Inflation and Deflation in Stealth Mode?

[returntocenter]

Hey everyone,

Lots of implanted guys say they go to the bathroom to inflate and deflate when they're trying to hide it from their partner. Is it possible to do this subtly without going into a different room? I recall reading that some guys would do it while going down on a girl, and some could even inflate with on hand - but you don't hear about it a lot. Is this hard enough to conceal that people just prefer to go to the bathroom, even if it can eventually arouse suspicion? Some other questions on the topic:

1. Is it possible to deflate without squeezing your shaft, or is this always necessary? In other words, can you deflate with one hand on any implant model? I'm wondering why people don't just deflate under the bed covers after sex instead of going to the bathroom (assuming they don't particularly have to clean their own bodies up).

2. How easy is it for you to inflate with one hand? Could you do it over your boxer briefs? I could imagine inflating myself with one hand while I make out with my partner and play with her using my other hand, on the couch for example. People usually make out with their eyes closed anyway. Is this viable or just pure fantasy?

3. On average, how much time does it take to inflate yourself to a full erection? What about deflation?

Thank you.

[Iwillbeatpd]

I am 2 weeks post op, and I can definitely pump with one hand, after about 80% inflated, I need two hands for the last final pumps. But even 80% is plenty hard for sex. Takes maybe 60 seconds. But if I was with a girl I’d probably pre pump about 5-7 times so I’m semi hard already, making it even quicker to pump up. Also, I can pump while lying down. Just make sure your briefs are loose enough to feel the pump and you could probably pump while watching a movie or something. Im going to try it soon when I can. I’d imagine after a while I’ll be a pro at doing it discreetly.

Even before my implant, I went to the bathroom to flush my condom down the toilet right after sex, and sometimes clean off. I’m going to continue this trend post implant so I’ll just deflate there. However, many here do deflate without squeezing their shaft.

[Old Guy]

Inflation is easier to do in stealth mode, but deflating usually takes both hands to get fully deflated. The biggest thing to learn is how to grasp the pump bulb with one hand so when you squeeze it, it doesn't go flying off and smack on the boys. In my 4 years of being implanted I've only done one handed a few times, and had the boys smacked a few times. But then I don't need to hide it. Deflating is pushing the button while squeezing the shaft. Two hands for sure, although some guys are able to do it one handed but I can't figure out how.
My thought is once you have sex with a partner, the ability to go as long as you want will make them crave more. And they aren't going to care how you do it.

[Gt1956]

Returntocenter, I'll presume that you have some sexual experience. After sex I just pass my hand over my dick as I'm getting comfortable in bed. When I feel the button I give it a push. My AMS button is on the top side. I can just firmly slide a finger over it & it'll go into deflate mode. I have NEVER needed two hands or to grip my pump to release. This gives a slow loss of an erection. Basically the same as when sex was over pre ED. I allow my cylinders to deflate as much or as little as they want. In the past I have tried squeezing but didn't get a much smaller flacid.

Inflation can be done any way you want. Show up erect works. Show up partially erect works. Laying next to her chatting or caressing her, occasionally giving a pump works good also. One hand pumping is easy for my AMS. Learning the best finger positions to get the max leverage on the bulb it the key strategy. I counted the pumps needed last week. At about 12 the bulb was getting hard. About 5 or so of progressively smaller pumps was all that was needed. Maybe 1 last partial before sex.

Having sex with a woman pre ED isn't scripted. Sometimes you start erect, lose part of it & get hard again. Slowly getting hard by using a few pumps as foreplay is happening looks totally normal.

The fear of getting an erection is a learned behaviour from having ED. Getting a pumped erection slowly over a few minutes is how erections normally happen. Lots of guys will fondle or stroke themselves prior to sex. The pumping process fits that scenario very well.

Are you letting porn make you think the men are always raging hard? If you see porn outtakes. The men are always hard because they have maxed out on shots or oral meds. Sometimes both.

[Time2Change]

I have strong hands. And for quite a while, I had to use two hands to inflate.

This was because the bulb was really hard. I had to steady the bulb with one hand while I squeezed it with the other hand. So, early on I almost always inflated before starting foreplay.

As the bulb has softened, it's become easier to inflate with one hand. So, now I'll often inflate while I'm fingering my wife or going down on her.

