Tybeeman wrote:No one is more impatient then me and it has been 15 months. I wanted to do it last summer but doctors told me I need to wait at less a year. I hear of very few success stories for erection after RP. I think some get some of it back and they are happy with it. I am getting nothing. Been ready. Go for it I wish I would have done it sooner
Tybeeman,
In some respects your situation is oposite of mine and on others, similar.
I was underperforming sexually for decades (unbenownst to me and my lovers were too uninformed, kind or enamored of my redeeming qualities to tell me), but a few years ago, it got so bad I was prescribed oral medications. THey helped stabilize (but not improve too much) the situation. Then, last summer I got the V.A. to authorize a penile implant. I could have had it done in September by a local urologist, but held off so I could get better informed. I am glad I waited.
I did due diligence and learned a LOT. I became an advocate of pre-implant conditioning (by Vacuum Erection Therapy) for tissue size and elasticity restoration before implantation I was also able to become much better informed of other implant issues. Size is one thing, but my concerns in order of importance, are with having full support of the glans, optimal pump placement, comfortable reservoir placement, ease of operating the implant, naturalness of feel and appearance, size in girth and length and ease of post-op recovery.
For the above reasons, I have elected to go to the best surgeon available to me, and between Dr. Eid and Dr. Kramer, Dr. Kramer operates inside the VA Hospital in Baltimore, so I chose him.
Now, the VA has tossed a monkey wrench in the works requiring in-person examination in Maryland before they will schedule me. If I cannot resolve that issue, I may have to go with my local surgeon. Or not have the operation. Wednesday, I asked a physician's assistant (who has seen several patients get implants over the past few years) what she would have HER husband do if it came to it. She said unequivocally, to go with the highly experienced surgeon.
Decision, decisions. Some, I can make and some are to be made for me. Sigh.
Lost Sheep