This has been pure torture

[Randalltx]

Hey guys
I think the headline kinda says it all. I hate to be dramatic, so instead, I guess I am asking for help

Got my implant in May. Could not get it deflated for 30 days afterwards. Got it deflated once, then took a few days break to enjoy being soft. a 75 day hard on is not fun.

Monday I decided to pump it, do the exercises and pump it to the max I could get it.

Super hard. Cock looked really good actually.

It is now Thursday and I still can not get it deflated. I have pushed all 4 sides. I have pulled on it, squeezed it and spun it around. I can feel the whole pump part but I can not get the fucking thing to let the liquid out. I am honestly losing my mind here.

Not only does it hurt, but I feel like there is no one to even talk to or help me with it. And I NEVER need help with anything and seldom ever feel alone.

To make matters worse, I am in the Phillipines and far away from any doctor who knows anything about this.

I guess I was hoping for some words of wisdom that might help or something or some advice on how to get this thing deflated. I can't even begin to imagine what I am doing wrong.

Thanks guys

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I have the same model and had the same issue.
1. Locate the deflate block. Follow the tubing from your abdomen to the first connection. It will be square. if you feel the round pumping bulb (3rd nut) back up a bit toward your abdomen.\
2. Locate the deflate button. Ignore the button and find the recessed surface of the block (the part of a spoon you can fill). The button is 180 degrees away on the other side. It won't necessarily be in the same position as last time.
3. Place the detent part (fill part of the spoon) at the heel of your hand. (mine is right hand) Your finger pads can now reach the button on the opposite side. It will take a few tries to grip the thing reliably without slipping. When you find the button, try holding it down with your index finger, second finger or thumb. If you can get a finger on it. hold it down.
4. Simultaneously while holding the button down, using your other hand squeeze your penis from the glans working your way toward your body. Do not release your penis for 20-30 seconds while holding the button down.
5. Continue squeezing your penis near the mid to abdominal wall then release the button. After button is free, release your penis and check for hardness.
6. If button is stiff, get your other hand around the first hand and push the button with both hands. Use the strength of your forearms. It does take practice.

Tricks---
Stand up and do it.
Lay down and do it.
Soak in a hot tub or otherwise warm the tubing ball and deflate block.
Stay away from the inflate bulb while deflating.
Pump up a couple of small pumps then try it.

Deflating Titan or Titan XL is more challenging than AMS implants. Requires strength and dexterity. You will get there.
I will send you some links to help you.

I am six months out and have only recently been able to do this in only one or two tries. A week ago, I was still struggling.

Randy

[Randalltx]

Hey guys
I think the headline kinda says it all. I hate to be dramatic, so instead, I guess I am asking for help

Got my implant in May. Could not get it deflated for 30 days afterwards. Got it deflated once, then took a few days break to enjoy being soft. a 75 day hard on is not fun.

Monday I decided to pump it, do the exercises and pump it to the max I could get it.

Super hard. Cock looked really good actually.

It is now Thursday and I still can not get it deflated. I have pushed all 4 sides. I have pulled on it, squeezed it and spun it around. I can feel the whole pump part but I can not get the fucking thing to let the liquid out. I am honestly losing my mind here.

Not only does it hurt, but I feel like there is no one to even talk to or help me with it. And I NEVER need help with anything and seldom ever feel alone.

To make matters worse, I am in the Phillipines and far away from any doctor who knows anything about this.

I guess I was hoping for some words of wisdom that might help or something or some advice on how to get this thing deflated. I can't even begin to imagine what I am doing wrong.

Thanks guys

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Zen- sent you a couple of pictures illustrating what you have to do. Find the recessed side first then reach around for the button. Even if you do not feel it, squeeze anyway hard and hold 30 seconds while squeezing your penis. First couple times I successfully deflated, I thought I had the wrong side. Stay away from the inflate bulb while deflating. You will learn this. Be patient.Might want to practice deflating by filling partially then deflating repeatedly. You need arm and hand strength. If you are low in that strength, get some help to do it. A filipino woman is probably not strong enough. You will figure this out.

