Positions for sex wit him big stomach

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AKJess
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Re: Positions for sex wit him big stomach

Postby AKJess » Tue Oct 17, 2023 3:48 pm

This can be an issue for a variety of reasons, not just physical attributes of a partner. Sometimes an injury or other factors may necessitate using alternative positions. When I broke my back years ago, I could not do missionary for a long time and her riding cowgirl was off the books because I couldn't take any weight being placed on my hips when I was healing - even though she doesnt weigh much.Doggy style was a good option, but there were times she wanted penetration while laying on her back. We do like the legs around the neck...but again, when I was healing it put pressure on my spine. We ended up buying a wedge pillow (liberator is the name) and she was able to lift her hips up to where I can easily enter her from the front while maintaining the comfort of doggy style. It also works great for doggy because it supports her in the face down ass up position comfortably.
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Re: Positions for sex wit him big stomach

Postby Otter46 » Wed Oct 18, 2023 9:57 am

Lost Sheep wrote:
Otter46 wrote:
williamb wrote:Maybe try her on her back, her butt at the edge of the bed and you standing and holding her legs up, then get after it.


Oh man, completely forgot about that!! Makin this too hard :lol: mayb!!
Thanks for all of ur replies guys, appreciate it so much. Need to get after it!!
Thnks again!!

Dave

An additional variation is to put her knees over your shoulders and let her cross her ankles behind your neck. In that way you can easily lift her for better positioning. If her legs are too short to reach your shoulders, having her calves over your forearms can work, too.

p.s. I just noticed that I participated in this thread before with a similar suggestion, but leave this for the added "calves over forearms" suggestion.


Thanks Sheep for ur suggestion, appreciate it it a ton!! Take care & stay well.

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Re: Positions for sex wit him big stomach

Postby Old Guy » Wed Oct 18, 2023 11:08 am

My 2¢ worth. Try what I call the X position. She lays on her back, you on your side. Scoot in as she lifts her legs over you. My wife will pull on me with her legs as she gets close. Get really deep that way.
My other suggestion is a sex swing. As long as you have a suitable place to mount it all is good. Hardware on ours is rated for 1200# if weight is a concern. Wife is able to sit/lay in the swing while I stand. For my bad back it's been great.
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Re: Positions for sex wit him big stomach

Postby Lost Sheep » Wed Oct 18, 2023 1:27 pm

Old Guy wrote:My 2¢ worth. Try what I call the X position. She lays on her back, you on your side. Scoot in as she lifts her legs over you. My wife will pull on me with her legs as she gets close. Get really deep that way.
My other suggestion is a sex swing. As long as you have a suitable place to mount it all is good. Hardware on ours is rated for 1200# if weight is a concern. Wife is able to sit/lay in the swing while I stand. For my bad back it's been gre(edited for focus).

My partner and I use what I also call the X position (and she calls the "leg over"). She lays on her back, me on my side. I scoot in as she lifts one leg (the one nearest me) over my waist/hips and I put my upper leg between her legs and my penis in her vagina. Our other legs are straight down toward the foot of the bed. She can grab my thigh (which is now laying on her chest) and pull me into her, assisting my thrusting. At other times, my thigh can extend over her hip, avoiding compression of her belly.

We get very deep penetration and this is very energy-conserving for both of us. We have even fallen asleep so joined and been able to continue coitus when we awake.
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Re: Positions for sex wit him big stomach

Postby Old Guy » Wed Oct 18, 2023 2:29 pm

Lost Sheep wrote:My partner and I use what I also call the X position (and she calls the "leg over"). She lays on her back, me on my side. I scoot in as she lifts one leg (the one nearest me) over my waist/hips and I put my upper leg between her legs and my penis in her vagina. Our other legs are straight down toward the foot of the bed. She can grab my thigh (which is now laying on her chest) and pull me into her, assisting my thrusting. At other times, my thigh can extend over her hip, avoiding compression of her belly.

We get very deep penetration and this is very energy-conserving for both of us. We have even fallen asleep so joined and been able to continue coitus when we awake.


It is a nice position to use. Not sure how or why I got to calling it the X position, but I imagine that's what we look like after hooking up. I like to lay there still inside her for a while afterwards too, and this position is great for that. Especially with the implant and not having to worry about going soft and falling out.
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Re: Positions for sex wit him big stomach

Postby Lost Sheep » Wed Oct 18, 2023 3:21 pm

Old Guy wrote:It is a nice position to use. Not sure how or why I got to calling it the X position, but I imagine that's what we look like after hooking up. I like to lay there still inside her for a while afterwards too, and this position is great for that. Especially with the implant and not having to worry about going soft and falling out.

Yep, I call it the "X" position because of the arrangement of the centerlines of our bodies. "Cross" position was also a candidate name.

"Fallout" was always a problem, even before ED. After orgasm, staying inside my lover was never possible, especially if she squeezed. If there was one undeniable, clear and absolute advantage of an implant, that would be it. Competing for first place with ability to penetrate at all.
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