Another Member Of The Brotherhood

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rlo4600
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Joined: Sat Jul 12, 2014 6:29 pm

Another Member Of The Brotherhood

Postby rlo4600 » Sat Jul 19, 2014 4:38 pm

Hey Bros:

Let me introduce myself. I am Christiano from Chicago. I am 69 years old | good physical shape | married with supportive wife | healthy sex appetite.

I have posted twice with no responses. This was disappointing. Therefore, I decided that maybe this was the case because I didn’t introduce myself to you. If this is the case, I am rectifying with this introduction.

I am a double winner having survived a massive heart attack (4/2011) and prostate cancer (Prostate removed: 9/2012). My ED started as a result of high blood pressure and cholesterol medications usage. Oral ED drugs, injections did not work for me. My Urologist has advised me that the reason is because of a venous leak. I have just started using a pump (Augustus Manual). This has been a comedy of errors: Cylinder that came with pump too small, confusing information about correct procedures and defective pump. I have received correct cylinder size and replacement pump.

Although I did not receive any replies to my post, I learned to my surprise that using the pump correctly is helpful for penile rehabilitation, due to reading posts on “Pump” and communicating with a user on “Discussion Board”. I have been pumping for 20 minutes each day for three days and I can feel my member coming back to life.

Just finding your organization has already greatly reduced my high anxiety level. Any additional suggestions/advice/recommendations on pumping will be greatly appreciated.

On another note, after my prostate removal, my ejaculations have become extremely more intense. This is great! However, I emit urine like a geyser. This makes it challenging to have sex with spouse? I would be interested in hearing from anyone with similar experience, with ideas, advice and recommendations.

Once again, “FrankTalk” has already greatly reduced my anxiety level. I feel empowered.

I look forward to hearing from you.

Christiano
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dtwarren1942
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Location: Jersey Shore

Re: Another Member Of The Brotherhood

Postby dtwarren1942 » Sat Jul 19, 2014 7:15 pm

Hey Christiano!

Welcome to FT.

Sorry no one has responded to your posts. My ED is a result of diabetes and possible venous leak. As Trimix injections worked, for the most part, I never got tested for venous leak. I still have my prostate so my reaction to the pump is probably different than yours. I have been pumping for over four years and, unfortunately, it has not improved my ED. However, in addition to injections, I also use a pump to achieve an erection which I maintain with an Osbon tension band.
Age 81
Diabetic
Pumping
Started Trimix injections 8/'11

rlo4600
Posts: 13
Joined: Sat Jul 12, 2014 6:29 pm

Re: Another Member Of The Brotherhood

Postby rlo4600 » Sun Jul 20, 2014 5:22 pm

Thanks for the welcome. It meant a lots to me.

Enjoy the rest of your day!

Christiano

ohohiakane
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Location: Michigan. Email Ohohiakane@yahoo.com
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Re: Another Member Of The Brotherhood

Postby ohohiakane » Mon Jul 21, 2014 1:12 pm

Christiano...
Let me suggest that you check out our Chatroom soon... It is a great way to meet fellows with the same problems.

You will get all kinds of suggesions.

Bill
75 Year Old guy in Michigan, married in 1958, ED since late '90s, then surgery in 2008 (not prostate or other genital) damaged some nerves making the ED worse. Now on trimix

Personal email Ohohiakane@yahoo.com
am always willing to discuss stuff and help

bob1138
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Joined: Wed Sep 28, 2011 6:41 pm

Re: Another Member Of The Brotherhood

Postby bob1138 » Wed Aug 06, 2014 2:05 am

Welcome to FrankTalk Christiano!!
I would be happy to share what I did to correct my Post-Prostatectomy ED with you.
I was implanted with the Coloplast Titan IPP (Inflatable Penile Prosthesis) in December 2007 after developing ED Post-Prostatectomy in February 2004.
The Implant completely corrected my ED and restored both my sex life and the emotional bond with my wife.
Actually, my Titan Implant has given us a second chance to be High School Sweethearts!
I would do it again in a heart-beat.
That being said, the final decision is yours and yours alone, just as it was for me and all the other Bionic Brothers on FrankTalk.
Also, FYI, there is some very informative material on the new Website www.coloplastmenshealth.com.
Please feel free to PM me if you have any non-medical questions or would just like to talk.
Bob

sabaone
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Location: Jerusalem, Israel

Re: Another Member Of The Brotherhood

Postby sabaone » Thu Aug 14, 2014 11:14 am

Welcome Christiano,

Just to address one issue you raised, that or spouting urine. Others may have found other solutions, and perhaps time itself is of assistance, but Kegels are critical. You need to strengthen the urinary tract muscles that are left. I haven't been as religious is doing them as I should since my surgery in 2011, but those that I have done have helped.

I have also found that the amount of liquid I consume prior to ejaculation is important. Obviously, the less liquid that needs to exit, the better for a "cleaner" ejaculation.

Hope these pointers help

Sabaone
DOB:2/1940; 4 Oct 2011, date of Robotic surgery
Gleason 3+4=7
Cancer confined to one lobe, did not enter capsule

Cajun Jeff
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Re: Another Member Of The Brotherhood

Postby Cajun Jeff » Tue Aug 19, 2014 6:04 am

Welcome to FT. Sorry you did not get any response to your other post. I agree with Sataone restrict your liquid intake before sex and that will help some. It is very common to have that emit urine at orgasm after prostatectomy.

Venous leak would be a reason that the injections possibly would not work. I am surprised that they did not work. I suggest that you get in the chat room from time to time and meet some of the guys. Get to know some of them and you will find out that many of us are in the same boat.

Best of luck.

Corvetteman3
68 years old, Married 48 years. Prostate Cancer surgery 11 years ago. Tried Pills, VED, moved to injections (EdEx) for past 6 years. Implanted with AMS 700 LGX by Dr Hellstrom in New Orleans at Tulane Medical. 1/13/20

rlo4600
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Joined: Sat Jul 12, 2014 6:29 pm

Re: Another Member Of The Brotherhood

Postby rlo4600 » Tue Aug 19, 2014 5:05 pm

Thanks for reaching out. How do you gain access to Chatrooms. I have not had in luck from my mobile device.

Christiano


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