What’s the longest you have lasted?

[Bent Ben]

Last night my wife and I went about 45 mins of penetration. She orgasmed several times and in the last 15 minutes I could tell she was done but I had to concentrate to cum. I have found that my sensitivity is much reduced after implantation. It still feels good but different. If anything Im not cumming fast enough…
I never had problems making partners orgasm at least after 25yo, not bragging, just realized that I was not a stud, women didn’t naturally find me attractive or sexy so I had to up my game and make sure when I talked my way in Id get repeat business. I had to be a good lover because my options were limited.
I have found that women are usually done in 15-20 minutes. Yes some women like to fuck all night but by in large I have found you can leave them shaking if you give plenty of foreplay, clitoral stimulation and once you find the rhythm that works for them just stay the course and dont stop they will cum.
The implant has done a few things beyond erections to help me. Agains Im a bit desensitized so I can better control my orgasm. It is rock hard, I fuck at 100% inflation, my wife loves it. I asked last night if it was too hard when she made a comment about how hard it is and she smiled and said “no, you dont even have to move and Ill come from how it feels so hard”. Thats a boost!
Heres the best thing though and where I would suggest you focus, Im not worried about losing my erection (or cumming to fast, in fact I dont even think about cumming now until I need to wrap it up and get it over with!). I can spend time relaxed and on quality foreplay that gets my wife off not just wet and wet enough to fuck quickly before I lose my erection. The power in giving women a good sexual experience is in the time we spend around penetration not the actual penetration.

[Gt1956]

Bentben, I think you've described the issue very well. I've seen shows & read internet comments. Women generally want more foreplay rather than longer fucking. When women say what they like, you should listen to them. They're giving you pro level tips.

[Stayingstrong]

Last night my wife and I went about 45 mins of penetration. She orgasmed several times and in the last 15 minutes I could tell she was done but I had to concentrate to cum. I have found that my sensitivity is much reduced after implantation. It still feels good but different. If anything Im not cumming fast enough…
I never had problems making partners orgasm at least after 25yo, not bragging, just realized that I was not a stud, women didn’t naturally find me attractive or sexy so I had to up my game and make sure when I talked my way in Id get repeat business. I had to be a good lover because my options were limited.
I have found that women are usually done in 15-20 minutes. Yes some women like to fuck all night but by in large I have found you can leave them shaking if you give plenty of foreplay, clitoral stimulation and once you find the rhythm that works for them just stay the course and dont stop they will cum.
The implant has done a few things beyond erections to help me. Agains Im a bit desensitized so I can better control my orgasm. It is rock hard, I fuck at 100% inflation, my wife loves it. I asked last night if it was too hard when she made a comment about how hard it is and she smiled and said “no, you dont even have to move and Ill come from how it feels so hard”. Thats a boost!
Heres the best thing though and where I would suggest you focus, Im not worried about losing my erection (or cumming to fast, in fact I dont even think about cumming now until I need to wrap it up and get it over with!). I can spend time relaxed and on quality foreplay that gets my wife off not just wet and wet enough to fuck quickly before I lose my erection. The power in giving women a good sexual experience is in the time we spend around penetration not the actual penetration.

I could have written this post. It is very much my mindset, opinion, and experience.
I enjoy the feeling of sex but also have a delayed ejaculation. My biggest pleasure is the sexual power I feel when I know I am pleasuring a woman and she is making her uncontrollable moaning and whimpering noises that women unconsciously can't control up until they go over the edge and orgasm spasmodically.
The moaning and whimpering during penetration is actually what helps me finally get off

[Old Guy]

I know I've gone for close to an hour before. The wife was done in by then, had orgasmed several times. I had to quit fucking and finish with one of my toys. When my implant was new my sensitivity was decreased and it would take me 30+ minutes to get off.
Now after 4 years it's like it used to be, sometimes I can get off too quick, other times it can take a while. Depends on when the last time was mostly, but not always.

[riseagain]

Well said Bent Ben, your story is the same for me. No more pressure to preform for my wife. We can really enjoy our sex time together more than ever. The sighs and moans that cum from her during sex is a great pleasure for me. There is nothing better. Thanks Dr, Hakky

[Nycflugel]

I don’t have an implant yet. But this seems like an odd question. A lot of guys with implants after cycling etc have been able to last over an hour being pumped. Each person finds what percentage of the pump is good for them and the partner.

If you cum fast …like in 10 min or 2. Who cares your dick is implanted and you will be able to last longer. Use your new tool to your advantage.

Have fun

[Gt1956]

I don’t have an implant yet. But this seems like an odd question. A lot of guys with implants after cycling etc have been able to last over an hour being pumped. Each person finds what percentage of the pump is good for them and the partner.

If you cum fast …like in 10 min or 2. Who cares your dick is implanted and you will be able to last longer. Use your new tool to your advantage.

Have fun

You do need to factor in that after the male orgasm. There can be a lack of motivation to continue thrusting. That is something that might cause the sex to end even though an erection is still present.

[Buzzer]

With my wife penetration sex lasts about 30-35 minutes. We typically use cowgirl position. I like that a lot because I can see the expression on her face plus I get to massage her tits. We have gone an hour once, that was wonderful. If after 30 minutes I have not cum my wife will extract and grab my dick in her hands and massage me well until I cum. She has told me that if I do not cum from the fucking she can't hold the cowgirl position longer without cramping. But she has told me after she has had her orgasms that it really gets her off watching me react as she vigorously tugs on my dick and she likes to watch the cum eject from the tip. I had no idea she liked that as much as she does.

After this she likes to hold my dick against her pussy and clit and and rub the cum all around for a little while. It is very nice.

I wish my wife would do doggy style, but she won't do it.

Bill

[Buzzer]

With my wife penetration sex lasts about 30-35 minutes. We typically use cowgirl position. I like that a lot because I can see the expression on her face plus I get to massage her tits. We have gone an hour once, that was wonderful. If after 30 minutes I have not cum my wife will extract and grab my dick in her hands and massage me well until I cum. She has told me that if I do not cum from the fucking she can't hold the cowgirl position longer without cramping. But she has told me after she has had her orgasms that it really gets her off watching me react as she vigorously tugs on my dick and she likes to watch the cum eject from the tip. I had no idea she liked that as much as she does.

After this she likes to hold my dick against her pussy and clit and and rub the cum all around for a little while. It is very nice.

I wish my wife would do doggy style, but she won't do it.

Bill