Porn as a standby

[cwatt1]

I have the same issue, and have sworn off porn. It desensitizes you so that you can't get aroused enough with a real partner. It can cause either grossly delayed ejaculation, or no ejaculation at all.

There are times now when I even have trouble ejaculating while masturbating. I blame porn.

Hi CW, If that's your case then you have been masturbating to porn far to much, perhaps even on a daily basis, and far to much, it will get you in the end, and could switch of your sexual receptors for good, do that and that's it and nothing will get you up a running again, its a life of no erections.

NOWHARD

Nowhard, I have cut back on masturbating, but I can climax from it -- just not all the time. And I can certainly get an erection without porn as well, with a partner or solo. I just have trouble maintaining it, and have been unable to climax during sex. I hardly think "nothing will you up and running again" is an accurate statement. I also do agree with the earlier posters that it is easy for porn to become an addiction, which is why I have decided I will NEVER subject myself to it again.

[Anonymous2]

Hi CW, as they say in reverse order, I will say the I do love some porn, but not all the time and only in small amounts, and never masturbate to it had sex to it a few times, which is really good, been able to have sex 3 times in an evening, and again the next morning.
But its up to each individual how they view porn, there is no real need to sit like some for hours, and just masturbating with it, these are the guys who get into real problems, OK

So you can get an erection but cant maintain it? yes, have you ever thought to look around at what will help, a good cock ring will, it will help hold the blood in for you, if you have read anything form me, then you will have read I do have an my hard wear ice cock ring, for me it been great, as they say never go anywhere with out it, its because I wear it 24/7, and get no problems from doing so, so cock rings could help you.
But having had ED and got5 myself out of it all with herbs, supplement's and a hormone, and from this do get some real good erections, get some good nocturnal erections that wake me up, and good morning woods, My believe is its all down to our blood, get this working your 2/3's of the way there to getting good strong erections.

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Good Luck

NOWHARD

[Anonymous2]

Hi CW, A couple it things I missed and forgot, these may help as well, A very simple exercise called Kegels, these with lots of thing when it comes to our penis's, your may also find that jelqing could help, doing this exercise help you get extra blood down your penis, and help with your erections.
For both of these just get over to www.pegym.com your see lots of stuff about jelqing, and kegels you find how to do them by looking under exercises.
Do hope these help with your erections.

Good Luck

NOWHARD

[thunderball]

What I can't figure out is why the heck can porn give me a useable erection but being intimate with my wife does not.

I just want to reiterate what others said.

While masturbating you only have to worry about yourself. You know exactly what strokes are the most stimulating to you. And you can give you penis constant high quality stimulation.

Intimacy with your wife means that are doing a lot more: moving around, focusing on her pleasure, et cetera. Most likely your penis IS NOT getting constant high quality stimulation.

If you are worried about watching 'too much porn' then just use it until you get hard and then turn it off. Then just focus on your on sensations.