Female opinions on sex after implant

[Spanishxb]

So…an update here. Had some (what I thought) bomb sex last night…she came real quick, but I was a little tuned up so had to work for mine. After having my fun I decided to get to work and start pounding. Was pounding deep as I could and doing some moves I thought were what she liked in the past. Etc etc. anyways….after I finished she ran to the bathroom in pain and said that it doesn’t bend like it used too so when I do angles it literally was digging at her insides and she could feel the tubes rock hard poking her…..NOT what I wanted to ever hear but I’ve told her to be honest as I’m basically a virgin with this new dick learning how to use it and move it as it doesn’t bend like it used too…and the two hard spikes tips and the end in the glans definitely are easy to feel poke yah I’m sure. Feels like I have two pen tips in the head of my dick…so anyways…

Now we will have to practice positions and moves so she can tell me what it was that hurt her so I don’t do that thinking she’s liking it…….still no regrets….just wonder what a girl who doesn’t know I’m implanted think about it if I was poking them so hard. Would they think I had something in my dick? Idk…

I hope you don't mind unsolicited advice. Do you and your wife every talk frankly about what each of you prefer in sex? I mean, map out each other's erogenous zones (which can be a fun exercise in itself) or discuss different positions you might like to try or places around the house, etc.

Your post sounds like she does not feel comfortable telling you what feels good for her or hurts. Good communication is a factor in producing god sex (in my opinion).

Use this revelation of hers as a springboard to asking her to ask for what will make sex better. Give her permission to express her sexuality. You will likely be pleasantly surprized.

Yah we are going to map
It out tonight probably and talk. We really don’t talk much about it…

[Spanishxb]

Spanishxb. Try fewer pumps. You need an erection that can bend slightly to follow the vagina. Womens version of hard is different from mens version of hard.

I know I should, but I like being as big as I can for her…but maybe I need to try it…if I’m not rock hard it also doesn’t feel as good for me either. I’ve yet to orgasm unless I’m max pumped…

[ThailandBound]

Spanishxb. Try fewer pumps. You need an erection that can bend slightly to follow the vagina. Womens version of hard is different from mens version of hard.

Agreed. At 100% those tips are obvious unless i’m fully engorged. At 4+ months it’s not happening at 100% (yet), but at about 80% it does. Perfectly hard enough to penetrate and blood flow is better. Just turn it down a notch….hopefully it’ll improve with time.

[aussiePeyronies]

So…an update here. Had some (what I thought) bomb sex last night…she came real quick, but I was a little tuned up so had to work for mine. After having my fun I decided to get to work and start pounding. Was pounding deep as I could and doing some moves I thought were what she liked in the past. Etc etc. anyways….after I finished she ran to the bathroom in pain and said that it doesn’t bend like it used too so when I do angles it literally was digging at her insides and she could feel the tubes rock hard poking her…..NOT what I wanted to ever hear but I’ve told her to be honest as I’m basically a virgin with this new dick learning how to use it and move it as it doesn’t bend like it used too…and the two hard spikes tips and the end in the glans definitely are easy to feel poke yah I’m sure. Feels like I have two pen tips in the head of my dick…so anyways…

Now we will have to practice positions and moves so she can tell me what it was that hurt her so I don’t do that thinking she’s liking it…….still no regrets….just wonder what a girl who doesn’t know I’m implanted think about it if I was poking them so hard. Would they think I had something in my dick? Idk…

At 100%, your dick would be oval and like it has two sticks in it. Most people pump to about 80%, get some natural engorgement in there to give a more natural, round shape/feel. Take some viagra if you need, that may help, or get the 5mg daily cialis. This should be more comortable for your gf.

Keep us updated.

[Hillywilly]

So…an update here. Had some (what I thought) bomb sex last night…she came real quick, but I was a little tuned up so had to work for mine. After having my fun I decided to get to work and start pounding. Was pounding deep as I could and doing some moves I thought were what she liked in the past. Etc etc. anyways….after I finished she ran to the bathroom in pain and said that it doesn’t bend like it used too so when I do angles it literally was digging at her insides and she could feel the tubes rock hard poking her…..NOT what I wanted to ever hear but I’ve told her to be honest as I’m basically a virgin with this new dick learning how to use it and move it as it doesn’t bend like it used too…and the two hard spikes tips and the end in the glans definitely are easy to feel poke yah I’m sure. Feels like I have two pen tips in the head of my dick…so anyways…

Now we will have to practice positions and moves so she can tell me what it was that hurt her so I don’t do that thinking she’s liking it…….still no regrets….just wonder what a girl who doesn’t know I’m implanted think about it if I was poking them so hard. Would they think I had something in my dick? Idk…

At 100%, your dick would be oval and like it has two sticks in it. Most people pump to about 80%, get some natural engorgement in there to give a more natural, round shape/feel. Take some viagra if you need, that may help, or get the 5mg daily cialis. This should be more comortable for your gf.