Randy

[Mark1974]

I would go to a doctor and see if they can do a video call with either Dr Clavell or Coloplast. I'm sure there would be a doctor that would help you even if they don't have any personal experience. Even if the first doctor you see doesn;t want to touch it I'm sure he/she can refer you to someone who will help. And mention the possibility of a video call

In fact contact Dr Clavell's office and explain the situation and a need for a video call. And if they dont respond fast enough call Coloplast. You don't want to let this go on. I would do it tomorrow

[Odecko]

I went through the same thing. Doctor insisted that younger men tend to have more pain. I was unsure if it was inflating problems, until I was finally able to deflate. I had hematoma that prevented me from feeling the deflate button. So I did not inflate again until it was completely gone. After all the swelling subsided and i felt comfortable I began to deflate ....I complained and thought to myself and on this forum...HAVE I MADE A MISTAKE? Several guys here encouraged me and I am finally where I need to be...I HAVE A GOOD HARD FRIEND!

[Zenmasterdj]

I went through the same thing. Doctor insisted that younger men tend to have more pain. I was unsure if it was inflating problems, until I was finally able to deflate. I had hematoma that prevented me from feeling the deflate button. So I did not inflate again until it was completely gone. After all the swelling subsided and i felt comfortable I began to deflate ....I complained and thought to myself and on this forum...HAVE I MADE A MISTAKE? Several guys here encouraged me and I am finally where I need to be...I HAVE A GOOD HARD FRIEND!

What does a Hematoma feel or look like?

Perhaps that's what's going on here. The skin around my testicles feels very thick. Almost like there's a water inside. I guess that's kind of normal? I'm the really sure. And it really played with my balls that much before this happened. Funny but true. Lol

So far I can find the block pretty easy. I push the left. Nothing happens I pushe on the right. Nothing happens.

I did the same in the front and the back. Nothing happens. I just don't get it. It's been days.

I honestly think it's broken, which from what I understand is nearly impossible. I'm just lost. Frustrated. And really just here venting, like a woman.

The entire experience has become humbling. Still hopeful I can have the same outcome as you.

Thank you to everyone who's replied to this. I truly appreciate the brother.

[Randalltx]

That Titan has a very strong spring on that button that is hard to overcome when new. Mine was really stiff and I had to fiddle with it and ended up using both hands for awhile. I hope you get it down soon. Sometimes heat will help. If pain is a problem, ice it first. I have also used a cloth around my ball sack to give me a better grip. Very frustrating. I feel for you.

Rnady

[NorCol]

Reading this makes me extremely happy for a small scrotum and the installed Coloplast Classic pump. Hope you resolve this quickly. Best of luck.

[Randalltx]

Hope you got it down, Zen.

I just deflated this morning and paid particular attention to how I did it.
I found the recessed side of the block and placed my thumb in it then reached around and pushed on the other side wth my finger tip, I ddin't even feel the button, just piushed. Took four attempts since the block kept slipping out of my grip but on that last attempt, it worked as I squeezed the fluid from my penis back toward the reservoir. Took maybe 15 seconds to get all floppy. I was about 70%.

Randy

[Odecko]

I went through the same thing. Doctor insisted that younger men tend to have more pain. I was unsure if it was inflating problems, until I was finally able to deflate. I had hematoma that prevented me from feeling the deflate button. So I did not inflate again until it was completely gone. After all the swelling subsided and i felt comfortable I began to deflate ....I complained and thought to myself and on this forum...HAVE I MADE A MISTAKE? Several guys here encouraged me and I am finally where I need to be...I HAVE A GOOD HARD FRIEND!

What does a Hematoma feel or look like?

Perhaps that's what's going on here. The skin around my testicles feels very thick. Almost like there's a water inside. I guess that's kind of normal? I'm the really sure. And it really played with my balls that much before this happened. Funny but true. Lol

So far I can find the block pretty easy. I push the left. Nothing happens I pushe on the right. Nothing happens.

I did the same in the front and the back. Nothing happens. I just don't get it. It's been days.

I honestly think it's broken, which from what I understand is nearly impossible. I'm just lost. Frustrated. And really just here venting, like a woman.

The entire experience has become humbling. Still hopeful I can have the same outcome as you.

Thank you to everyone who's replied to this. I truly appreciate the brother.

A hematoma is really just a pool of blood settling in an area and YES it makes the skin a bit thicker on the inside of the scrotum sac.
I really believe you are going through the exact same thing. I had a very hard time trying to find the button, but so I would squeeze all 4 sides for nearly 10 seconds each until I could feel LESS pressure. That indicated that I deflated on one of those edges. Once I deflated I did not try to inflate for a while.