Trouble with orgasms

[frank66665]

I have the classic titan

I often pump during sex while they don't look at me, with paid girls, you can't hear anything, I don't know if the classic pump is much louder, but if you give small pumps I think it makes less noise

[Alex258]

Hello brothers and Happy New years!

I know this topic has been discussed a good bit, but I’m hoping to get some insight and advice to my situation. I haven’t posted about this because my sexual adventures have been sporadic with different women not really seeing them more than twice.
Recently, I have begun to see a young lady a bit more often and things have really been progressing towards a relationship. She does not know I’m implanted, but I did tell her I had surgery on my scrotum from an accident. I explained that is lowered my sensitivity for being able to ejaculate.
I have now had sex with her 5xs with no luck. The only time I have been able to cum was by finishing myself with my hand. I did have one other woman that was able to get me off by oral.
I did not have a problem cumming before the surgery.
I’m starting to panic a little bit because this is really important to be able to finish.
I’m wondering if this is in my head or the sensitivity or probably a combination ?
I’m 6 months post op so I know it may take longer to get to the place I want to. I’ve been taking daily cialis and this has seemed to help a little.
I’ve heard of people say try trimix gel? Is this something I could get Dr. Clavell to prescribe or would I have to find a local urologist ?
Any other suggestions or advice would be appreciated.

Hey. trimix gel will not help you orgasm. At least I don't think that it will. I used it for my floppy head and it did work but it can be quite painful due to 1 of the three meds in trimix. I'm over one year in and having an orgasm is still only manual. Having plenty of sex and at times I've come close to having an orgasm inside of her . I've gotten used to it all. The sex is great and thats that. Maybe someday I'll be surprised. Its different for everyone so hoping you get there. And the gel has to be ordered by a dr and it is quite expensive. if you end up trying it, i'd suggest only getting a small amount at first to try it and please oh please begin with the smallest dosage. DO NOT go with the dr's recommended suggestion. I'm talking from experience of two years injecting and gel. Use too much, even if its a little too much.......it can be very, very painful. I eventually stopped the gel at the lowest dosage possible and now I dont even need it. The floppy head has pretty much corrected itself over time.

[frank66665]

@Alex258 if you reached orgasm regularly before the implant it is not a regular thing after 1 year to have difficulty achieving it, who was your implantologist

[Witheringhog]

Hello brothers and Happy New years!

I know this topic has been discussed a good bit, but I’m hoping to get some insight and advice to my situation. I haven’t posted about this because my sexual adventures have been sporadic with different women not really seeing them more than twice.
Recently, I have begun to see a young lady a bit more often and things have really been progressing towards a relationship. She does not know I’m implanted, but I did tell her I had surgery on my scrotum from an accident. I explained that is lowered my sensitivity for being able to ejaculate.
I have now had sex with her 5xs with no luck. The only time I have been able to cum was by finishing myself with my hand. I did have one other woman that was able to get me off by oral.
I did not have a problem cumming before the surgery.
I’m starting to panic a little bit because this is really important to be able to finish.
I’m wondering if this is in my head or the sensitivity or probably a combination ?
I’m 6 months post op so I know it may take longer to get to the place I want to. I’ve been taking daily cialis and this has seemed to help a little.
I’ve heard of people say try trimix gel? Is this something I could get Dr. Clavell to prescribe or would I have to find a local urologist ?
Any other suggestions or advice would be appreciated.

I have battled this issue before and after implant. In my case its a mental thing. I tried fillers thinking a thicker dick would help, it did for 6 months, and maybe still helps. I tried no porn, all sorts of “natural “ vitamins and of course the standard prescription vigra Cialis.

I still have this issue once in a while. The thing that helped the most was getting in better shape, strength and lungs. Then I started masterbating to the female body instead of some fantasy. The last thing that helped, more sex. If you know 4 sure when i go to bed my wife will give it up happily, thats made the biggest difference, a fun loving wife who is dtf. I am highly interested in this subject and would love to hear from others who have had success .

[Witheringhog]

Weed and alcohol also make it much harder to Orgasm in my experience. Any prescriptions that cloud your mind could cause the same as well.

[Alex258]

@Alex258 if you reached orgasm regularly before the implant it is not a regular thing after 1 year to have difficulty achieving it, who was your implantologist

Perito did mine but understand something here. I had prostrate removed in 2020, ended with 1.5 incher for 3 years and without the prostrate, no ejaculation upon orgasms. Since the implant my orgasms are amazing. So the combination of everything I just haven't been able to orgasm when inside. I will be going for Urofill very soon and I'm hoping that this will help with having an orgasm inside of her.

[October26]

Hello brothers and Happy New years!

I know this topic has been discussed a good bit, but I’m hoping to get some insight and advice to my situation. I haven’t posted about this because my sexual adventures have been sporadic with different women not really seeing them more than twice.
Recently, I have begun to see a young lady a bit more often and things have really been progressing towards a relationship. She does not know I’m implanted, but I did tell her I had surgery on my scrotum from an accident. I explained that is lowered my sensitivity for being able to ejaculate.
I have now had sex with her 5xs with no luck. The only time I have been able to cum was by finishing myself with my hand. I did have one other woman that was able to get me off by oral.
I did not have a problem cumming before the surgery.
I’m starting to panic a little bit because this is really important to be able to finish.
I’m wondering if this is in my head or the sensitivity or probably a combination ?
I’m 6 months post op so I know it may take longer to get to the place I want to. I’ve been taking daily cialis and this has seemed to help a little.
I’ve heard of people say try trimix gel? Is this something I could get Dr. Clavell to prescribe or would I have to find a local urologist ?
Any other suggestions or advice would be appreciated.

