hturner12 wrote:Or be honest and tell then man surgery. They will notice post op
Haha yea the idea would be to stay out of work for 2 weeks, to hopefully be walking normally by then and tell them it was a sensitive surgery and leave it at that.
Only one I would have to tell in advance would be my VP and she's cool.
Hernia near pelvic bone perhaps, or say it was something more "sinister" or personal I don't want to talk about... people don't push if you say it's something serious.
My co-workers are a tight knit and respectful bunch. They wouldn't ask questions.
geophd wrote:What does your girlfriend think, is she phased at all? Optimistic/indifferent/excited/skeptical/freaking out? How much does she know about the implant? Curious because I feel the same way, having a great relationship really highlights your dick problem. I feel like I want to be perfect for her and I wonder what she would think.
Well I was a bit nervous to say I really wanted to do this. We talked about the idea more as an abstract concept previously.
I brought it up tonight by saying, "I got some interesting news today... How would you like to have sex with me and orgasm every day?"
She smiled a bit confused and said what news did you get?
I told her I had my surgeon's pre-auth specialist talk to my insurance about coverage and that it had come back covered with his analysis and my history being enough to warrant the implant.
She asked when I saw a surgeon, which I explained was the urologist I saw earlier this month.
She asked about possible complications I told her about the floppy glan issue but explained that it is usually a bad surgeon that causes that or improper sizing of the implant.
Along with a considerable healing process which I'm not averse to. I'm good at laying in bed a lot and have a good pain threshold.
It won't be fun but I'll be able to get through it.... AND the fact that I'm in a good surgeon's hands and that I'm relatively young bodes well in my favor for healing faster.
She asked about sensitivity loss and I explained I could still cum and orgasm, and would most likely not lose any feeling.
She has some reservations, she likes my dick... But I know that over time it would only get worse and would strain the relationship.
I explained I may lose a little length but most likely gain some girth to which her eyes lit up.
She asked to get information on the surgery and this forum and anything else I've been reading so she can understand it more and put to rest any fears or questions she has.
My more overarching worry was that she wouldn't want to fuck me if I had an implant, but the fact that it's still me just with some assistance, makes sense to her and she doesn't feel like that would be a problem. There was no repulsion of the idea, just concern for my well-being.
At the end of the day she knows and respects that this would be my decision ultimately and backs me up.
As with most things, she's more cautious and would hold off, whereas I have done the research and am ready to move into a new chapter of crazy sex to round out our fantastic relationship.
