Penis red raw after sex. Help.

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Re: Penis red raw after sex. Help.

Postby Old Guy » Fri Oct 13, 2023 7:20 am

jump.ship wrote:
Thank you for this. That is really interesting about the antibiotic coating! Never thought of it. Did it seep into the top layer of the skin... did they say it is a known thing? I will look at the cream.


Yes, the cylinders are washed in an antibiotic coating before inserting them into you. It seemed to penetrate to the outer layer although it left no sign of irritation, no redness.
Somewhere on FT a person described exactly what I felt, and what their doctor diagnosed. At the time this was happening to me COVID had just started so I never followed up with my doc. I've always had issues with prescription meds, antibiotics especially. Aspercream helped me a lot. Just need to wash it off before sex.
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Re: Penis red raw after sex. Help.

Postby Gt1956 » Fri Oct 13, 2023 7:51 am

I think that the AMS are coated. Titans have a slightly absorbent layer so that the dr can soak the implant in his favorite antibiotic fluid.
If your signature line is correct? You're approaching 1 year with your implant. Any coating on it should be gone by now.
I know that this might sound silly. If it is an allergic reaction? I'd suggest taking an antihistamine to see if that might knock the reaction back some.
Cheap test & what have you got to lose?
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Re: Penis red raw after sex. Help.

Postby jump.ship » Fri Oct 13, 2023 8:40 am

Spontaneous1 wrote:Jump ship, I don't want to assume anything, but how hard are you inflating? If you're really pushing 100% try deflating a little, if this doesn't apply to your situation, I'm sorry, just my $.02.

If this started right after the implant, and you haven't changed anything else, then I would say it's implant related somehow.

How long has it been since you got your implant? Possibly an allergic reaction to the implant itself when inflated. Have you tried masturbating at only 40-50% inflation, if so what happened?

Please don't beat me up for any dumb suggestions, I 'm just grasping at straws trying to help, I wish you well.


This Jan it will have been two years. I have experimented with it deflated a little. Maybe I should do it completely deflated to test it. This could be somehow linked cos I cant actually inflate it 100% as its too sore. I get pain at the base of the shaft... as if the implant is too thick. But I need to experiment more on inflation levels perhaps as any workaround would be welcome.

I also notice that if i get a blowjob it doesnt really get inflamed cos the mouth is soft i guess!

Thank you for your 2 cents... i want all suggestions!
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Re: Penis red raw after sex. Help.

Postby jump.ship » Fri Oct 13, 2023 8:43 am

Old Guy wrote:
jump.ship wrote:
Thank you for this. That is really interesting about the antibiotic coating! Never thought of it. Did it seep into the top layer of the skin... did they say it is a known thing? I will look at the cream.


Yes, the cylinders are washed in an antibiotic coating before inserting them into you. It seemed to penetrate to the outer layer although it left no sign of irritation, no redness.
Somewhere on FT a person described exactly what I felt, and what their doctor diagnosed. At the time this was happening to me COVID had just started so I never followed up with my doc. I've always had issues with prescription meds, antibiotics especially. Aspercream helped me a lot. Just need to wash it off before sex.


Ok so people have had that. I think cos im two years out almost and that its not an issue outside of sex that its not related to the coating. Regarding the cream, I would need something to put on while having sex to stop it becoming inflamed, not day to day so much. Interesting though.
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Re: Penis red raw after sex. Help.

Postby jump.ship » Fri Oct 13, 2023 8:46 am

Gt1956 wrote:I think that the AMS are coated. Titans have a slightly absorbent layer so that the dr can soak the implant in his favorite antibiotic fluid.
If your signature line is correct? You're approaching 1 year with your implant. Any coating on it should be gone by now.
I know that this might sound silly. If it is an allergic reaction? I'd suggest taking an antihistamine to see if that might knock the reaction back some.
Cheap test & what have you got to lose?


I am approaching two years. And yes i dont think its the coating then either now cos of that. An allergy - but it only comes on after friction is applied so im thinking its not? It looks like an allergy though - an allergy or some awful STI - not very attractive.
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Re: Penis red raw after sex. Help.

Postby Jage64 » Fri Oct 13, 2023 11:00 am

Are you engaging with the same partner? Could be a chemistry difference between you and your partner if it's the same person every time.
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Re: Penis red raw after sex. Help.

Postby jump.ship » Fri Oct 13, 2023 1:26 pm

Jage64 wrote:Are you engaging with the same partner? Could be a chemistry difference between you and your partner if it's the same person every time.


No. It happens even during solo masturbating in the early days before i ever had sex with someone with the implant. I am also single. I should note that I sleep with men and women, mostly men. It does not always involve penetration. Like I say oral is easy on it. But someone using their hand is a no go cos it flares up easy that way.

A workaround is to engage in lots of foreplay with minimal friction to my own penis. Then I can have sex for 15-30 mins without pain. It is very red by this point, but I can kind of hide it afterwards. I never see the same person again so its no big deal.

However, I want to date now. I think getting someone to be ok with the implant is enough to worry about. Saying 'hey ive an implant AND ALSO my skin also goes this gross red color when i have sex' is something i want to avoid. Lol.
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Re: Penis red raw after sex. Help.

Postby Old Guy » Fri Oct 13, 2023 2:47 pm

You are definitely way past time when the antibiotic coating would have dissipated by now. So that can't be the reason. My only thought is you are allergic to the cylinder material. Have you tried an allergy med?
I found applying Aspercream daily helped, effects lasted even after showering it off. It also made me last longer too.
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Re: Penis red raw after sex. Help.

Postby Spontaneous1 » Fri Oct 13, 2023 2:55 pm

Jump, did they test you for allergic reactions to the different materials used with the implant before implanting you?
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Re: Penis red raw after sex. Help.

Postby jump.ship » Sat Oct 14, 2023 4:53 am

Old Guy wrote:You are definitely way past time when the antibiotic coating would have dissipated by now. So that can't be the reason. My only thought is you are allergic to the cylinder material. Have you tried an allergy med?
I found applying Aspercream daily helped, effects lasted even after showering it off. It also made me last longer too.


I have not tried any meds. Are you talking about over the counter ones just? No Dr has mentioned it.

Spontaneous1 wrote:Jump, did they test you for allergic reactions to the different materials used with the implant before implanting you?


Is testing before implant a thing... Anyone ever done this? Are the AMS and Titan different materials?
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