Lost motivation

[Tybeeman]

Merrix
As I shared with you on a PM, even there you didn't get it. First the first time I will disagree with the Plumber. Just the fact that a new person, like my self 3 months ago, comes on here and reads your signature "Only one advice: Find a world class surgeon" is a very, at less to me, big set back for someone making a decision to have a implant. I am not in a position to get a world class surgeon. Does that mean I am better off just forgetting about getting the implant. What is world class. If you have seen pictures, as you have, of "The Reverend Donnie Bryan" dick you would have to say his implant was performed by a world class surgeon. I think it is more constructive on this site to answer question and give advise on question we should ask to make sure that the guy doing our implant is experienced. Trust me I almost gave up after reading some of the post on here until I started reading so many guy that had great success with local surgeons. Just in the last 6 weeks we have heard from 7 guy that had implants by local surgeons and knock on wood they all sound like everything is going well.

All that said it doesn't surprise me that you have got a negative push back from the administrator. I will agree with plumber that you do have a lot of knowledge that you could lend to people. if you could just accept that fact that we all can't have Eid do our implant and if a guy has a big dick and you think the implant size is wrong Who the hell cares.

Tybeeman; What a fantastic response. I agree 110%. I live in Canada and having Eid or Kramer would be difficult and not covered by our provincial insurance. My surgeon is great. World class??? I don't know all of them and their successes and failures so how would I know. I have been told before, that I am too aggressive sometimes. When it is pointed out respectfully I have no problem toning it down and even apologizing, BUT respectfully worded and in a PM. Thanks for saying what the rest of us were thinking. (I wish there were a "Like Button" on this site)

Larry

Thanks Larry. I am not here to condemn anyone. This site is a lot better then is was 3 months ago. I don't know if you were reading back then, you would have thought that it was Kramer's own personal board and a few Eid post. The first thing i did was check my insurance only to find out I had no out of network coverage and had to stay in the state of Georgia. I was depress and gave up on the implant and ordered a strong tri mix. I think it was Donnie's post that i read one day and noticed he had his guy in Orlando do his and has talked how great it was. After researching I found a tons of great surgeons that you can get and implant from. He doesn't have to be world class. My advise is get educated and read everyone's experience on here and research it. Then pick 3 doctors out and interview them. I am sure that you will find a great one and probably not as arrogant as some of the world class ones are. I am sure a phone call is great for some people but if I have a problem I know that my surgeon is only a car drive away.

[Larry10625]

Merrix
As I shared with you on a PM, even there you didn't get it. First the first time I will disagree with the Plumber. Just the fact that a new person, like my self 3 months ago, comes on here and reads your signature "Only one advice: Find a world class surgeon" is a very, at less to me, big set back for someone making a decision to have a implant. I am not in a position to get a world class surgeon. Does that mean I am better off just forgetting about getting the implant. What is world class. If you have seen pictures, as you have, of "The Reverend Donnie Bryan" dick you would have to say his implant was performed by a world class surgeon. I think it is more constructive on this site to answer question and give advise on question we should ask to make sure that the guy doing our implant is experienced. Trust me I almost gave up after reading some of the post on here until I started reading so many guy that had great success with local surgeons. Just in the last 6 weeks we have heard from 7 guy that had implants by local surgeons and knock on wood they all sound like everything is going well.

All that said it doesn't surprise me that you have got a negative push back from the administrator. I will agree with plumber that you do have a lot of knowledge that you could lend to people. if you could just accept that fact that we all can't have Eid do our implant and if a guy has a big dick and you think the implant size is wrong Who the hell cares.

Tybeeman; What a fantastic response. I agree 110%. I live in Canada and having Eid or Kramer would be difficult and not covered by our provincial insurance. My surgeon is great. World class??? I don't know all of them and their successes and failures so how would I know. I have been told before, that I am too aggressive sometimes. When it is pointed out respectfully I have no problem toning it down and even apologizing, BUT respectfully worded and in a PM. Thanks for saying what the rest of us were thinking. (I wish there were a "Like Button" on this site)

Larry

I joined April 15 and I know what you mean. Some members were very supportive and some were just here to argue. There was even one member who was constantly insulting military (especially navy) members. Rather than have a tantrum, I just quit posting responses to him and moved on. I love this site... everyone here gets it.. and I find that incredibly supportive... even the jerks understand what we are all going through. Someone posted that after you have your implant you should leave the site.... WRONG... how do we get expert advice if there is nobody with experience here. I consider people who have been through this whole mess for a while to be the next best thing to experts.