In order to fully deflate, I have to use two hands. I press the release button one hand and squeeze my dick with the other hand. If I only press the release button, I mostly deflate.

[returntocenter]

Inflation is easier to do in stealth mode, but deflating usually takes both hands to get fully deflated. The biggest thing to learn is how to grasp the pump bulb with one hand so when you squeeze it, it doesn't go flying off and smack on the boys. In my 4 years of being implanted I've only done one handed a few times, and had the boys smacked a few times. But then I don't need to hide it. Deflating is pushing the button while squeezing the shaft. Two hands for sure, although some guys are able to do it one handed but I can't figure out how.
My thought is once you have sex with a partner, the ability to go as long as you want will make them crave more. And they aren't going to care how you do it.

I see. To deflate, do you need to keep the button pushed down while you squeeze then?

[returntocenter]

I have strong hands. And for quite a while, I had to use two hands to inflate.

This was because the bulb was really hard. I had to steady the bulb with one hand while I squeezed it with the other hand. So, early on I almost always inflated before starting foreplay.

As the bulb has softened, it's become easier to inflate with one hand. So, now I'll often inflate while I'm fingering my wife or going down on her.

In order to fully deflate, I have to use two hands. I press the release button one hand and squeeze my dick with the other hand. If I only press the release button, I mostly deflate.

What % of deflation would you say you achieve if you just press the button as opposed to pressing and squeezing your dick too?

[Rider1400]

Hey everyone,

Lots of implanted guys say they go to the bathroom to inflate and deflate when they're trying to hide it from their partner. Is it possible to do this subtly without going into a different room? I recall reading that some guys would do it while going down on a girl, and some could even inflate with on hand - but you don't hear about it a lot. Is this hard enough to conceal that people just prefer to go to the bathroom, even if it can eventually arouse suspicion? Some other questions on the topic:

1. Is it possible to deflate without squeezing your shaft, or is this always necessary? In other words, can you deflate with one hand on any implant model? I'm wondering why people don't just deflate under the bed covers after sex instead of going to the bathroom (assuming they don't particularly have to clean their own bodies up).

It’s very easy to deflate w one hand, the only issue is it will only deflate til the pressure is equal in the cylinders and the resivour. If I just deflate to this point it leaves me with a chubby. I guess this isn’t an issue after sex for most and then when you do get up or go to the bathroom you could finish deflating.
2. How easy is it for you to inflate with one hand? Could you do it over your boxer briefs? I could imagine inflating myself with one hand while I make out with my partner and play with her using my other hand, on the couch for example. People usually make out with their eyes closed anyway. Is this viable or just pure fantasy?

At least with me and my Titan it was possible but very difficult at first for the first 3-4 months. But as your cylinders, the pump, and the implants break in they get much softer and much easier to inflate. I’ve always assumed it’s a combination of your hardware getting broke in and the mussels building up in your dominant hand to pump it up. I can and usually do inflate with one hand and only use two hands if I’m in a hurry. I can inflate thru my briefs or even thru my jeans or sweats as long as they are loose enough to pull the pump down or out enough to get your fingers around it. My only issue is I have an old school titan genesis pump and it will squeak a little if you pump it fast. I can however do it discreetly if I take my time and push in slow on it.
3. On average, how much time does it take to inflate yourself to a full erection? What about deflation?

Takes about a minute or maybe a minute and a half to inflate, probably a little less to deflate. With the genesis you must hold the deflate button in the whole time your deflating. With the one touch I believe you push it in and it will let your dick deflate til pressure equals out.
Thank you.

[Time2Change]

I have strong hands. And for quite a while, I had to use two hands to inflate.

This was because the bulb was really hard. I had to steady the bulb with one hand while I squeezed it with the other hand. So, early on I almost always inflated before starting foreplay.

As the bulb has softened, it's become easier to inflate with one hand. So, now I'll often inflate while I'm fingering my wife or going down on her.

In order to fully deflate, I have to use two hands. I press the release button one hand and squeeze my dick with the other hand. If I only press the release button, I mostly deflate.

What % of deflation would you say you achieve if you just press the button as opposed to pressing and squeezing your dick too?

60-70%

[eddie054]

When deflating it makes noise.