Telling a potential partner about implant

[artful todger]

I'm having an online long distance relationship with someone and it;s become pretty intense and we'll meet in the new year. we've gone from just declaring our love to telling each other what we'll do to each other when we meet. And because of what she's said and she is a very highly sexed women, i have no doubt she will discover my implant. My pump is highish and my cylinders go way into my glans and if not fully engorged or when fully pumped you can feel them easily.

I don't know whether it's best to just tell her now about my implant journey, we are so open and honest about everything and avoid the weird situation when she feels it. What do you guys think? and have you experienced similar situations, either telling someone , or them discovering it during sex?

[Stupid]

I would not unless you had too no by

[newbie443]

This has been addressed many times before. Keeping it secret and some other searches you might think of should come up with results. I am an older man and dating at my age has many women with issues also. With me when I meet someone and they seemed to be someone I wanted to date I would tell the women that sex is part of what I was looking for in a relationship. That it was important enough to me that I had surgery so I could have that part of a relationship. Women that are sexually active have had experience with men who have had trouble at one time or another. Stress or alcohol or just for no reason men have had trouble with sex at one time or another. I just explain that I now will have any trouble with having or keeping an erection as long as I want. I had one ask about just having sex with her and being sexually attracted to her. I explained that if I did not want to be there I would be somewhere else.

Sounds like to me you are at the point with her to talk about this. All the women I have meet that wanted sex in a relationship had a very good response to me having an implant. As I posted there are women at my age with issues that are just looking for a man to be with and are not interested in sex. Those women I did not date for long after I found this out as I was looking for sex as part of my relationship.

[Gt1956]

Newbie443, very good post. If you're wanting a sexual relationship. At some point just lay out that you wanted that in your future enough that you've endured some uncomfortable medical treatments. Let that be enough, if she wants details, that might be a talk for a future time.

Btw, you care to report on how many women are looking to date but are not interested is being sexual? I've kind of wondered if some women think being low key sexual is a strategy to avoid the pump & dump guys.

Maybe having an implant & using your strategy could help sort the "no sex" women from the pile.

[newbie443]

Many women after menopause have trouble with dryness and lack of desire. There are medical treatments but like male ED treatments they are expensive and troublesome. Other women however are looking for men who can still have sex. I date one women that said no sex for the hope that she was one that was looking to avoid what you call "pump and dump". I dated her for a while. She lived in a large old house and had renters for much of the house and was looking for someone to spend time with and help take care of the house. She said no sex at the beginning and did not waver from that even after a month. We got along and I enjoyed doing things with her. I guess that was the reason I dated her as long as I did. The no sex in the end was the reason I moved on to look for others.

[Witheringhog]

I'm having an online long distance relationship with someone and it;s become pretty intense and we'll meet in the new year. we've gone from just declaring our love to telling each other what we'll do to each other when we meet. And because of what she's said and she is a very highly sexed women, i have no doubt she will discover my implant. My pump is highish and my cylinders go way into my glans and if not fully engorged or when fully pumped you can feel them easily.

I don't know whether it's best to just tell her now about my implant journey, we are so open and honest about everything and avoid the weird situation when she feels it. What do you guys think? and have you experienced similar situations, either telling someone , or them discovering it during sex?

I would tell her after the first or second hookup, once she knows how well it works and how nice it feels to you, she will be happy for the always reliable cock…. Just my 2 cents

[Rider1400]

In my opinion I would tell her. Especially if you are considering a long term relationship. She would likely be curious and want details. Go for it. If it turns her off then it wasn’t meant to be anyway. Better meet being prepared than being surprised.

[Bushpig]

It is very early days so i wouldn't tell her. She may think you are some sort of freak and have a change of heart about you.
It's important that she gets to know you as a person first. If she asks after the first session then ok tell her otherwise i would tell her after a few months.

[RoboCock69]

Always bang her first. Get her off so hard she forgets her name. She won't care what's powering your dick after that. Just that she gets it hard and often.

[BigJoe8]

I am sorry if I offend anybody concerning this post.... But you men need to grow UP!!!

Did you not read the post? He said that he is in a long distance relationship and they have spoke at length about SEX! He already knows she is Very Highly Sexual!
So, Hell Yes tell her you have an implant and that your going to be able to rock her world when you get her into bed!