Lost Sheep wrote:When Viagra first came out, I heard many stories of women (usually the wives of older men) complaining, "Oh, God, I thought once my husband was older, I would be done with all that bother; now how much longer will have to put up with it?"
Times have changed. Perhaps because men have changed.
A man inattentive to his partner's needs will be bothersome to her as long as he has a sex drive and especially if he has an enduring erection.
A man attentive to his partner's needs will be a joy to her as long as he has a sex drive and especially if he has an enduring erection.
This attention/inattention divide applies outside the sexual arena as well.
Lost Sheep
I can attest to the truth of this. My wife was not in the least unhappy to find that my implant coincided with a complete loss of desire for sex. She was not in favor of me getting the implant, nor was she disappointed to learn that I wouldn't be bugging her for sex after all.