Latest Consideration for Easier Sex

There is more to sex than an erect penis. How do you maintain your sexuality both for yourself and for your partner? What techniques do you use to give both of you a great, satisfying sex life? How do you explore your own body and sexuality now that the rules have changed?
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Re: Latest Consideration for Easier Sex

Postby Bigdave » Wed Aug 02, 2023 8:58 pm

Lost Sheep wrote:
oldbeek wrote:I bought a house built by a batchlor that the master bedroom had a fireplace and spa in it and a big hook in the ceiling over the bed. Net chair on a bunge cord? Always wondered.

I heard about something called a "basket fuck".

The woman is suspended in a basket/bag such that her vagina is at the bottom of the bag where there is an opening. The man lies supine on a bed in line with the opening/vagina. The suspension height / bed height is adjusted such that full penetration is achieved.

Here's the good part.

The bag/basket is spun so that the suspension rope twists and is thus shortened, raising the woman up so the man's glans is just barely penetrating her vagina. Releasing the basket starts the woman slowly spinning on the man's penis and as the rope unwinds being lowered onto his penis and at maximum penetration, the spinning is at is fastest. Rotational momentum continues the spinning until the rope is once again twisted and shortened to very shallow penetration. Whereupon, the rotation is reversed and the entire process is repeated ad infinitum (or ad orgasm or ad a frenzy of frustration culminating in explosive climaxes all around, hopefully).

To Al1962, consider hanging a chandelier-like decoration to disguise the true purpose of the skyhook.


That sounds interesting, but I can't help thinking what happens if something hangs up with all that spinning. :o :o :o
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Re: Latest Consideration for Easier Sex

Postby Randalltx » Mon Aug 07, 2023 2:46 pm

Old Guy wrote:
Randalltx wrote:Can you pm or post me on what you bought? Definitely interested in one. We have a large bedroom with cathedral ceiling and a substantial beam running the length of the house upstairs. On the same topic, we just bought and use a yoga chaise. From Amazon.

Thanks Randy


Randy, I haven't purchased one yet. I'm more in the should I or shouldn't I mode. I know my vanilla wife will freak at first. I'm hoping she'll find it an easier method. I do have one picked out though from Amazon. It's called the Belsiang Adult Sex Swing. One has a headrest, one doesn't.

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Sex swing arrived Sunday. She wants to hang it herself. It will be in the Master Closet in front of a three way mirror full length. The device looks pretty sturdy. Attaches to ceiling joist through dryeall with lagbolts. It will be near the attic stairway so I can easily reinforce the attachment hardware. Also simple enough to disguise purpose by getting a plant in a basket or something similar, maybe a punching bag. The swing just unhooks up above and can be put away. I will let you know how it works in a few days.
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Re: Latest Consideration for Easier Sex

Postby bldoink » Mon Aug 07, 2023 3:28 pm

A through bolt sounds like a better idea if practical.
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Re: Latest Consideration for Easier Sex

Postby Lost Sheep » Mon Aug 07, 2023 5:19 pm

Randalltx wrote:
Old Guy wrote:
Randalltx wrote:Can you pm or post me on what you bought? Definitely interested in one. We have a large bedroom with cathedral ceiling and a substantial beam running the length of the house upstairs. On the same topic, we just bought and use a yoga chaise. From Amazon.

Thanks Randy


Randy, I haven't purchased one yet. I'm more in the should I or shouldn't I mode. I know my vanilla wife will freak at first. I'm hoping she'll find it an easier method. I do have one picked out though from Amazon. It's called the Belsiang Adult Sex Swing. One has a headrest, one doesn't.

