Uncooperative partner

[newtoed]

Great topic guys!
Interestingly my soon to be ex wife went through hell with me through my rectal cancer treatment, but the moment she realized I'm gonna neeed pills to get a decent erection she started leaving me emotionally. 2 years before I opened up her sexuality to a crazy level. She had amazing pleasure and life with me general. As soon as it became clear that I need help to get hard even though because of cancer, she didn't want to have sex that much, she didn't enjoy it and basically never had orgasms any more. I tried to live like that for a year then I left and divorcing now. Giving pleasure with the help of Trimix to many women but not sharing my secret though. Learned my lesson.
All the best!

[Flannigan]

Great topic guys!
Interestingly my soon to be ex wife went through hell with me through my rectal cancer treatment, but the moment she realized I'm gonna neeed pills to get a decent erection she started leaving me emotionally. 2 years before I opened up her sexuality to a crazy level. She had amazing pleasure and life with me general. As soon as it became clear that I need help to get hard even though because of cancer, she didn't want to have sex that much, she didn't enjoy it and basically never had orgasms any more. I tried to live like that for a year then I left and divorcing now. Giving pleasure with the help of Trimix to many women but not sharing my secret though. Learned my lesson.
All the best!

I find it very interesting that as soon as women find out you have been using Viagra or something else to get your dick hard that they almost immediately detach themselves. It's almost like a switch goes off. I get it that they want their man to want them and get hard naturally but they just don't seem to understand that things don't always work as they should. If you love that person and not just their dick then you should be willing to work past it. I am currently trying to work through this with my GF. I know she loves me but she is struggling. Everything was great with the Viagra before she knew I was taking it. Now I am having to use the Trimix and she says it just seems so unnatural. It's taken some of the joy out of our sex
Cheers
Flannigan

[David_R]

If you love that person and not just their dick then you should be willing to work past it.

How true! (And the reverse is also true: If you love that person and not just their tits then you should be willing to work past it.)

[Flannigan]

How true! (And the reverse is also true: If you love that person and not just their tits then you should be willing to work past it.)

Thankfully my girl has a great set of cans. I can't look past them if I wanted to. In fact...I can't keep my eyes off of them

[newtoed]

I hate that society puts all the pressure on us when it comes to performance and on women when it comes to looks. Guys can get away with hairy back and beer belly, but if you can't get rock hard and perform for hours you are a loser. We expect women to have perfect breasts and butt no stretch marks after three kids, but no one judges them if they just lay there during sex like a star fish. We have to give each other a break. Too much pressure on both genders.
As far as I'm concerned if my woman is not willing to participate reasonably in sex whether she loves me or not I'm out of there. Men lose their respect very easy in this crazy world. I don't have time to fel with that. I just rather find a new partner who is excited to work with me on every part of our relationship.
All the best!

[tomas1]

I agree with newtoed. IMO if a woman loves you she will get past any biases. What ever happened "in sickness and health"?

[Flannigan]

Women definitely seem to have it made when it comes to sex. All they have to do is lie back and spread their legs. They don't have to worry about trying to get their pussies hard We put up with them when they go thru menopause with all their hot flashes and everything but then as soon as we start going thru andropause and our dicks don't perform like they used to then they all of a sudden we are no longer men.

I realize not all women are like this but it seems like society has created this double standard here. Humans were not supposed to live such long lives so our reproductive systems are not always up for the challenge. Now all the big pharma companies have jumped on board the money train and it's almost as if we are meant to feel like we are less than a man if we can't still have sex after 50. It's a bunch of BS. That's my opinion.

Flannigan

[Flannigan]

What I find even more interesting is that this issue never even came up until probably the 80's. What was going on all that time before when married couples stayed together through thick and thin. Did we as a society just accept the fact that you just weren't expected to have a lot of sex after 50 or 60 ? I don't recall people ever even discussing this issue until maybe the last 20 years. Viagra certainly has changed everything.

[AnotherOldMan]

All they have to do is lie back and spread their legs. They don't have to worry about trying to get their pussies hard

No wonder they are reluctant! That can't be anywhere near to fulfilling.

[cincinnatus1951]

Bach. We love out titan and my wife would be willing to share her very positive feelings. Send me a contact number and we can connect either on FT chat video, Skype or facetime.
Cincinnatus