anecdotal blind girth test, YMMV.

[Jage64]

I'll start by saying that my wife is 58 yrs old, and she's in terrific shape. She's not overweight or 'sloppy', she keeps herself toned, taut and strong by exercising/pilates 5 days a week. We frequent nude resorts together and she stacks up very well against 40 somethings by any measure. (I'm the sloppy one)

The other night during one of our sessions, after about 20 minutes or so of different positions and levels of enthusiasm, I reached over to my nightstand where I had hidden one of those "girth enhancers". If you haven't seen them, these are soft gel-like sleeves that you stretch to fit over your penis and there's a back loop you put around the back of your balls so it doesn't slide off the end. This sleeve is about 6" long, so it fits snugly against my body and ends just before my corona. When it's on, the head of my penis is the least girthy part of my dick.

I was able to slip it on quickly due to the lube we had already been using, and continued with the activities at hand. We moved to other positions, but I kept my wife's hands busy so she wouldn't reach down there to discover it.

When we had both completed, I asked her if she had noticed anything different. She had not. I then showed her my still hard dick with this thing on it. She couldn't tell the difference.

Adding this thing probably added an inch or more in circumference to my implanted penis. Far more than I could ever get with injections or larger implant cylinders, and my wife could not tell.

Now, many of you will say it's because I have a tired old 58 yr old wife that doesn't know any better and her vagina is worked over and worn out. I don't agree with that, but it doesn't matter. I think this conversation over increments of girth is of little consequence. We as men think a thicker dick makes all the difference, when I think in reality 99% of women would not be able to tell you the difference between 5.5" and 6.5" in a blind dick test, and almost all of us fall within those numbers without further enhancement. Furthermore, most implantees are having sex with people in this age group and/or beyond, their wives, girlfriends, hookups.

***TBH, I tried this because of all the talk of girth on FT. I wanted to see if my wife would/could feel noticeably added girth. These are gel-like, so maybe a bit softer than actual penis flesh, but they don't squish down to nothing. These are even ribbed and have nubs to supposedly add sensation. $10 on Amazon and I had a couple of enhancers in 48 hours. If you're in a position to do so, I'd try something like this with your partner before I had injections or any other enhancer done to make sure it's worth it.

[ThailandBound]

The scientific method in action!

That was a good read Jage!

[Jage64]

The scientific method in action!

That was a good read Jage!

I remember buying these things many years ago when I started with ED, I was cognizant of losing some of my hardness and size, but could still have PIV sex regularly. The problem was that the moment I put one on the the squeezing pressure would force the blood out of my dick and I'd end up with the sorriest looking gel covered weenie you ever saw.

It was very fun to put one of these on and know not a single thing would change, except for girth....and then to show her afterwards while still hard and ready for more. That was a nice perk of the scientific method.

[Gt1956]

Jage64, nice report but I'm not sure her experience would be universal amongst all women. I don't mean to say negative things about your wife. Sounds like you've had a good marriage to a good woman. This isn't taking a shot at any women. Just like men, some are just "different".

I understand that my story jumps between girth & hardness. But a woman that can feel one should be able to feel the other. My wife could tell how excited I was by my hardness. Some times she'd comment that I was harder/larger than normal. "You've got a good one" was the usually comment. At least in my case, I'm pretty sure increased hardness was also a slight increase in girth. In fact her timeline for the beginning of my ED is several years prior to mine. She could tell my erection quality was declining.

A few times during our marriage I was able to see her face as I was getting close to cumming. She could tell, she'd get what I used to call a silly grin on her face. She could feel the increasing hardness/girth before ejaculation.

Women come in sizes. There is absolutely no way my wife could accommodate a large dildo or fisting. Despite having no problem with a quick vaginal delivery of an almost 8lb baby as a very young woman.

She's from a family with lots of girls that had quite a few girls. Because of birth order. Some of her nieces are nearly her age. I have heard several times the hen talk about gyno visits. A common complaint is the size of the speculum tool for pap smears. It never fails an older female voice will say they had the same problem, "ask for the smaller speculum". Those family talks were good to listen carefully to from the next room. Lots to learn from women that they otherwise wouldn't generally say in mixed company.

