Sex Mentality post implant

[Lost Sheep]

(edited for focus)
sadly the 2 interested parties rejected me because of implant which has been a real downer for me.

Rejected because you are implanted? That seems so strange. Did they give any hint as to why?

[Jage64]

Probably my wife's only concern is that now I take my time. When she's getting close I can change it up and bring her back from the edge so I can have more fun for more time without worry that I've missed my shot.

Sometimes she's gets a little testy that I can toy with her, and if it's been a long day she's not in the mood for the marathons.

[Lost Sheep]

Probably my wife's only concern is that now I take my time. When she's getting close I can change it up and bring her back from the edge so I can have more fun for more time without worry that I've missed my shot.

Sometimes she's gets a little testy that I can toy with her, and if it's been a long day she's not in the mood for the marathons.

So, it would be accurate to say that when you "edge" her, she gets "edgy"?

I have heard that with a proper edging technique that brings a person to the edge and backs of a little and up to the edge again multiple times, when they eventually climax, it is a greatly enhanced experience. But it takes a great deal of nuance to do this, not easily accomplished unless it is oneself one is working on. Pity. You could be the master of her domain (Seinfeld reference) if you could read her well enough.

In the meantime, just follow her directions. That works best for me and my lover.

[Jage64]

I have heard that with a proper edging technique that brings a person to the edge and backs of a little and up to the edge again multiple times, when they eventually climax, it is a greatly enhanced experience. But it takes a great deal of nuance to do this, not easily accomplished unless it is oneself one is working on. Pity. You could be the master of her domain (Seinfeld reference) if you could read her well enough.

I've learned that she cannot have access to herself when she's getting close, otherwise it's completely "out of my hands" even if I decide to back off. So, that adds another wrinkle, restricting her access.

[Lost Sheep]

I have heard that with a proper edging technique that brings a person to the edge and backs of a little and up to the edge again multiple times, when they eventually climax, it is a greatly enhanced experience. But it takes a great deal of nuance to do this, not easily accomplished unless it is oneself one is working on. Pity. You could be the master of her domain (Seinfeld reference) if you could read her well enough.

I've learned that she cannot have access to herself when she's getting close, otherwise it's completely "out of my hands" even if I decide to back off. So, that adds another wrinkle, restricting her access.

Some women LIKE a little bondage. You might try this: Tie a silk or satin ribbon (or a couple of your ties) to the corners of your bed and wrap the other ends around her palms, with her holding them. She agrees to not let go until you tell her. She has the illusion of being "out of control" without any fear.

Just a thought. May or may not be applicable or workable in your relationship. Just a little illusion of bondage.

[Jage64]

we're WELL beyond that Lost Sheep. That's kindergarten stuff.

[cbinspok]

Hey Lost sheep
Again thank you for your years of thoughtful comments here on ft.
Yes with out too much detail. Guy 1, wrote me interested in a meeting, after a few coffee meetings, we went to his place. I was stoked! The fucking hottest kissing Iv ever had ( at that point no longer had doubt I was bi, lol ) then he had a nice hard on going, so I gave myself som pumpage not trying to hide but not making a big deal about it, he got a great blow job from me and went cold. Ended friends but knew it was off.
Next guy also liked my picture. Contacted me. This time though I would put int out at a morning coffee meeting, weaved into conversation that I was implanted. Ghosted ever since.
So have yet to share this amazing device between my legs, hope springs eternal.

[Lost Sheep]

Hey Lost sheep
Again thank you for your years of thoughtful comments here on ft.
Yes with out too much detail. Guy 1, wrote me interested in a meeting, after a few coffee meetings, we went to his place. I was stoked! The fucking hottest kissing Iv ever had ( at that point no longer had doubt I was bi, lol ) then he had a nice hard on going, so I gave myself som pumpage not trying to hide but not making a big deal about it, he got a great blow job from me and went cold. Ended friends but knew it was off.
Next guy also liked my picture. Contacted me. This time though I would put int out at a morning coffee meeting, weaved into conversation that I was implanted. Ghosted ever since.
So have yet to share this amazing device between my legs, hope springs eternal.

Thanks for the details, cbinspok. I am somewhat disappointed that your two partners did not appreciate your boner. The one who remains a friend has not elaborated? I really want to believe that these two men are anomalies and that a typical man would appreciate a partner whose erection was reliable and durable rather than a turn-off.

It seems unlikely that a man would be discomfited by a man who had his erectile functions reconstituted by surgery when assistance by medications is so widely accepted these days.

It's a mystery (quoted from "Shakespeare in Love")

I look forward to any updates you may have going forward. Perhaps posting a survey question on a bulletin board? (Only partly kidding)

[ready2go]

i will tell no girl ever that I have an implant .
they can enjoy the ride and go their merry way . Before at 60 plus years of age i would edge my self to stay hard longer or not finish at all in order to do more rounds later .
now i can continue with that or let loose and go again . Either way, I'm not making any announcements.

[cbinspok]

Thanks LS
Will let you know if anything new happens, pretty bleek right now.
I typically throw my sexual energy into a project. I’ve built 2 home with my hands, remodeling 5, including landscaping,plumbing wiring,carpentry and a lot of concrete work, so yeah a lot of energy to focus Lol.
Cheers brother