times a day. He is now ready to move on, she won't let him go.

Sounds like a dream. But I would be honest about the implant. I would prefer they know even before the first sexual encounter, but how to have that conversation is really difficult.

[Mark1974]

I'm really curious how women over 50 will react to an implant. A lot of men in that age group are experiencing various degrees of ED or weak erection. But a lot of the times the attractive older women are simply dating younger men these days

I guess I check the boxes for both of your scenarios: I'm 33 and one of the women I'd been having sex with since getting the implant is 57. She doesn't know about the implant in my dick. Definitely keeps texting me coming back for more though!

Lucky boy

[Hillywilly]

I don't have a wife. And I'm not even attempting to date because of my ED. If I get the implant I would look to date women between 50-65 which is why I ask questions about that age group. Sometimes I get answers from other men dating the same age group and that information is of interest to me.

I don't agree with all the bad boy mentality theories you have. Maybe that works with some types of younger women, but I don't think it goes far with mature women, especially if they are emotionally balanced themselves.

Many times men who have a lot to offer (either sexually or financially) have a lot of options and therefore they are less emotionally dependent than men who are less desirable. And I think that sometimes is mistaken for the idea that "women want a bad boy". But it's what the men bring to the table that the women desire, not the attitude

Good luck

[Hillywilly]

90 to 0 is a tremendous change! My wife had to go through an attitude adjustment period when I was required to start using Trimix. She didn’t think it was somehow real, that I wasn’t excited and hard because of her but only because of the shot. I explained that the shot was merely taking the place of the nerves that had been removed during surgery. I was able to convince her that I was still attracted to her and the blood in my penis was the same blood as before.

Possibly from your girlfriend’s point of view, she isn’t as excited to give you oral as before when she can feel the prosthesis. My wife commented that if I got an implant it’s not me anymore, it’s not my blood anymore, it’s like I’m a terminator and if you peel back the skin, the non-human skeleton is revealed. Men don’t think of their implant in those terminator terms, they’re just damn happy they can penetrate a woman again. I hope over time your girl will get back to her loving ways.

I don’t HAVE to get a penile implant. Trimix works, and a daily 5 mg cialis keeps my dick from shrinking up into my groin.
Fortunately this forum is here to help guys like me decide to implant or not to implant.
So far a cold cock, a 90% reduction in oral, and an unsure wife make it 0-3 for me implant-wise.

So you're wife is obviously not familiar with anatomy (sounds like you aren't either) if you peel back the skin you will see the tunica not the cylinders, if you peel the tunica back you will see the corpra and the cylinders are placed inside of there nothing is removed during the surgery. However, I would be looking for a wife that wasn't interested in peeling back my skin.

That's why you don't talk to women about things they know nothing about like trimix or the implant.

[Mark1974]

So you're wife is obviously not familiar with anatomy (sounds like you aren't either) if you peel back the skin you will see the tunica not the cylinders, if you peel the tunica back you will see the corpra and the cylinders are placed inside of there nothing is removed during the surgery. However, I would be looking for a wife that wasn't interested in peeling back my skin.

That's why you don't talk to women about things they know nothing about like trimix or the implant.

That's a pretty literal interpretation of his wife's comments.

[Frenchie]

90 to 0 is a tremendous change! My wife had to go through an attitude adjustment period when I was required to start using Trimix. She didn’t think it was somehow real, that I wasn’t excited and hard because of her but only because of the shot. I explained that the shot was merely taking the place of the nerves that had been removed during surgery. I was able to convince her that I was still attracted to her and the blood in my penis was the same blood as before.

Possibly from your girlfriend’s point of view, she isn’t as excited to give you oral as before when she can feel the prosthesis. My wife commented that if I got an implant it’s not me anymore, it’s not my blood anymore, it’s like I’m a terminator and if you peel back the skin, the non-human skeleton is revealed. Men don’t think of their implant in those terminator terms, they’re just damn happy they can penetrate a woman again. I hope over time your girl will get back to her loving ways.

I don’t HAVE to get a penile implant. Trimix works, and a daily 5 mg cialis keeps my dick from shrinking up into my groin.
Fortunately this forum is here to help guys like me decide to implant or not to implant.
So far a cold cock, a 90% reduction in oral, and an unsure wife make it 0-3 for me implant-wise.

Your wife sounds like a pain in the ass. A woman is "supposed" to love you for who you are and not because of your dick, be it natural or prosthetic. Its like a wife saying to her husband with a prosthetic heart valve that "I dont love you because your heart is not real anymore and you have a prothesis there". I will never understand how terrible human beings some(or the majority) women are

[Buzzer]

I would not want to be in a relationship with a woman of this type of mindset. Can you image what it would be like if you criticized her boob implant, Botox treatment or whatever. That type of woman will try to destroy you and everyone around you.


Bill

[Hillywilly]

So you're wife is obviously not familiar with anatomy (sounds like you aren't either) if you peel back the skin you will see the tunica not the cylinders, if you peel the tunica back you will see the corpra and the cylinders are placed inside of there nothing is removed during the surgery. However, I would be looking for a wife that wasn't interested in peeling back my skin.

That's why you don't talk to women about things they know nothing about like trimix or the implant.

That's a pretty literal interpretation of his wife's comments.

I had the same reaction when a urologist first mentioned a "penile prosthesis". what the fuck is that? does that mean a fake dick? No, then I learned about it. They remove none of your tissue. If a diabetic gets an insulin implant do they have a cybernetic abdomen? That's why it's best to let a woman experience one before you blab about them to them.

It's like your comment that you would like a woman to know before the very first sexual encounter I can't think of a more terrible idea. It's obvious your uncomfortable with it and a woman will pick up on that and assume it's bad and you've just shot yourself in the foot. You don't put all your problems and issues on your dating profile do you? Do you tell a woman of all your troubles on the first date? If you do you are going to run into a lot of problems.

[Mark1974]

I would not want to be in a relationship with a woman of this type of mindset. Can you image what it would be like if you criticized her boob implant, Botox treatment or whatever. That type of woman will try to destroy you and everyone around you.


Bill

It's not the same

[Mark1974]

Do you tell a woman of all your troubles on the first date? If you do you are going to run into a lot of problems.

Not the first date, but I don't want to be in a weird situation where a woman feels tubing or the pump

I feel honesty is better for me. It might not be for you and I don't judge you for that