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Sex swing arrived Sunday. She wants to hang it herself. It will be in the Master Closet in front of a three way mirror full length. The device looks pretty sturdy. Attaches to ceiling joist through dryeall with lagbolts. It will be near the attic stairway so I can easily reinforce the attachment hardware. Also simple enough to disguise purpose by getting a plant in a basket or something similar, maybe a punching bag. The swing just unhooks up above and can be put away. I will let you know how it works in a few days.
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0BWY67LX7?psc=1&ref=ppx_yo2ov_dt_b_product_details

Not too near a wall, I hope. Might limit your freedom of movement....or give her a concussion is sex becomes too energetic.
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Re: Latest Consideration for Easier Sex

Postby Randalltx » Mon Aug 07, 2023 7:11 pm

Lost Sheep wrote:
Randalltx wrote:
Old Guy wrote:
Randy, I haven't purchased one yet. I'm more in the should I or shouldn't I mode. I know my vanilla wife will freak at first. I'm hoping she'll find it an easier method. I do have one picked out though from Amazon. It's called the Belsiang Adult Sex Swing. One has a headrest, one doesn't.

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Sex swing arrived Sunday. She wants to hang it herself. It will be in the Master Closet in front of a three way mirror full length. The device looks pretty sturdy. Attaches to ceiling joist through dryeall with lagbolts. It will be near the attic stairway so I can easily reinforce the attachment hardware. Also simple enough to disguise purpose by getting a plant in a basket or something similar, maybe a punching bag. The swing just unhooks up above and can be put away. I will let you know how it works in a few days.
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0BWY67LX7?psc=1&ref=ppx_yo2ov_dt_b_product_details

Not too near a wall, I hope. Might limit your freedom of movement....or give her a concussion is sex becomes too energetic.

Lost-- Yes, that will be a lot of responsibility to make sure any banging is in the right direction. It's Texas so the walk in closet is pretty good size includes a sewing room, lots of clothes, and plenty of swinging space. Big as most bedrooms, I thnk. Maybe 20 x 15 ft. I might post a picture of the swing when she puts it up.
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Re: Latest Consideration for Easier Sex

Postby Old Guy » Thu Aug 10, 2023 2:06 pm

Awesome Randalltx! Glad the idea inspired you. Be sure it gets anchored well.
I think I'm ready to go ahead with the plan and purchase one.

Lost Sheep- that basket fuck sounds interesting. But like oldbeek says, "What if it hangs up?"
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Re: Latest Consideration for Easier Sex

Postby Randalltx » Thu Aug 10, 2023 5:04 pm

You all know and will vouch for me doing this solely to improve her comfort won't you? Why else would I do it? Well cuffs, I guess but that is just a detail.
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@8 months 7.50L x 6.0/Flaccid 6.0L x 6.0
@14 months 7.50L x 7.25/Flaccid 6.0L x 6.0

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Re: Latest Consideration for Easier Sex

Postby Old Guy » Thu Aug 10, 2023 6:56 pm

Randalltx wrote:You all know and will vouch for me doing this solely to improve her comfort won't you? Why else would I do it? Well cuffs, I guess but that is just a detail.


I always associated a sex swing to folks who are into bondage & domination. This brings a whole new light to why to use one. Guess that proves you're never too old to learn new tricks.
I'll vouch for you Randalltx. You can blame it on me!
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Re: Latest Consideration for Easier Sex

Postby Old Guy » Mon Aug 21, 2023 8:38 am

Well, I went ahead and ordered the swing. Now let's see what the wife thinks of it. Plan to set it up Friday night before she gets home from work. Our utility room is the only place it's going to work so I also ordered some lace curtains and fairy lights. I'll hang them using binder clips to make the room not so "utility" looking.
Report coming next week on her reaction.
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Re: Latest Consideration for Easier Sex

Postby Lost Sheep » Mon Aug 21, 2023 10:34 pm

Old Guy wrote:Well, I went ahead and ordered the swing. Now let's see what the wife thinks of it. Plan to set it up Friday night before she gets home from work. Our utility room is the only place it's going to work so I also ordered some lace curtains and fairy lights. I'll hang them using binder clips to make the room not so "utility" looking.
Report coming next week on her reaction.

Incense burners or aromatic oil vaporizer might dispell the fragrance of machine oil, too.
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