Larry

Thanks Larry. I am not here to condemn anyone. This site is a lot better then is was 3 months ago. I don't know if you were reading back then, you would have thought that it was Kramer's own personal board and a few Eid post. The first thing i did was check my insurance only to find out I had no out of network coverage and had to stay in the state of Georgia. I was depress and gave up on the implant and ordered a strong tri mix. I think it was Donnie's post that i read one day and noticed he had his guy in Orlando do his and has talked how great it was. After researching I found a tons of great surgeons that you can get and implant from. He doesn't have to be world class. My advise is get educated and read everyone's experience on here and research it. Then pick 3 doctors out and interview them. I am sure that you will find a great one and probably not as arrogant as some of the world class ones are. I am sure a phone call is great for some people but if I have a problem I know that my surgeon is only a car drive away.

[PFracture]

Merrix
As I shared with you on a PM, even there you didn't get it. First the first time I will disagree with the Plumber. Just the fact that a new person, like my self 3 months ago, comes on here and reads your signature "Only one advice: Find a world class surgeon" is a very, at less to me, big set back for someone making a decision to have a implant. I am not in a position to get a world class surgeon. Does that mean I am better off just forgetting about getting the implant. What is world class. If you have seen pictures, as you have, of "The Reverend Donnie Bryan" dick you would have to say his implant was performed by a world class surgeon. I think it is more constructive on this site to answer question and give advise on question we should ask to make sure that the guy doing our implant is experienced. Trust me I almost gave up after reading some of the post on here until I started reading so many guy that had great success with local surgeons. Just in the last 6 weeks we have heard from 7 guy that had implants by local surgeons and knock on wood they all sound like everything is going well.

All that said it doesn't surprise me that you have got a negative push back from the administrator. I will agree with plumber that you do have a lot of knowledge that you could lend to people. if you could just accept that fact that we all can't have Eid do our implant and if a guy has a big dick and you think the implant size is wrong Who the hell cares.

Tybeeman; What a fantastic response. I agree 110%. I live in Canada and having Eid or Kramer would be difficult and not covered by our provincial insurance. My surgeon is great. World class??? I don't know all of them and their successes and failures so how would I know. I have been told before, that I am too aggressive sometimes. When it is pointed out respectfully I have no problem toning it down and even apologizing, BUT respectfully worded and in a PM. Thanks for saying what the rest of us were thinking. (I wish there were a "Like Button" on this site)

Larry

With the money that you guys make in Canada, everybody can afford an implant in the us. Might take some time and sacrifice, sure, but don't make it sound like it's not possible.

[PFracture]

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Thanks Larry. I am not here to condemn anyone. This site is a lot better then is was 3 months ago. I don't know if you were reading back then, you would have thought that it was Kramer's own personal board and a few Eid post. The first thing i did was check my insurance only to find out I had no out of network coverage and had to stay in the state of Georgia. I was depress and gave up on the implant and ordered a strong tri mix. I think it was Donnie's post that i read one day and noticed he had his guy in Orlando do his and has talked how great it was. After researching I found a tons of great surgeons that you can get and implant from. He doesn't have to be world class. My advise is get educated and read everyone's experience on here and research it. Then pick 3 doctors out and interview them. I am sure that you will find a great one and probably not as arrogant as some of the world class ones are. I am sure a phone call is great for some people but if I have a problem I know that my surgeon is only a car drive away.

This shows me that you have not been paying attention to the posts here along the times, and that also... I better not even say it. If it was not for the threats I received from the admin I'd tell you a few things you need to read. But yeah... The board is better now. Lol.... Because all the voices that don't share your point of view were silenced.

[Larry10625]

Merrix
As I shared with you on a PM, even there you didn't get it. First the first time I will disagree with the Plumber. Just the fact that a new person, like my self 3 months ago, comes on here and reads your signature "Only one advice: Find a world class surgeon" is a very, at less to me, big set back for someone making a decision to have a implant. I am not in a position to get a world class surgeon. Does that mean I am better off just forgetting about getting the implant. What is world class. If you have seen pictures, as you have, of "The Reverend Donnie Bryan" dick you would have to say his implant was performed by a world class surgeon. I think it is more constructive on this site to answer question and give advise on question we should ask to make sure that the guy doing our implant is experienced. Trust me I almost gave up after reading some of the post on here until I started reading so many guy that had great success with local surgeons. Just in the last 6 weeks we have heard from 7 guy that had implants by local surgeons and knock on wood they all sound like everything is going well.

All that said it doesn't surprise me that you have got a negative push back from the administrator. I will agree with plumber that you do have a lot of knowledge that you could lend to people. if you could just accept that fact that we all can't have Eid do our implant and if a guy has a big dick and you think the implant size is wrong Who the hell cares.

