how sensual massages work after an implant?
how sensual massages work after an implant?
Does anyone know how sensual massages work after an implant? In 10 days, at my 5-week mark, I go back to my doctor. I assume he will give me the green light to start using my new implant. The problem is that my wife is divorcing me & we haven't been intimate since Mar '16. My wife doesn't know I have this. I used Viagra with her; so if we were to do something, that would be ideal. But it's not happening so I can't try it out at home. I'm not dating anyone. The last choice I can think of would be these massage parlors where they do happy endings. My understanding is the happy ending is legal as long as you just pay for the massage & don't request anything special; which is exactly what I would do. The problem is how do I have the massage without totally embarassing myself? I don't want the masseuse to know I have this device. So do I go in fully inflated? And then after I ejaculate, then what? I would want her to stop. But if she sees a fully erect penis, wouldn't she keep going? In that case, how would I get her to stop? Thanks in advance for anyone with experience in this area.
Going with AMS in nov 2016. Provider is Coastal Urology Assoc, Brick, NJ, Dr. Kevin T. Gioia
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Re: how sensual massages work after an implant?
My understanding is the happy ending is legal as long as you just pay for the massage & don't request anything special; which is exactly what I would do. The problem is how do I have the massage without totally embarassing myself? I don't want the masseuse to know I have this device. So do I go in fully inflated?
And then after I ejaculate, then what? I would want her to stop. But if she sees a fully erect penis, wouldn't she keep going?
In that case, how would I get her to stop?
If I were you I would shoot her.
Born in 1950, ED since 2007 (colon cancer)
08/2015 Titan Zero Degree 22 cm + 3 cm RTE
Dr. Leiber, Freiburg, Germany
6.5" x 5.7" - Very happy with implant
Living in Freiburg, Germany
08/2015 Titan Zero Degree 22 cm + 3 cm RTE
Dr. Leiber, Freiburg, Germany
6.5" x 5.7" - Very happy with implant
Living in Freiburg, Germany
Re: how sensual massages work after an implant?
For those so inclined, I think FT needs a "Massage Parlor Etiquette" section or FAQ.
... and trust me, unless you're the first man she's ever touched, she'll know anyway
... and trust me, unless you're the first man she's ever touched, she'll know anyway
Dave, 80, Maryland - Implant (Titan) 2008 by Dr. Andrew Kramer (failed Sept 2020) - never used due to a stroke that, among other things, ended my sex life.
Life is not the way it's supposed to be, it's the way it is.
Life is not the way it's supposed to be, it's the way it is.
Re: how sensual massages work after an implant?
dg_moore wrote:For those so inclined, I think FT needs a "Massage Parlor Etiquette" section or FAQ.
... and trust me, unless you're the first man she's ever touched, she'll know anyway
I'm not sure if they're legal or not. They bust these places all the time in Louisville, Kentucky but other towns get by with it. They ought to be legal.
I don't see anyway to avoid her seeing or feeling the implant. An erect implant does not feel the same as a normal erect penis. I think its harder.
I suppose you could start the massage erect, but that makes lying on your stomach kind of tough
62 years old. ED for years. High BP and meds have done me in. AMS 700 CX /3.0 cm RTE Implanted by Andrew Kramer on 10/12/16. Involved revision to relocate tubes and pump performed 12/29/16 by Dr. Knoll of Nashville, TN.
Re: how sensual massages work after an implant?
jonbaldbg wrote:dg_moore wrote:For those so inclined, I think FT needs a "Massage Parlor Etiquette" section or FAQ.
... and trust me, unless you're the first man she's ever touched, she'll know anyway
I'm not sure if they're legal or not. They bust these places all the time in Louisville, Kentucky but other towns get by with it. They ought to be legal.
I don't see anyway to avoid her seeing or feeling the implant. An erect implant does not feel the same as a normal erect penis. I think its harder.
I suppose you could start the massage erect, but that makes lying on your stomach kind of tough
Full disclosure may be the best way to go. She probably won't care as long as she gets paid.
62 years old. ED for years. High BP and meds have done me in. AMS 700 CX /3.0 cm RTE Implanted by Andrew Kramer on 10/12/16. Involved revision to relocate tubes and pump performed 12/29/16 by Dr. Knoll of Nashville, TN.
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Re: how sensual massages work after an implant?
strongagain wrote:My understanding is the happy ending is legal as long as you just pay for the massage & don't request anything special; which is exactly what I would do. The problem is how do I have the massage without totally embarassing myself? I don't want the masseuse to know I have this device. So do I go in fully inflated?
And then after I ejaculate, then what? I would want her to stop. But if she sees a fully erect penis, wouldn't she keep going?
In that case, how would I get her to stop?
If I were you I would shoot her.
Shoot who? The masseuse or the wife?
Frankly, I would not go for a hand job. I can do that myself to the exact same result with a LOT less risk. But if I did, I would treat the masseuse as a professional who has experience and level with her up front. Having said that, a licensed sex therapist/surrogate would be a better chioce. Consult your local A.M.A., or better yet, your urologist to see if there are any in your area.
Lost Sheep
p.s A local "sex toys" shop may have masturbation aids that emulate a vagina (e.g. the "fleslight") if your main purpose is to test your ability to achieve penetration. There are also "do it yourself" videos on line that show you how to make one from ordinary household materials.
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AMS LGX 18+3 Nov 6, 2017
Prostate Cancer 2023
READ OLD THREADS-ask better questions -better understand answers
Be part of your medical team
Document pre-op size-photos and written records
Pre-op VED therapy helps. Post-op is another matter
Re: how sensual massages work after an implant?
If ever a project called out for a DIY solution, surely this would be one.
Dave, 80, Maryland - Implant (Titan) 2008 by Dr. Andrew Kramer (failed Sept 2020) - never used due to a stroke that, among other things, ended my sex life.
Life is not the way it's supposed to be, it's the way it is.
Life is not the way it's supposed to be, it's the way it is.
Re: how sensual massages work after an implant?
Many places I've been, east and west coasts in particular.... Bring a condom and a $1C tip.... The ones who will..... Will negotiate a little.. I usually have another 20....usually works.... Rubmaps.com is a good resource.... Particularly in South Florida, independentgirls.com.....
73 Years old. RP Oct 2010, No erections after, Botched Titan implant April, 2013, Successful Titan revision, April , 2014 by Dr. Paul Perito, Miami. Titan failure Feb 2017. Rev. by Dr Perito March 1st, 2017. Titan failure Nov 2020. New Titan January 2021
Re: how sensual massages work after an implant?
Thanks for all the replies.
Going with AMS in nov 2016. Provider is Coastal Urology Assoc, Brick, NJ, Dr. Kevin T. Gioia
Re: how sensual massages work after an implant?
I guess I was unclear.... That $1c tip is for full sex.... Hence the condom. "happy endings" are usually a $40 tip.....
73 Years old. RP Oct 2010, No erections after, Botched Titan implant April, 2013, Successful Titan revision, April , 2014 by Dr. Paul Perito, Miami. Titan failure Feb 2017. Rev. by Dr Perito March 1st, 2017. Titan failure Nov 2020. New Titan January 2021
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