Getting discovered: How to tell a woman your bionic

[Greg1956]

I’ve had sex with 3 different women since my implant. This has been on multiple occasions, and it includes long bouts of oral. When they go to touch that area, I tell them I don’t like my balls played with. No one has asked or suspected a thing. When I stay the night, I leave it partially pumped so there are no folds. I have a small scrotum from TRT, so it is very easy to feel my pump. However it’s easy because I can feel it both internally and with my fingertips. A woman brushing against it briefly has a very hard time discerning something different down there.

However I have been dating someone exclusively for over a month now, and I am considering the big reveal. When I let her know, I will update everyone.

Dusty,
Happy to hear you are enjoying your implant. Best wishes when you reveal your implant to the woman you are dating. If you care for her I guess it is best to reveal sooner rather than later. It will definitely tell you if she is the one.

Greg

[TANGERINE]

here is a quote from shooter1000 (I did reach out to him with private message, but it looks like he is out having too much sex to answer)

Postby shooter1000 » Mon Oct 23, 2017 1:18 pm
The key word is "Bionic" when you tell a partner about your implant, tell them that you are bionic. You are enhanced beyond what any mere mortal can achieve. Don;t use the word implant. I have never had an issue with it and I tell them upfront. Several of my partners are or have been your age or younger. from Shooter1000

[DaveKell]

Look guys life is best lived within the realm of truth. I have virtually no understanding of why anybody feels the need to hide having an implant. It's a part of who you are now and should be no different than letting them know you have a belly button. Which, by the way, I no longer have due to 18 major abdominal surgeries!

I'm married to my first wife and it's turning out to be a life sentence. Still, I have reminisced a lot about many of the women I encountered before I got married at the age of 26. In my imagined new encounter with them I have brought up from the git go the BIONIC dick I have. Granted, these are only fantasies. However, I am in no way embarrassed by the awesome capabilities I have over when I functioned "normally" and don't know why you should be either. You gave yourself a phenomenal gift with a bionic dick. Now give it to her without apology. After she has encountered her first hours long lasting dick she'll either be sticking to you like glue or running home to ice her sore pussy. In either case, she'll most likely be back for more as often as you make yourself available.

I once lived with a beautiful woman for over 6 months. I moved out one day while she was at work. The reason was because in that 6 moths I probably only got to fuck her half a dozen times. Most every night I only provided a dose of cum she sucked out of me and swallowed because she claimed it was good for her complexion. Now that I am far from a 2 pump chump do you even remotely imagine I wouldn't like to encounter her again? I could give her her complexion treatment AND get laid both at the same time now. How cool is that? Lighten up on yourself and give up the covert attitude. Bring it up before you ever get in bed and watch her delight afterwards. Hell, let her find that 3rd nut and have fun inflating you. Let me know how it goes from here on out.

[ThePlumber1964]

Great attitude and perspective, Dave!

[Dustyknox]

I don’t think it is fair to judge anyone that wants to keep it private or scream about it from a roof top. Being private is not being untruthful as your previous post suggests. We are all in vastly different circumstances. Someone in a long term marriage may have more difficulty relating to someone young having casual hookups. I appreciate your perspective, but I respectfully disagree as this is a choice that should be made by the individual based on his unique circumstances.

[Dustyknox]

Oh and thank you for the kind words Greg! She’s a wonderful person. I’m sure it won’t be an issue

[DaveKell]

I don’t think it is fair to judge anyone that wants to keep it private or scream about it from a roof top. Being private is not being untruthful as your precious post suggests. We are all in vastly different circumstances. Someone in a long term marriage may have more difficulty relating to someone young having casual hookups. I appreciate your perspective, but I respectfully disagree as this is a choice that should be made by the individual based on his unique circumstances.

Point taken. I've addressed before on other threads this idea of avoiding being discovered. To me, it's similar to the struggle with ED insofar as the worry about whether or not your dick will stay hard long enough. If you have an implant that worry is long gone. Why replace it with another form of pressure? We became stress fractures from the ravages of ED. I say leave all extraneous worry firmly in the past and be totally present in the truth to fully enjoy your new capability.

Also, I fail to see how I suggested being private was untruthful.

[Dustyknox]

Very good points davekell. I can definitely see how that would be the case for some. It is a shame men and women’s sexual issues are such a forbidden topic in society.

My only issue was with the line “life is best lived within the realm of truth.” Nevertheless, I think we are both on the same page. No harm done

Have a happy holiday!

[RecentImplant]

Hi all,

I just wanted to chime in on this topic since it's a big concern for me. I'm 4-weeks post implant. It's really different for those of you who are married than for those who are single (divorced here). With your wife or partner, of course they were a part of this entire journey that brought us all here. You're really fortunate, but also totally, um, divorced from the reality for a single guy.

For a single guy, it's a hugely personal thing to tell someone you are bionic or have a penis implant or however you want to word it. The guy next to me at work wants to set me up with someone. Do I have to tell that person if and when we have sex the first time (and probably the last time) I have a penis implant, and then have it get back to my co-worker, or friend or lady from school or whoever else always wants to set me up? My cock is my business, and I'm thrilled having the renewed capability with the implant. It is intensely personal.

When I went on dates before, I didn't say 'I'm sorry, I have severe ED and need to take a viagra now that I hope is going to kick in in two hours so we can fuck.' And I suspect most other guys don't either.

The pump is really noticeable and anyone is going to figure it out. I need to make peace with how to tell people, but I want it on my terms. So I'd love to hear from guys who have chosen other things to say than simply that they have a bionic implant.

Thanks much.

[Larry10625]

Hi all,

I just wanted to chime in on this topic since it's a big concern for me. I'm 4-weeks post implant. It's really different for those of you who are married than for those who are single (divorced here). With your wife or partner, of course they were a part of this entire journey that brought us all here. You're really fortunate, but also totally, um, divorced from the reality for a single guy.

For a single guy, it's a hugely personal thing to tell someone you are bionic or have a penis implant or however you want to word it. The guy next to me at work wants to set me up with someone. Do I have to tell that person if and when we have sex the first time (and probably the last time) I have a penis implant, and then have it get back to my co-worker, or friend or lady from school or whoever else always wants to set me up? My cock is my business, and I'm thrilled having the renewed capability with the implant. It is intensely personal.

When I went on dates before, I didn't say 'I'm sorry, I have severe ED and need to take a viagra now that I hope is going to kick in in two hours so we can fuck.' And I suspect most other guys don't either.

The pump is really noticeable and anyone is going to figure it out. I need to make peace with how to tell people, but I want it on my terms. So I'd love to hear from guys who have chosen other things to say than simply that they have a bionic implant.

Thanks much.

The pump is not noticeable on everyone. The AMS cylinders are softer and don't have the dog ears where it folds down. Nice girl don't fuck on the first date.

Larry