Tybeeman; What a fantastic response. I agree 110%. I live in Canada and having Eid or Kramer would be difficult and not covered by our provincial insurance. My surgeon is great. World class??? I don't know all of them and their successes and failures so how would I know. I have been told before, that I am too aggressive sometimes. When it is pointed out respectfully I have no problem toning it down and even apologizing, BUT respectfully worded and in a PM. Thanks for saying what the rest of us were thinking. (I wish there were a "Like Button" on this site)

Larry

With the money that you guys make in Canada, everybody can afford an implant in the us. Might take some time and sacrifice, sure, but don't make it sound like it's not possible.

Speaking of paying attention, have you noticed the difference in the Canadian dollar vs the US dollar. Yesterday it was +.30. If I was to find a primary care paramedic with my skill set and 15 years experience plus College proctoring authority, and add 30% to his/her salary, I am quite certain there would be very little difference. My job was not like driving a taxi or serving beer to drunks, if I make a mistake, someone dies. There are at least 2 people who were in cardiac arrest, who continue to enjoy life to the fullest because of my actions. I have earned every penny I received.

I joined Frank Talk in mid April and have kept up with all current posts AND have read quite a few posts from before I joined. I have noticed that there are a few very aggressive people on here who, if they don't agree with you, will slam you hard. Possibly these are the people who are being "silenced" by the moderators, after all, that's their job.

[DaveET1]

Larry, why don't you try sticking to the TRUTH. I most certainly DID NOT insult military. What I said was a comment about the self-righteous arrogance on NAVAL OFFICERS, which you have just now so accurately confirmed.

Thank you for backing me up.

[Larry10625]

Larry, why don't you try sticking to the TRUTH. I most certainly DID NOT insult military. What I said was a comment about the self-righteous arrogance on NAVAL OFFICERS, which you have just now so accurately confirmed.

Thank you for backing me up.

You have to be, by far, the biggest asshole on this forum. You just reminded me why I was ignoring you in the first place. I am quite certain your parents were appreciative of the navy during 1939-1945. You, quite apparently did not understand why I made that reference and you aren't worth me explaining it to your sorry ass now.

[Tybeeman]

I have been off this forum for two weeks. The last one by choice. The first one because the administrators of the site thought I was not worthy of being here. Due to my posts, according to them, being ”overly argumentative and aggressive”.

Even though I completely and totally disagree, I have no problem with accepting that the people who put their effort in to running this site must have the right to take the decisions they think benefits their interest.

So if they want to suspend me for pointing out obvious factual errors and question statements that seems to be inaccurate, then it’s their right.
On the other hand, it is likewise my right, and responsibility to myself, to spend my time - which is already a scarce resource - where I think it is worth to spend.

And I have spent a lot of time here. Dozens (or is it hundreds?) of hours have I used to as detailed, accurate and well as I ever could describe my experience of getting implanted. I have tried to answer questions from people, I have tried to engage in discussions with the main purpose of sharing the knowledge I have gained. I have happily accepted phone calls from younger guys looking for talking to someone they can identify with and ask questions about getting and being implanted.

I have tried to learn more myself as well. And in my opinion, learning (and knowledge) is created by being factual correct and by questioning things. By discussing. Only by questioning things can you learn more.
But - if this site does not allow me to question some of the most apparent misinformation ever posted here, then this is not for me. If that leads to suspension of my account, then I simply stand so far away from the fundamental principles of what this site should be about. As a result, I have completely lost my motivation to continue to spend time here. If what I posted in the thread where several posts not only from me, but from several others as well, got deleted - then I don’t see neither my contribution, nor my benefits, of being here.

If pointing out that 18-5 (which my calculator says is 13) does not equal 19-1.5 (which the same calculator says is 17.5) leads to having my account blocked for a week, well, then I’m out. I will spend my time somewhere else.

The whole thing gets even more ridiculous when a picture (the groin measurement) is recently posted that proves I was right. It may hurt someone’s ego to be called out, but in my opinion it is more important to make sure people who come here get accurate information. Apparently the administrators of the site do not share those priorities. And again, that is fine, it is their right. But then it is not for me.

If someone knows a good way to copy a whole thread to a word document or similar, please let me know in a PM. Maybe the administrators can help me with that? I would really like to keep ’My Journal’ for myself for future reference. It is invaluable documentation for me.

Bye for now. I will say ”for now”, because who knows, I might change my mind and be back one day, but for the time being, I’ve had it with this site. I may be posting one final 'update' in 'My Journal', but in terms of joining in discussions, I have had it for now.

And to those of you who have been here a long time, and who helped me learning when I needed it - Thanks. It was invaluable as it contributed to me taking a great decision, to get implanted with a Titan by Eid.

Take care guys.
May your dicks stand firm at a nice angle for the rest of your long lives.

I was just reading old post. I sure didn't miss this