NEW ...am i making right choice

[rrrr1212]

Howdy I am 54 married for 20 Div Have steady GF .. Looking back at my history I have had sex but always felt I should be harder I have been married have kids started Viagra in early forties at wife's suggestions and seemed to work wonders... I was like man this stuff is great. The Viagra work great for a few years then nothing. I have been to all the DRs good and bad . I can masterbate on demand with soft erection and have high sex drive . I have tried the injections little success but not satisfactory for intercourse . I have not had real intercourse in at least 2 years . On paper no reason for ED ===healthy in shape ...no smoking drugs ..no high blood pressure --- I meet with a really good DR in Boston finally and he said leakage or veins is issue and we went thru my history / pills/injections/penal rings / H e wanted to try everything before talking about surgery. Well we meet a few times and I scheduled the surgery at end of FEB with am AMS700 . He said I am good candidate for surgery .
I Guess I am on here to listen to what anyone has to say ... I feel weird about this and hoping I am making right decision ...I almost feel like I have choice to not have real sex. Or go ahead with implant with not much to lose but a lot more to gain I want to enjoy my golden years like us all THANK YOU Michael

[joe456]

Im think the same mine will be done in June . Im of best of best doctor's in the area
Good Luck to you You are making the right choice

[Donnie1954]

Michael,
If your dick is a limp wennie and nothing works. Get an implant! No regrets and no more ED!
Donnie

[Cigar56]

How much time have you put into finding just the right dosage for your injections? A lot of guys rush through the injection process because deep down, they really want the bionic feel an implant provides. My advice is to make absolutely sure that injections will not work for you head for the final frontier.

[Donnie1954]

Michael and Joe,
If your dick aches after injections and it won't stay hard long enough (increased dosage ) for sex. If you can't stand a tourniquet around your dick (VED). Get a 'robo dick'. No more ED problems! Just sayin'
Donnie

[olie20]

Hi, I had the same problems you did, couldn't get hard, lack of orgasm, couldn't at all do it to my wife, so she just lost interest. I had ED bad. My doctor put me on medication for my prostrate and that made matters worse. I tried pills, injections and anything I could think of, nothing worked for long, then nothing. My injections were of some help but unless I got really turned on they didn't help, as I said my wife was absolutely no help. So I decided to first take care of my prostrate (no cancer just enlarged). The operation was pretty easy and I recovered rapidly. I read how the viberect vibratory system the X3 model was supposed to help recover lost sensation and produce an orgasm. I was turned off by the $300 cost and searched other places. I bought a "little Ted" vibrating massager which is high quality and meant for anal stimulation but it also produces nice feeling on my cock. Still no lasting hard on. So I purchased a cock ring, nothing special, but it worked. Made my cock really hard and kept it that way for awhile. I still could not reach orgasm. So I broke down and purchased the X3 and tried it. It took many tries to get it right, now I have mind blowing orgasms and am totally satisfied. My wife still has little interest but when i want and she is willing I can have intercourse with lasting stamina and again mind blowing orgasm.. The X3, in combination of the cock ring (also it has a ball ring too and that's great feel too) and the little Ted, I not only can do it with my wife I can have a great time alone anytime. Good luck!!!!

[cincinnatus1951]

rrrr: I believe you are. An implant will solve the problems of lack of erection and reduce the hassle factor so sex becomes fun again. Feel free to review my journey write ups under cincinnatus and cincinnatus 1951. I review the decision making process. Was implanted Jan 6,2016 and we are both extremely happy with it.Feel free to PM if you want to talk about it and/or show and tell. my wife is also willing to discuss her side.
Cincinnatus

[Smetro]

RRR if you are in reasonable shape I reckon it's a no brainer for you. I was married for 22 years and now divorced. New GF for 10 months who just loves sex......cannot believe my good luck! I am 62 and your story is mine.
Pills worked for a year or so then went to Caverject...which worked well but then I learned that injecting can cause scarring which can jeapordise the length of a future implant.
That was it for me.....I booked in and got it done.
Titan 22cm installed by Dr Chris Love in Melbourne Australia

Yes there is a price to pay........the package is bigger all the time and doesn't shrink when it's convenient.....I am a surfer so now laying on my board means laying on 3 testicles and a 6" long dick but guess what? I can deal with it! Also while getting a massage.....same problem, it gets a bit uncomfortable. The solution? Damn it my GF bought a milking table massage table.....that is a win win.
I am cut and found it very irritating in the first month with my glans rubbing on my undies. Solutions? I bought some very light stretchy 1" wide bandage / tape and now wrap the head of my penis creating a false foreskin.....it stops the irritation plus it seems to heighten my sensitivity....another win win.
Sex is amazing I lost maybe a half an inch from a bit under 7 ....now just a bit over 6" but the doc says I will get back some over the next 6 months as it stretches. Whatever......it is straight, hard and pointing up like it did when I was 25!!!! My chick has had bigger but never had the reliability
Confidence restored....happiness achieved for 2 people.
I do still ejaculate but need a bit of hand work to help it along because my penis feels different......may take some time to adjust......I have time!!
Going to experiment a bit with half a viagra to help engorgement......I do still get a partial erection that adds to the inflated cylinders......could be a good mix......awesome not having to suffer the blocked nose and blue light anymore!!!!
Good luck from downunder

[scrambledegg]

Where do I start, about 1987, my super dick became a soft sentimental weenie. Prior to that, my sex life was great, well hung and built. Then I lost control of my dick, it wouldn't respond. Being military, I went to the urologist. He suggested Muse, did do anything. Then he gave me a shot of something in the side of my penis! It did nothing. He said, that's all I can do. Went to the VA, they asked if I was a sex addict and the nurse told me there are other ways to please a woman, sure there is. So the muddled through girlfriends with a semi hard dick, sometimes to soft for entry. Most of the girls cried because they assumed it was their fault. I lost a lot a self esteem and was scared my friends would find out. I think by the time I left that state, the VA was giving me 4 Viagra a month, I was supposed to cut them in half, but they never told me how to use it.
Lets say I moved to a warmer climate, went to the VA and they fixed me up with 4 Levitra, I loved them. Then they changed back to Viagra. I had several girlfriends and none of them knew I was using. My sex life was great, I crossed the border and purchased more ED drugs. Nothing could stop me, as the years passed, I needed more or a combo to get it up, called limp dick, but she loved it.
All of a sudden, I am living with someone and I can't get it up. She gives my head and I can't get it up. I left the poor girl out of fear and frustration.
Now, between Tricare and the VA, I am trying to get a penile implant. That's my last hope. Does anyone have experience using Tricare to get a PE? I met a new beautiful woman, one night we tore each others clothes off and after I went down on her, she returned the favor. But I had a limp dick, I wasn't even going to try to put it in. I wrote her a note and told her I would understand if she didn't want to see me anymore, but she is still around. I was at her place and told her the truth, she didn't mind.
Now I am trying to save my life with a PE. I can't even masturbate. Trying to get an implant now. I am 60, and most people think I am 45, but they don't know about my problem.
Any suggestions, I have tried everything.

[David_R]

Implant definitely made things wonderful for my wife and me.