What would you prefer?

[moreorless]

What would you prefer:
Are with a girl but cant do nothing and feel bad when you are with her?
Or are you alone and dont feel so bad and sometimes forget about your problem?

[RichardTheFrog]

What would you prefer:
Are with a girl but cant do nothing and feel bad when you are with her?
Or are you alone and dont feel so bad and sometimes forget about your problem?

Would you just get an implant already?

[gollam121]

What would you prefer:
Are with a girl but cant do nothing and feel bad when you are with her?
Or are you alone and dont feel so bad and sometimes forget about your problem?

Would you just get an implant already?

Agree, if you can't do anything then it's the only way.

[Seeking]

What would you prefer:
Are with a girl but cant do nothing and feel bad when you are with her?
Or are you alone and dont feel so bad and sometimes forget about your problem?

Would you just get an implant already?

This got a real belly laugh out of me - gallows humour for sure, as these are exactly the same thoughts I have.

Gollam, let's just both get a damn implant - if it works, life is good again. If it doesn't, we can use the thousands of hours we'd have spent chasing women and sex to study fusion power, or cure cancer

In all seriousness though, if you're not going private I'd love to know where your NHS progress is at - I've been badgering them for 6 years and have finally declared "enough is a-fucking 'nuff".

[charlesr]

I'm with everyone here. JUST DO IT!

[Lost Sheep]

MoreorLess,

Do not be put off by off-hand remarks. RichardTheFrog is probably still in discomfort from his recent surgery.

This is a "Support Group" and, as such, has a mission to make all participants comfortable.

I know some people in my real life and my online life sometimes get tired of my caution, delay incessant research and obsession with trivia in many areas, both significant and minor. Getting an implant is a major step and not to be taken lightly. Once you get an implant, there is no going back to the way things were. An implant will VERY likely completely destroy any erectile function you have now.

On the other hand, if you have nothing to work with now and naturopathic cures, pills, suppositories, creams, injections or less invasive procedures don't work for you and a vacuum pump with constriction ring is unsatisfactory, the best "cure" is an implant, as implantation is the only thing left (at present).

One surgeon of my acquaintance told me of a man he implanted just a few months before Viagra hit the market. This many years later, he still regrets that implantation because the newer development would have been superior.

On the other hand, Dr. Eid wrote to me, "It is likely that perfection will never be achieved and also likely that improvements will continue to occur; however humans also have a limited, brief life expectancy and one must live within his time. It's a trade off if you wait another ten years we will have better devices, but then you would have missed 10 years of enjoyable sexual activity; and who knows maybe in ten years you will not be as sexually active? "

So, one anecdote counsels waiting for a newer, better solution and another piece of advice is to not wait, as life is short, "Seize the day".

So, take as long as you want and ask as many questions as you feel the need for. Once you have enough information, you will know what you need to do, and when.

[Lost Sheep]

moreorless,

As for your original question, when I am with a woman, even though I cannot penetrate her vagina with my penis, there is still plenty we can do. Hands, tongue and sexual toys bring a lot of pleasure to a vagina and women have a MUCH wider range of erogoneous zones than most ever imagine. I get a lot of joy from mapping out my lovers' different erogenous zones. It is like a scavenger hunt or exploring and mapping a new continent. One girlfriend I had could have an orgasm by stimulating the backs of her knees. Believe me, a woman appreciates a man who lingers over erogenous outside of the usual. Variety is the spice of life and imagination is the vehicle. Exploit them and you will be rewarded.

It is only a problem if you think of it so. Paralysis of one's legs puts one in a wheelchair or on some kind of prosthetic aid. Not a problem, just an infirmity to be overcome or adjusted to.

Even when alone, I don't forget about my infirmity. It just is less troublesome.

[joe456]

you want her virgin pussy?

[LMCatman]

I too am still in minor pain from my (3rd) implant (March 1st).....and horny...and eager to be able to fuck again. I went 2.5 years with no erections (prostate surgery). Implants totally changed my "golden years".....and as all the other guys say...just do it!!!