Masturbation during marriage

[Genome]

Amazing, Genome............Simply Amazing

I would think with all those demands on your prostate, your prostate is in excellent shape. Do you have to get up any at your age in the night because of prostate problems causing more frequent urination. You need to be the poster guy for anti aging sexually and physically, considering the shape you are in.

With all the action Spike is seeing, I am wondering if you and Spike are multi orgasmic guys.

I am in the early stages of MMOs after having read a book recommended by a good friend entitled LOVE SATISFIES. The book changed my life with respect to aging and my sexuality. On Tuesday, I had a body shaking orgasm with the help of my wife which was more intense than my first time getting off solo at 13. The link to the book I ordered is here: http://www.lovesatisfies.com/

Congratulation man on your sexual and physical powers.

Thanks for your informative post and best wishes to you and Spike in your retirement.

Thinktank......I have had a slightly enlarged prostate since my 20's. The issue is greatly complicated if I do not ejaculate for a few days. Makes it very difficult to pee because the prostate is engorged with prostate fluid (which makes up 60% of semen) and the swelling strangles the urethra preventing easy voiding. . So long as I ejaculate frequently I have only a small amount of problem with frequent urination. This is strange but the longer I abstain from ejaculating the more difficult it becomes to begin ejaculating again....harder to ejaculate after abstinence. That is the opposite of most guys who get hornier the less they ejaculate.

I think I have a problem releasing proper levels of oxytosin during orgasm. This is the prostaglandin that makes you feel so good after an orgasm....sleepy, relaxed, fulfilled. Thus it takes me 2-3 orgasms before I feel that level of satisfaction that most guys feel with one orgasm. I think this is the seat of my issue. If one a day would satisfy me I would certainly not be compelled to go the multiple route each day. A few times in the last couple of years I have orgasned/ejaculated 6-7 times. With me, each succeeding orgasm is better...more intense. Even the 6th or 7th is more electrical than the first. I obviously am wired differently. It is not necessarily a blessing...but it can be fun.

[roninhouston]

Amazing, Genome............Simply Amazing

With all the action Spike is seeing, I am wondering if you and Spike are multi orgasmic guys.

I am in the early stages of MMOs after having read a book recommended by a good friend entitled LOVE SATISFIES. The book changed my life with respect to aging and my sexuality.
On Tuesday, I had a body shaking orgasm with the help of my wife which was more intense than my first time getting off solo at 13. The link to the book I ordered is here: http://www.lovesatisfies.com/

Went to their website and their exclusive website book is $20. All this info and more is available in the 1996 book, The Multi-Orgasmic Man: Sexual Secrets Every Man Should Know, available on Amazon for 12 dollars or less. Although I read the book several years ago was never able to be follow the technique of being multi-orgasmic, until after my IPP.

A good book for couples is by Joan Price, Naked at Our Age:Talking out Loud about Senior Sex. Couples sharing their masturbating techniques are discussed and integrating it into love making when penis in vagina is not desired or possible. Her latest book The Ultimate Guide to Sex After Fifty: How to Maintain or Regain a Spicy Satisfying Sex Life, discusses couple masturbating their partner and with them. Both books are at Amazon. Search for Joan Price on FT as I have posted more info about her first book.

[Donnie1954]

I get up almost every morning at 4:30 to get ready for work. At those times I had to be in bed by 9pm. If my wife joined me it was sex before 'my' bedtime. If not a good 'wanking' will help me go to sleep. If I masturbate less than 6 hours prior to intercourse, it's hard for me to come. I usually don't masturbate if I know sex is a possibility. Somes I pump up a little but with my implant I am always 'ready'!
Been 'beatin it' since I was 13 too old to stop now!
Donnie

[slob1934]

Wife has no desire. So masturbation is my only outlet. Any recommendations for SAFE Porn Sites?
I have had RP and am implanted with an AMS product

[Cigar56]

Wife has no desire. So masturbation is my only outlet. Any recommendations for SAFE Porn Sites?
I have had RP and am implanted with an AMS product

Not sure what "safe" porn is. If you are concerned that certain pornographic images would be harmful to you, then you should probably just think of your wife or girlfriend while masturbating. I don't mean that to sound preachy and I have certainly flipped through my share of Playboy magazines. The bottom line is that porn is porn. Certainly some porn sites offer more "mainstream" images than other sites that cater to fetishes. But at the end of the day it's all porn.

[retexan599]

Wife has no desire. So masturbation is my only outlet. Any recommendations for SAFE Porn Sites?

I find that various Tumblr blogs have very stimulating images, they are free, and not subject to spam, etc. Start out googling for words preceded with Tumblr, then add your desired genre. Words like sexual, milf, older, or whatever sexual type words appeal to you.
Also:
*if you are concerned about privacy, I use the Chrome browser in its Incognito mode.
*if you append /archive to the URL you find, you will get a page of thumbnails that you can see at a glance. When I find one I like, I save it to my hard drive, and store on an encrypted thumb drive.
*quite often a particular image may reference another blog, so you can spread out from there.
*couple of examples:
http://sexualsensualmenagerie.tumblr.com/archive
http://legendarybeautyposter.tumblr.com/archive
http://dirty-middle-aged-man.tumblr.com/archive
http://grannieslove.tumblr.com/archive

Oh, one more place: Literotica. Lots of good images and very good erotic stories. Free.

[slob1934]

Thanks exactly what I am looking for.

[wgs743]

How do you guys that masturbate regularly work this out with your wives? How do you tell her you need to get release without hurting her feelings or appearing selfish? Wife has asked that we have sex only once a week, except for special occasions. Four days after our weekly session, I am getting horny and at 6 days I am about to come out of my skin. I want to start wanking myself after 3-4 days. Any ideas on how to broach the subject with her? She has been a great wife and I don't want to upset our relationship.

[AnotherOldMan]

Used to be an apple a day. Maybe the apple was code for something else?

http://www.mirror.co.uk/lifestyle/healt ... nd-7086578

[PFracture]

How do you guys that masturbate regularly work this out with your wives? How do you tell her you need to get release without hurting her feelings or appearing selfish? Wife has asked that we have sex only once a week, except for special occasions. Four days after our weekly session, I am getting horny and at 6 days I am about to come out of my skin. I want to start wanking myself after 3-4 days. Any ideas on how to broach the subject with her? She has been a great wife and I don't want to upset our relationship.

This here tells us, that you have deep issues going on in your relationship that need to be addressed first. I wouldn't even worry about the masturbation part. That's for later. But yeah.... You shouldn't even have a problem masturbating at all... As many times as you'd wanted. Right?