Birthing labor for very young women is frequently difficult for very young mothers. Our 7lb 14oz first child was born just before her sixteenth birthday. Maybe 2 hours of labor. I'm not aware of a birth in her family that took very long. I believe that genetically her family is a bit different.

My wife can kegle so hard that I can't enter her. She has "access denied" me as a trick before. She never did kegle exercises to develope this. She had it as a teen. Yes, it is a very nice feature to get. Playfully she has weaponized it. Only to quickly relent.

Tmi, prior to her hysterectomy, so maybe early 20's. We are not bathroom shy. She's sitting on the toilet. We're getting ready to go out & I see her reach for a tampon. I said hold on, you still have one in. She replies "I pushed it out already". This happened several times.

Search for "pompoir". Those technics might be enlightening. Kegles is only the surface of things that can be learned. Its interesting reading at the very least. Btw, some women report better orgasms after learning some of it. That possiblity might get a wifes attention.

Ok, last minute additions. My wife was multi orgasmic even as a young teen. Only took a couple of times for that to show up. Really impressive to a young me. Hey, lets make that happen again type of reaction. I'll never forget it. She has said many times that is what bonded her to me. She just couldn't get away from my D. I am lucky in several ways.

[Jage64]

Agreed GT1956, I don't see where I said it would be universal. As a matter of fact, I'm SURE my experience would not be universal among all women. YMMV means "your mileage may vary", I'm well aware that not all women are the same, just as our dicks are all different.

I guess my point in sharing was to inform some men that are chasing girth gains and entertaining injections and girth implants that it may not be a factor for your SO. Probably worth looking into before spending money, enduring pain and taking a risk when there may not be a payoff.

I did chuckle at the "access denied" ability, you have one strong wife, and I bet it results in some fun situations!.

[ThailandBound]

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I did chuckle at the "access denied" ability, you have one strong wife, and I bet it results in some fun situations!.

Does she have a sister?

[Rider1400]

Jage, next time try having sex before much vaginal forplay. Then after just a few minutes, slip the girth enhancer on. She would be much more likely to feel it before she gets good and stretched out. My wife must have the ultimate sensitivity in her V. She can tell if I’m maxed out on pumps or if I’m 2-3 pumps short. And unlike most on here she prefers it maxed out! She said she loves the feeling of hardness. lol may just be from all the many years of it going soft during sex prior to implant!!

[Sakabato]

Hate to be that guy but most women in my experience definitely can tell. Current girl can even tell when my erection is at its 100% because most of the time its at around 80%, but on the rare occasions when viagra does its things as it should and i achieve what an erection is supposed to be, she feels it, and she notices instantly every time and lets me know its harder and "fatter" than usual.

The difference between 80% erection girth and 100% erection girth is probably what, half an inch at most? So i think most women especially younger women would be able to instantly tell if you are suddenly packing a coke can down there

[Gt1956]

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I did chuckle at the "access denied" ability, you have one strong wife, and I bet it results in some fun situations!.

Does she have a sister?

Actually she does. The cold as ice one is still alive. She is mentioned in the story. Just a fricken bargain waiting to be swept up. Literally the most persistent liar I have ever met....bar no one ever.

Jage64, I did hesitant posting for a long time because it meant posting lots of personal experience & could easily be taken the wrong way. I do understand your ymmv & I agree the quest for girth seems odd to me.

The access denied was pretty funny the first time she did it. I lost some of my erection so I told her she screwed up. It wasn't going to work now. She said yes its still hard enough. She reached down & flipped my dick in. As she closed her eyes she accused me of tricking her with a partial erection.

Btw, she really was 15 when we got married. We have never hidden the truth from our kids. Extended families & friends of any significance know also.

You guys need to search the net for kegle weight lifting. Apparently it is a real thing. I think the one woman has lifted 14kg. To use in the USA, thats around 30 pounds. There is a video online of some British "talent" type show with a woman that demostrates her talents. The plug she inserts isn't very large either.

If the internet crashes tonight don't blame me. You guys did it.

[Jage64]

Jage, next time try having sex before much vaginal forplay. Then after just a few minutes, slip the girth enhancer on. She would be much more likely to feel it before she gets good and stretched out.

Great, now I have to find where I put it and try this, there may be some merit to your suggestion.

In the name of science I'll see what I can do.