I had the same problem and my doctor said use Cialis for daily use (now a generic and cheap), or Cabergoline, a supplement. Both helped a great deal and since the Cabergoline is so inexpensive I opted for that after a time. It is frustrating to be unable to ejaculate, especially during oral sex when my wife's exhaustion is apparent. Now 2 years out, the problem is much better. I think it also helped to regularly ejaculate (2-4 times for week), one way or another.

[Franklin22]

Hello brothers and Happy New years!

I know this topic has been discussed a good bit, but I’m hoping to get some insight and advice to my situation. I haven’t posted about this because my sexual adventures have been sporadic with different women not really seeing them more than twice.
Recently, I have begun to see a young lady a bit more often and things have really been progressing towards a relationship. She does not know I’m implanted, but I did tell her I had surgery on my scrotum from an accident. I explained that is lowered my sensitivity for being able to ejaculate.
I have now had sex with her 5xs with no luck. The only time I have been able to cum was by finishing myself with my hand. I did have one other woman that was able to get me off by oral.
I did not have a problem cumming before the surgery.
I’m starting to panic a little bit because this is really important to be able to finish.
I’m wondering if this is in my head or the sensitivity or probably a combination ?
I’m 6 months post op so I know it may take longer to get to the place I want to. I’ve been taking daily cialis and this has seemed to help a little.
I’ve heard of people say try trimix gel? Is this something I could get Dr. Clavell to prescribe or would I have to find a local urologist ?
Any other suggestions or advice would be appreciated.

I have battled this issue before and after implant. In my case its a mental thing. I tried fillers thinking a thicker dick would help, it did for 6 months, and maybe still helps. I tried no porn, all sorts of “natural “ vitamins and of course the standard prescription vigra Cialis.

I still have this issue once in a while. The thing that helped the most was getting in better shape, strength and lungs. Then I started masterbating to the female body instead of some fantasy. The last thing that helped, more sex. If you know 4 sure when i go to bed my wife will give it up happily, thats made the biggest difference, a fun loving wife who is dtf. I am highly interested in this subject and would love to hear from others who have had success .

Hog,
You make a great point about masterbating to the female body instead of other things. I have watched a good bit of porn in the past which I think could be contributing to the problem. One of my New Year’s resolution is to give up porn.

[Franklin22]

Hello brothers and Happy New years!

I know this topic has been discussed a good bit, but I’m hoping to get some insight and advice to my situation. I haven’t posted about this because my sexual adventures have been sporadic with different women not really seeing them more than twice.
Recently, I have begun to see a young lady a bit more often and things have really been progressing towards a relationship. She does not know I’m implanted, but I did tell her I had surgery on my scrotum from an accident. I explained that is lowered my sensitivity for being able to ejaculate.
I have now had sex with her 5xs with no luck. The only time I have been able to cum was by finishing myself with my hand. I did have one other woman that was able to get me off by oral.
I did not have a problem cumming before the surgery.
I’m starting to panic a little bit because this is really important to be able to finish.
I’m wondering if this is in my head or the sensitivity or probably a combination ?
I’m 6 months post op so I know it may take longer to get to the place I want to. I’ve been taking daily cialis and this has seemed to help a little.
I’ve heard of people say try trimix gel? Is this something I could get Dr. Clavell to prescribe or would I have to find a local urologist ?
Any other suggestions or advice would be appreciated.

I had the same problem and my doctor said use Cialis for daily use (now a generic and cheap), or Cabergoline, a supplement. Both helped a great deal and since the Cabergoline is so inexpensive I opted for that after a time. It is frustrating to be unable to ejaculate, especially during oral sex when my wife's exhaustion is apparent. Now 2 years out, the problem is much better. I think it also helped to regularly ejaculate (2-4 times for week), one way or another.

Did your urologist prescribe this Cabergoline?

[October26]

Hello brothers and Happy New years!

I know this topic has been discussed a good bit, but I’m hoping to get some insight and advice to my situation. I haven’t posted about this because my sexual adventures have been sporadic with different women not really seeing them more than twice.
Recently, I have begun to see a young lady a bit more often and things have really been progressing towards a relationship. She does not know I’m implanted, but I did tell her I had surgery on my scrotum from an accident. I explained that is lowered my sensitivity for being able to ejaculate.
I have now had sex with her 5xs with no luck. The only time I have been able to cum was by finishing myself with my hand. I did have one other woman that was able to get me off by oral.
I did not have a problem cumming before the surgery.
I’m starting to panic a little bit because this is really important to be able to finish.
I’m wondering if this is in my head or the sensitivity or probably a combination ?
I’m 6 months post op so I know it may take longer to get to the place I want to. I’ve been taking daily cialis and this has seemed to help a little.
I’ve heard of people say try trimix gel? Is this something I could get Dr. Clavell to prescribe or would I have to find a local urologist ?
Any other suggestions or advice would be appreciated.

I had the same problem and my doctor said use Cialis for daily use (now a generic and cheap), or Cabergoline, a supplement. Both helped a great deal and since the Cabergoline is so inexpensive I opted for that after a time. It is frustrating to be unable to ejaculate, especially during oral sex when my wife's exhaustion is apparent. Now 2 years out, the problem is much better. I think it also helped to regularly ejaculate (2-4 times for week), one way or another.

Did your urologist prescribe this Cabergoline?

It is an over the counter supplement and not doctor prescribed.