Any single guys dating with injections?

[newtoed]

Hey guys,
This is more like sexuality related but I find that not too many of us read that section. I noticed that most of you are married here and that I believe makes it easier to deal with ED. I lost my marriage at least partially to ED. Now I'm single again and date a lot. I'm fury unsee to attract women, but dating casually makes dealing with ED more complicated.
I wonder if there are any other single guys here who are dating more casually using injections and how do you deal with logistics. When and where do you inject? How do you deal with the extended erection which is hard to explain to a casual partner if you hang out after sex.
I'd appreciate advise from married guys as well and thank you in advance.

[fordman44]

Well, not single but for what it's worth if I was on the dating scene I would carry a pre filled syringe, in one of those pen look alike, that you can carry in your pocket ready to go. When things are heating up I would excuse myself to go pee and then inject. This could even be done in a public restroom if need be and by the time foreplay is going good you will have a raging hard so you can give her a good peterfloggin as long as she can stand it.

Now if or when she asks why you still have a hard after so long you can explain, without getting too graphic, that you do take a medication to help you along. If she presses a lot, you can give a little more information and I can guarantee that any woman won't be disappointed in a man that can give her a two hour hard regardless how he is able to obtain it.

[newtoed]

Thank you and that's pretty much how I imagined too. I have to prepare my partners for the scar and the patch I wear over the colostomy anyway. So far I got great responses and none of the women had any problems with it. I have to overcome my body image issues which is probably a big part of my ED. I hope that the confidence I get from some great erections will help with that too.

[Bjones]

Hey guys,
This is more like sexuality related but I find that not too many of us read that section. I noticed that most of you are married here and that I believe makes it easier to deal with ED. I lost my marriage at least partially to ED. Now I'm single again and date a lot. I'm fury unsee to attract women, but dating casually makes dealing with ED more complicated.
I wonder if there are any other single guys here who are dating more casually using injections and how do you deal with logistics. When and where do you inject? How do you deal with the extended erection which is hard to explain to a casual partner if you hang out after sex.
I'd appreciate advise from married guys as well and thank you in advance.

Just curious since Ed was a reason for your divorce, did your exes tell you this or did you just assume?i can imagine when marital problems arise, ED is an area that many angry women would target in on and let the guy have it..ugh

[newtoed]

Maybe it was just my imagination, but when it was obvious that I need medication she did not respect me anymore. She was 22 years of my junior and when we started dating I opened up her sexually. She experienced real orgasms, squirting and real romance the first time. When I had the cancer and later started having ED I lost my confidence, my faith in life and I'm sure I was not pleasant. Who knows, too many factors.

[Cigar56]

Most women just want you to be able to get hard. Period. They really don't care that much about how you get there. As another poster mentioned, just carry the pre-filled syringe in an eyeglass case or something similar. Excuse yourself to the bathroom to freshen up and inject. I mean, we're talking about needing only 30-40 seconds for you to get ready for sex.

[Bjones]

Most women just want you to be able to get hard. Period. They really don't care that much about how you get there. As another poster mentioned, just carry the pre-filled syringe in an eyeglass case or something similar. Excuse yourself to the bathroom to freshen up and inject. I mean, we're talking about needing only 30-40 seconds for you to get ready for sex.

I would never tell a gf about injections if I needed them..there is no good reason to tell them unless they found my kit lol..

Oh yes, women want and love when we get hard as it shows them that we truly find them attractive..twice when I had ED the girl I was with put in a ton of effort, ripped my clothes off and then ED..after her trying everything I got her off orally but she was honest
Y almost in tears! Here I was feeling awful for not getting hard but she felt much much worse thinking it was her fault!this made me feel not so bad because I thought the woman would look at me as less than a man but neither did..they blamed themselves and im not trying to say I enjoyed their pain but it showed there are 2 sides to the ED coin..it is very hurtful for a woman when you don't get hard, they feel ugly or not wanted etc etc..ED is like the 500 pound elephant in the room that no one wants to talk about..

[Bjones]

Maybe it was just my imagination, but when it was obvious that I need medication she did not respect me anymore. She was 22 years of my junior and when we started dating I opened up her sexually. She experienced real orgasms, squirting and real romance the first time. When I had the cancer and later started having ED I lost my confidence, my faith in life and I'm sure I was not pleasant. Who knows, too many factors.

I imagine quite a few women would lose much respect for men that had to rely on pills, androgen much less injections to get hard..they could likely think they could be part of the problem..it's sad she lost respect for you but she didn't find it fine when you got hard even after using injections or did she view it as phoney in a way?

ED is awful and a soul destroyer

[newtoed]

I didn't do injections with her only pills, but the energy was so bad between us that nothing really worked. She used to come so easy from anything I did the first 3 years. Once she was out of the relationship emotionally she did not allow herself to enjoy sex with me. That's how women tell you they are done and out.

[clockoclock]

You shouldn't worry about this.The main thing is to have great sex and the explanations are the last thing that you should to care about. To be honest with these girls from dating sites you would have sex once and you will end after even great sex. Girls from there like to change the partner every time and due to your age every wide woman will understand that you take some medicamentation or injection. I would advice to be more relaxed next time.You can read some sex dating stories
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