Telling a potential partner about implant

[Craigohbig]

I'm having an online long distance relationship with someone and it;s become pretty intense and we'll meet in the new year. we've gone from just declaring our love to telling each other what we'll do to each other when we meet. And because of what she's said and she is a very highly sexed women, i have no doubt she will discover my implant. My pump is highish and my cylinders go way into my glans and if not fully engorged or when fully pumped you can feel them easily.

I don't know whether it's best to just tell her now about my implant journey, we are so open and honest about everything and avoid the weird situation when she feels it. What do you guys think? and have you experienced similar situations, either telling someone , or them discovering it during sex?

I would tell her after the first or second hookup, once she knows how well it works and how nice it feels to you, she will be happy for the always reliable cock…. Just my 2 cents

Easily the best idea I’ve heard. At the least, make her think about what she’d be missing

[Flexwheeler]

I am dating a 50y/o woman. But have not a sleepover yet.
I am in the process to get an implant. Consult at Feb 2th. I have a degree of ED, where intercourse is (almost) not possible. I think to tell her that I have ED but getting an operation to fix it for good. Saying I prefer not go in detail at the moment. She is a nurse, but I hope she is not familiar with.

I think being a nurse might be a plus. Nurses these days have a tremendous amount of medical knowledge.

She's a little young for the age range I would target being a situation like this, but I don't know your age and you are already dating her and seem to like her

I would just be open and honest

I am 46

[Mark1974]

Why do you hope she is not familiar with the procedure?

Are you hoping to conceal the implant from her and just tell her you had some mystery procedure to fix your erectile function?

If so that is going to be difficult. She may respect your privacy and not talk to you about it, but I'm sure she will Google operations to fix e.d. and quickly see there aren't many alternatives

She's a 50 year old nurse, not a 27 year old waitress

[Flexwheeler]

Why do you hope she is not familiar with the procedure?

Are you hoping to conceal the implant from her and just tell her you had some mystery procedure to fix your erectile function?

If so that is going to be difficult. She may respect your privacy and not talk to you about it, but I'm sure she will Google operations to fix e.d. and quickly see there aren't many alternatives

She's a 50 year old nurse, not a 27 year old waitress

I will pm you to not hijack this topic

[Buzzer]

I am in serious conversation with a desirable lady that has expressed high interest in having sex. We have not met in person yet. She is 40 years old. I told her about the implant and she was thrilled on what it can do. Evedently she had a failed relationship with a man with ED and does not want a repeat experience. So for her a man that can fuck her until daylight is like a dream come true

Bill

[Mark1974]

I am in serious conversation with a desirable lady that has expressed high interest in having sex. We have not met in person yet. She is 40 years old. I told her about the implant and she was thrilled on what it can do. Evedently she had a failed relationship with a man with ED and does not want a repeat experience. So for her a man that can fuck her until daylight is like a dream come true

Bill

Lucky you

Sometimes I think the younger ones handle this situation better than the older ones

[artful todger]

I am in serious conversation with a desirable lady that has expressed high interest in having sex. We have not met in person yet. She is 40 years old. I told her about the implant and she was thrilled on what it can do. Evedently she had a failed relationship with a man with ED and does not want a repeat experience. So for her a man that can fuck her until daylight is like a dream come true

Bill

Lucky you

Sometimes I think the younger ones handle this situation better than the older ones

I think they are more open minded to a certain extent. The women i'm seeing was also impressed with the courage it took to go through the whole process and very impressed that i had the honesty to tell her the whole story. And of course she absolutely loves the fact i'm ready to rock n roll anytime anyplace anywhere ha ha.

[Buzzer]

Yes the older they are they come from a different culture and morals. Remember they were brought up in the time that they were taught sex was dirty and only to have children, not have pleasure.

I do not know when it changed for women, but the more women I meet between 30:and 40 they are much more appreciative of having a good time.

Bill

[Lost Sheep]

Yes the older they are they come from a different culture and morals. Remember they were brought up in the time that they were taught sex was dirty and only to have children, not have pleasure.

I do not know when it changed for women, but the more women I meet between 30:and 40 they are much more appreciative of having a good time.

Bill

Bill, check your timing/math. Women in their 70s now grew up during the 1960's "Sexual Revolution". There may have been a backlash in the 1970's (reflected in the attitudes of today's women in their fifties), but the women who were taught (at least in the U.S.) that sex was dirty and only for having children but not for pleasure or connecting with a partner as important functions are largely out of the dating pool (being in their 90s or dead).

Of course, in other cultures/countries my comments and math may not apply.

Having said all that, I will assert that a woman's life experience will have more bearing on how she feels about sex (and ED and implants) than her upbringing. Unsatisfactory or bad experiences in her youth and young adulthood WILL color her attitude today. So, how a man talks to her about sex will bear great weight on her attitude towards sex with HIM.