The constant mental effect of inconsistent ED.

[Never_Enough]

Part of the issue I have is that my ED is very in consistent and complicated.

In a way the decisions to make are easier in people with severe ED.

I have a partner who is sexually passionate, but supportive of issues, she loves the closeness and passion, but has said to me before that if I had to go a year without sex due to my cpps it would be absolutely fine with her as I am more than 'just sex'.

Because of this generally, with the help of cialis and viagra I can have sex successfully 90% of the time.

The issue I have is staying hard when inside as the cpps causes a loss of sensation and she gets very lubricated which worsens the issue. My erection will fluctuate between 100% and 75%... So I tend to mix it up a bit and rarely go non stop For over 5 minutes, even if our sessions last longer.

By successfully I mean get a full erection.. Have sex for over a few. Minutes without stopping and ejaculate. Whether I or she classes that as good sex I'm not sure.

When being given a hand job my erections are fine rigid and last fine, because of the friction.

I have noticed her making less noise lately which. I indicate as the soft erection and wetness causing her not to feel much.

She never has been able to orgasm from pen sex ever anyway and I make her cum via oral mostly, and she has always maintained that is..more than enough for her.

However I have a hard time mentally accepting this and feel that eventually the lack of feeling and constant 3 quarter reductions will frustrate. I also noticed her behaviour was less geared towards sex lately which concerned me that she was losing some passion due to the condition.

So because of this I intermittantly consider implants because the overwhelming stress gets to me so much, but then. I kind of look at the reality. I can physically get a 100% erection so is it worth the risk of ruining your penis completely?

I guess the next step is to try injections properly.

I need something that can maintain an erection regardless of stress anxiety and pain.

Again - am I more at risk of complications such as priapism due to being able to get erections under the right circumstance and stimulation.

Would a penis support help to maintain rigidity when there is less stimulation?

Thanks.

[Bambino09]

Hola hombre. Yo creo quecestas bien tu oreja te ama. Sinceramente creo que te arruinaría el pene con un implante.
Trata de pensar en hacer gymnasiaben hacercllegar más sangre en el miembro y disfrutar tu mujer te ama estas bendecido.

[Ray Johnson]

Fella, I’ve been there and, you’re right, big fun it is not. Have you tried a penis ring? With pills working 70-80% of the time, I’ve considered it myself, and there’s an interesting thread on these sexual-aids in the Members Only section of the forum.

I figure these rings are the next logical step before sticking in a needle.
All the best to you, sir.

RJ

[Randalltx]

Part of the issue I have is that my ED is very in consistent and complicated.

In a way the decisions to make are easier in people with severe ED.

I have a partner who is sexually passionate, but supportive of issues, she loves the closeness and passion, but has said to me before that if I had to go a year without sex due to my cpps it would be absolutely fine with her as I am more than 'just sex'.

Because of this generally, with the help of cialis and viagra I can have sex successfully 90% of the time.

The issue I have is staying hard when inside as the cpps causes a loss of sensation and she gets very lubricated which worsens the issue. My erection will fluctuate between 100% and 75%... So I tend to mix it up a bit and rarely go non stop For over 5 minutes, even if our sessions last longer.

By successfully I mean get a full erection.. Have sex for over a few. Minutes without stopping and ejaculate. Whether I or she classes that as good sex I'm not sure.

When being given a hand job my erections are fine rigid and last fine, because of the friction.

I have noticed her making less noise lately which. I indicate as the soft erection and wetness causing her not to feel much.

She never has been able to orgasm from pen sex ever anyway and I make her cum via oral mostly, and she has always maintained that is..more than enough for her.

However I have a hard time mentally accepting this and feel that eventually the lack of feeling and constant 3 quarter reductions will frustrate. I also noticed her behaviour was less geared towards sex lately which concerned me that she was losing some passion due to the condition.

So because of this I intermittantly consider implants because the overwhelming stress gets to me so much, but then. I kind of look at the reality. I can physically get a 100% erection so is it worth the risk of ruining your penis completely?

I guess the next step is to try injections properly.

I need something that can maintain an erection regardless of stress anxiety and pain.

Again - am I more at risk of complications such as priapism due to being able to get erections under the right circumstance and stimulation.

Would a penis support help to maintain rigidity when there is less stimulation?

Thanks.

Same problem resulting in me having implant.
I waited far too long, Problem started thirty years ago and got worse over time. At the end, I was hard till I tried penetration. Frustrating. Then three years no sex. Then fed up, went for the implant. Six months later, all good. I have to agree with you that the mental torture before during and after each attempt was boggling.
I should have taken action 15 years ago. Don't be me. Make a rational decision based on whether or not you can KEEP AN ERECTION long enough to satisfy both of you. If not, your dick is defective and needs to be fixed or replaced.

My confidence is now over the roof and sex is better than it ever has been. The implant is merely a mechanical way of getting and keeping your erection. Pretty much everything else stays the same, size, ejaculation, urinary, orgasms. Good luck whatever you decide.

[Never_Enough]

Fella, I’ve been there and, you’re right, big fun it is not. Have you tried a penis ring? With pills working 70-80% of the time, I’ve considered it myself, and there’s an interesting thread on these sexual-aids in the Members Only section of the forum.

I figure these rings are the next logical step before sticking in a needle.
All the best to you, sir.

RJ

I found rings too distracting and hard to get on.

[Ibfuelish]

Ya gotta make that plant decision… do it or don’t, the ED isn’t gonna get any better. I wished I’d done it quite awhile ago before I put my wife into a depression/funk thinking it was her.

[Mazzio]

Compared to me that guy is having wonderful sex life