Shorter after Surgery?

[still_crazy]

Yeah, I was shocked at the length I lost too. Could barely grab it to pee. My surgeon didn't mention it. She just said I wouldn't be able to get a natural erection. I started VED exercises about six weeks post op, going very easy at first, taking care not to rip the stitches in the urethra. I've continued to do them daily, and the exercises have helped quite a lot. Although still smaller than before when flaccid, I think my erect size is almost back to normal...that pump is your friend.

[Robert1204]

I had nerve sparing robotic prostatectomy two years ago and no one explained the loss of length and girth. I learned about it on this site. I've lost 1.5 inch and since I was below average in that area prior to the surgery, I feel like I'm really at a disadvantage. I would like to get the implant, can that give me any growth?

[tomas1]

Get a VED and use it every day. That should help you get back some of what you lost.
If you get an implant, it would be great to have a good surgeon who can size you mildly aggressively.

[jpcp01628]

Hello Everyone,
I too experienced significant shortening of my penis after RARP in Jun 2020. From what I have read, loss of penis length following prostatectomy is a pervasive condition that the medical profession has been disingenuous about. As mention previously in this thread, I have been dealing with "frightened turtle" penis since surgery. My "frightened turtle" is about 1 inch long; I was a normal 3.25 inches pre-surgery. I am 100% impotent so my penis is flaccid all the time. Restriction like underwear and just bending over in daily activity causes my penis to retract. I am circumcised, but it looks like am uncircumcised.

I have a pelvic floor physical therapist since 3 months post surgery. In addition to incontinence exercises in the early post surgery months. she has helped me develop a penis rehabilitation therapy plan to address my shortened penis. This plan includes pumping, penis pulling and masturbating. All these activities help keep my penis tissue exercised. It really is a "use it or lose it" proposition.

There is a great risk of Peyronie's disease which is something you DO NOT want. From what I've read and what my physical therapist tells me, Peyronie's can come on quickly and is stubborn to treat. It's in your best interest to do the exercises to prevent it from occurring. Penis rehabilitation therapy is an ongoing activity for me.

I am lucky to have found a knowledgeable, engaged physical therapy to help me. I will likely be under her care for a long time. Although my urologist is an excellent doctor and surgeon, I was not advised of a shortened penis as a post surgery outcome.

Good Luck,
JP

[azmike]

In addition to daily VED a penis extender might help. Penile traction therapy (PTT) has helped many and is supported by medical studies.

[tomas1]

[quote="jpcp01628"]Hello Everyone,
I too experienced significant shortening of my penis after RARP in Jun 2020. From what I have read, loss of penis length following prostatectomy is a pervasive condition that the medical profession has been disingenuous about. As mention previously in this thread, I have been dealing with "frightened turtle" penis since surgery. My "frightened turtle" is about 1 inch long; I was a normal 3.25 inches pre-surgery. I am 100% impotent so my penis is flaccid all the time. Restriction like underwear and just bending over in daily activity causes my penis to retract. I am circumcised, but it looks like am uncircumcised.

I have a pelvic floor physical therapist since 3 months post surgery. In addition to incontinence exercises in the early post surgery months. she has helped me develop a penis rehabilitation therapy plan to address my shortened penis. This plan includes pumping, penis pulling and masturbating. All these activities help keep my penis tissue exercised. It really is a "use it or lose it" proposition.

There is a great risk of Peyronie's disease which is something you DO NOT want. From what I've read and what my physical therapist tells me, Peyronie's can come on quickly and is stubborn to treat. It's in your best interest to do the exercises to prevent it from occurring. Penis rehabilitation therapy is an ongoing activity for me.

I am lucky to have found a knowledgeable, engaged physical therapy to help me. I will likely be under her care for a long time. Although my urologist is an excellent doctor and surgeon, I was not advised of a shortened penis as a post surgery outcome.

Have you considered getting a penile implant?
Using the VED is also definitely necessary to maintain, or possibly, get length.

[CanGetItUpButNotOff]

This may come off as insensitive. (I have become very defensive, almost hurt, when my wife tries to suggest that my ED doesn't matter - it definitely matters to me. So I apologize if I give the wrong perception by this question.) But, if you're in a committed relationship and "impressing" a lady is not necessary, why do we care about post-surgery length/girth?

My wife is the opposite of a "size-queen" so this may be easier for me than other men, but my attitude is that she formed her initial opinion of my manhood waaay back and if I've lost some size due to unforseen life events, that's not going to change her view of me.

If you feel the need to flame me, I get it. But, thoughts?

[thedriver]

This may come off as insensitive. (I have become very defensive, almost hurt, when my wife tries to suggest that my ED doesn't matter - it definitely matters to me. So I apologize if I give the wrong perception by this question.) But, if you're in a committed relationship and "impressing" a lady is not necessary, why do we care about post-surgery length/girth?

My wife is the opposite of a "size-queen" so this may be easier for me than other men, but my attitude is that she formed her initial opinion of my manhood waaay back and if I've lost some size due to unforseen life events, that's not going to change her view of me.

If you feel the need to flame me, I get it. But, thoughts?

Well said,,,, total agreeance...