Keep us updated.

Why would 100 percent inhibit the spongnisium?

My dick gets round even at 100% I’ve heard others do too. If you pumped less wouldn’t that decrease girth and thus sensation?

I was told by Hakky that young guys don't get the oval shape and have found that the only time I do is when i'm not aroused.

[aussiePeyronies]

So…an update here. Had some (what I thought) bomb sex last night…she came real quick, but I was a little tuned up so had to work for mine. After having my fun I decided to get to work and start pounding. Was pounding deep as I could and doing some moves I thought were what she liked in the past. Etc etc. anyways….after I finished she ran to the bathroom in pain and said that it doesn’t bend like it used too so when I do angles it literally was digging at her insides and she could feel the tubes rock hard poking her…..NOT what I wanted to ever hear but I’ve told her to be honest as I’m basically a virgin with this new dick learning how to use it and move it as it doesn’t bend like it used too…and the two hard spikes tips and the end in the glans definitely are easy to feel poke yah I’m sure. Feels like I have two pen tips in the head of my dick…so anyways…

Now we will have to practice positions and moves so she can tell me what it was that hurt her so I don’t do that thinking she’s liking it…….still no regrets….just wonder what a girl who doesn’t know I’m implanted think about it if I was poking them so hard. Would they think I had something in my dick? Idk…

At 100%, your dick would be oval and like it has two sticks in it. Most people pump to about 80%, get some natural engorgement in there to give a more natural, round shape/feel. Take some viagra if you need, that may help, or get the 5mg daily cialis. This should be more comortable for your gf.

Keep us updated.

Why would 100 percent inhibit the spongnisium?

My dick gets round even at 100% I’ve heard others do too. If you pumped less wouldn’t that decrease girth and thus sensation?

I was told by Hakky that young guys don't get the oval shape and have found that the only time I do is when i'm not aroused.

Atm for me, this is the case. Maybe with cycling and as time goes on, this will change. I think if you didn't have significant ED pre-surgery, then it's more likely your spongosium will engoge.

[Hillywilly]

At 100%, your dick would be oval and like it has two sticks in it. Most people pump to about 80%, get some natural engorgement in there to give a more natural, round shape/feel. Take some viagra if you need, that may help, or get the 5mg daily cialis. This should be more comortable for your gf.

Keep us updated.

Why would 100 percent inhibit the spongnisium?

My dick gets round even at 100% I’ve heard others do too. If you pumped less wouldn’t that decrease girth and thus sensation?

I was told by Hakky that young guys don't get the oval shape and have found that the only time I do is when i'm not aroused.

Atm for me, this is the case. Maybe with cycling and as time goes on, this will change. I think if you didn't have significant ED pre-surgery, then it's more likely your spongosium will engoge.

Maybe it will take more time since you had tep? When I first pump it to 100% hard my glans are small then I stick it into a Fleshlight and within about 5-10 seconds it engorges

I’ve been remembering Perito’s words about sex being the best form of cycling so I have been “exercising’ the tissue with as close to sex as I’m allowed to at the moment.

I’m released tomorrow if hakky thinks everything looks ok. If so, I’m going to have sex with this girl and I will see if she notices anything about it and if not tell her and get advice on how to dial in the hardness.

[aussiePeyronies]

Why would 100 percent inhibit the spongnisium?

My dick gets round even at 100% I’ve heard others do too. If you pumped less wouldn’t that decrease girth and thus sensation?

I was told by Hakky that young guys don't get the oval shape and have found that the only time I do is when i'm not aroused.

Atm for me, this is the case. Maybe with cycling and as time goes on, this will change. I think if you didn't have significant ED pre-surgery, then it's more likely your spongosium will engoge.

Maybe it will take more time since you had tep? When I first pump it to 100% hard my glans are small then I stick it into a Fleshlight and within about 5-10 seconds it engorges

I’ve been remembering Perito’s words about sex being the best form of cycling so I have been “exercising’ the tissue with as close to sex as I’m allowed to at the moment.

I’m released tomorrow if hakky thinks everything looks ok. If so, I’m going to have sex with this girl and I will see if she notices anything about it and if not tell her and get advice on how to dial in the hardness.

That's great man, I am very happy for you. Please report back on how everything goes.

J

[nuance]

for those whose glans can't engorge at all, can the girl feel the implant even when not fully inflated?

[oldbeek]

for those whose glans can't engorge at all, can the girl feel the implant even when not fully inflated?

She and you can definitely feel the tubes inside your tunics. Try Trimix Gell if you need glans engorgement. It works for me.