TANGERINE wrote:The definition of "TMI"
"Most friends, especially those under 65 years old, do not want to know if you dribble after peeing, they do not want to know if you have trouble wiping your butt adequately so that it don't stink. They do not want to know if your penis is too small or if your penis never gets hard, or if you use needles to get hard or if you have a plastic implant inside your dick"
In my opinion, the ONLY people who should know about your implant would be those that you are having sex with. There is enough stigma around impotence and sex addicts and perverts such that people will lump you into those weird categories. In concept, I agree that a penile implant, from a moral viewpoint, is no less weird than a breast implant. A women who gets a "boob job" is in the same league as a man who gets a "boner job."
But, penile implants are rare, and people do not know how to respond.
For your info, my wife was super worried that ANY of our friends would find out about my implant surgery. We went to great lengths to hide why we were going to New York for a few days (in fact, she liked the idea of leaving town since it insured privacy and anonymity).
For the woman you sleep with, it might be a non-issue. For some it will be a turn-off, but once a woman realizes how awesome bionic sex is, she likely will "put up with the unnatural."
For many women, your sexual secret is something that makes your relationship even more intimate (women do like secrets that only they can know)
What was interesting is how nosy people were. I had to say in the hospital overnight. My wife has 5 brothers and sisters and everybody wanted to know everything "Is the cancer back?" "What is exactly wrong?" My wife and I decided to say "He's having reconstructive surgery". For some reason, it shut everybody up. Except our 36 year old daughter. "What reconstruction?". I told her and she was sympathetic, but I think she wished she had left it alone. However, she was great with her 3 year old daughter. She ran up to jump on grampa's lap right out of the hospital, and my daughter did an end run to catch her first. Thank you! Wow, that would have hurt.
Now my wife is relatively happy. After 10 years of no sex, she has me pump it up and sits on it all the time. She's done, rolls off, goes to sleep. I can't feel a thing. The sensory nerves have not grown back after 4 months. The doctor said give it 6 months. After that, it's less likely they will grow back. Now there's a disappointment, but I'd still take longer than 60 seconds; my wife was blessed with a "hair trigger"...
6/2013 DaVinci Radical Prostatectomy sacrificing erectile nerve. 5/16/2017 AMS 700 MS series 15cm (with 4 RTEs) No orgasm unless after extended time. Am now 4.5 inches (after an hour, maybe 5 inches; 5.5 implanted). Lots of hand arthritis. Age 65
