Fantasy Femdom play with an implant

[Nocturne]

Anyone ever given their wife or SO control over their implant for a period of time? Assuming you trust her to inflate (and even if you don't, you could just give her the ability to order you to inflate or deflate, down to the number of pumps), it seems like it could potentially be fun, and allow for play that normally functioning men cannot engage in.

For example, she goes down on you while you are soft, and keeps you soft in her mouth, not allowing you to get hard until AFTER you cum, then forcing you to get hard and penetrate her after you've already finished "so it can be all about her". Or forcing you to stay hard all afternoon while you walk around the house doing unrelated stuff, dressed in boxers so she can have easy access to teasing you from time to time before finally letting you take her and get your long-awaited release.

Good talking and role-play could make these situations even more erotic. She is a witch with a spell on you, she has purchased you for her own pleasure and had you "implanted" on purpose for more complete control over your sexual functioning, you are her sex android, etc. IDK it just seems like having fun with it would be more enjoyable than stressing about how you aren't quite normal. Who cares, you can do things no other man can do (unless they too are implanted). Why not have fun with it?

I don't need an implant yet but I know I will eventually, and one of the things I worry about is the loss of natural physiological reaction to arousal, that ordinarily tells a man when he is horny (that bump rising in your shorts is a big cue). Not being sure what I want, if I want it, when I want it -- I am dealing with that right now to a degree and I have only very mild ED at this point. Being able to just turn the whole thing over to my wife feels like it would be liberating. I wouldn't need to worry about whether I was supposed to be erect or not, because she had control over that. And of course a little frustration now and then can make the times you do get to orgasm that much sweeter.

It also feels like intentionally playing while soft (because she wants you to be) would let you confront some old demons head-on; the fear of being soft when you think she wants you hard, that can ruin your pleasure even when you ARE hard, for example. Knowing she WANTS him soft (even if it is only to tease you) might help a fellow to let go of some of that, especially for those times when he is hard.

Does any of this make sense? Or am I alone in this?

[dirtman1993]

Yes somewhat but I have found myself wanting sex as much as I did when 20. I have a fantasy where she ties me down and while I am inflated and blindfolds me. All of a sudden I hear another women voice and they both use my bionic cock for all its is worth. If she would share my cock with some of her friends that would be wild.

You will want to play again like a kid with a new toy so enjoy

[TANGERINE]

sounds like fun to have the partner totally control the implant, BUT, they do need to have pretty good hands to squeeze that bulb without it "jettisoning" from there fingers and smashing into your balls. Implant guys will know what I am talking about, it is not a big deal, but I will only turn my implant pump bulb over to a "professional"

[ShopMan]

sounds like fun to have the partner totally control the implant, BUT, they do need to have pretty good hands to squeeze that bulb without it "jettisoning" from there fingers and smashing into your balls. Implant guys will know what I am talking about, it is not a big deal, but I will only turn my implant pump bulb over to a "professional"

I can attest to the fact that it does happen once in awhile even by me. I too am very carfull who I let touch my tool. My wife has tried with the listed results. I won't let her try that again.