Sexual dreams?

There is more to sex than an erect penis. How do you maintain your sexuality both for yourself and for your partner? What techniques do you use to give both of you a great, satisfying sex life? How do you explore your own body and sexuality now that the rules have changed?
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Sexual dreams?

Postby 3rd-Nut » Tue Sep 12, 2023 2:37 am

I don't remember having sexual dreams since RP 17 years a go. I would say 'Wet dreams', but since there is no longer semen maybe that is why. Just wondering if it is just me?
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Re: Sexual dreams?

Postby Old Guy » Tue Sep 12, 2023 8:04 am

Dreams for me were always maybe I'd remember them, mostly not. Always seemed to remember sexual dreams though because I'd wake up hard. They slowed down a lot as I passed birthdays. ED about made them quit. After getting implanted I started having sexual dreams again, not as many as a young man, but I'll wake up feeling like I have an erection with a small amount of pre-cum in my underwear.
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Re: Sexual dreams?

Postby Lost Sheep » Tue Sep 12, 2023 1:29 pm

3rd-Nut wrote:I don't remember having sexual dreams since RP 17 years a go. I would say 'Wet dreams', but since there is no longer semen maybe that is why. Just wondering if it is just me?

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Before your prostatectomy, what was your wet dream (orgasmic dream or sexual dream) frequency? Immediately before and years before?

Dreams are funny things. Sometimes they are prompted by physical sensations. I have had dreams where sounds have been incorporated into the dream. It would make sense that a nocturnal erection might generate a sexual dream, perhaps culminating is orgasm (with or without semen). Do you get nocturnal erections?
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Re: Sexual dreams?

Postby 3rd-Nut » Wed Sep 13, 2023 1:28 am

I did have orgasmic and sexual dreams before, maybe every couple of months.
I do not have any type of nocturnal erections now. I do get some extra tumescence when I get aroused.
PC 2006, AMS 700 LGX implanted 18+3, 2012, Dr. Paolone in Madison, WI- Married 47 yrs.

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Re: Sexual dreams?

Postby scharff » Wed Sep 13, 2023 12:31 pm

I don't get many erections at night any longer and I haven't had a wet dream in a while. But I still, from time to time, have a sexually based dream most often about a friend. As with most dreams, they can be weird but I do like them when I have them. Getting old I guess.

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Re: Sexual dreams?

Postby Old Guy » Wed Sep 13, 2023 3:19 pm

Woke up this morning with a bit of pre-cum on the tip of my penis and onto my underwear. I also felt like I was erect. Fell back to sleep. Wish I could remember what the heck I was dreaming!
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Re: Sexual dreams?

Postby Lost Sheep » Wed Sep 13, 2023 6:10 pm

Old Guy wrote:Woke up this morning with a bit of pre-cum on the tip of my penis and onto my underwear. I also felt like I was erect. Fell back to sleep. Wish I could remember what the heck I was dreaming!

You know what would REALLY be nice? Lucid dreaming. Dreams where you know you are dreaming and you can also direct the narrative. I takes work to learn how (I have not mastered the art.), but reliable testimony indicates it is possible.

It's on my bucket list of skills to master. Sight-reading for piano, slide quitar (my fretting hand is in a splint for the next month), etc.
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Re: Sexual dreams?

Postby AKJess » Sun Sep 24, 2023 3:02 pm

3rd-Nut wrote:I don't remember having sexual dreams since RP 17 years a go. I would say 'Wet dreams', but since there is no longer semen maybe that is why. Just wondering if it is just me?


I have sexual dreams often, likely because my wife enjoys teasing me to no end. Every now and then I have a dream that results in orgasm, maybe twice a year at most. I actually love those dreams and wish I could make them happen on demand.
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Re: Sexual dreams?

Postby Lost Sheep » Sun Sep 24, 2023 3:37 pm

AKJess wrote:
3rd-Nut wrote:I don't remember having sexual dreams since RP 17 years a go. I would say 'Wet dreams', but since there is no longer semen maybe that is why. Just wondering if it is just me?


I have sexual dreams often, likely because my wife enjoys teasing me to no end. Every now and then I have a dream that results in orgasm, maybe twice a year at most. I actually love those dreams and wish I could make them happen on demand.

Investigate "Lucid Dreaming".
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Re: Sexual dreams?

Postby ThailandBound » Thu Nov 23, 2023 4:37 pm

I’m traveling right now and in a hotel. This morning i woke up in that semi dream state visualizing sex with the girlfriend. So, i rubbed one out.

The great part is that i haven’t used my implanted dick for sex in awhile. Only cycling. I was pleased to note the profound return of sensation after months of increasingly improving sensation and return from being numb down below.

Told the GF. She was pleased.
Active, athletic 63 years old. Sexually, still 33 in my mind and spirit. Pills and injections all worked, until they didn’t. Diagnosed with veinous leakage in 2022. Coloplast Titan. 22 CM. No RTE. Peno-scrotal. Implanted 1/4/23. Dr. Clavell.


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