Getting discovered: How to tell a woman your bionic

[ThePlumber1964]

Great story to prove a very valid point, sir! Thanks for sharing.

ThePlumber

[Lost Sheep]

My choice was to tell BEFORE ever even meeting.

I put an ad up on PoF (Plenty of Fish) announcing that I had ED and was seeking a "lab parter" to journey with me through to restored function.

It certainly is not suitable for everyone's circumstances, but for me it did produce several respondents, a few of whom were willing to take me on as a sexual partner to experiment with. I picked one and we are now on our way. "Balls deep" comes to mind as a metaphor.

Tonight is our "maiden" voyage. I doubt if we will be able to break a bottle of Champagne on my bow, but it will be at least hard enough to "part the waters".

The most common thought expressed by the respondents was that it took a brave man to admit to ED in such a public way (though my name was anonomized, my picture was attached) and they were impressed by a man who would be so honest about something so personal.

Check out these threads:
viewtopic.php?f=6&t=7516


viewtopic.php?f=6&t=7166

and MOST ESPECIALLY this one, written by a 23 year old woman:

viewtopic.php?f=6&t=6513

AND, I saved the best for last. A woman whose boyfriend did not tell her, but she figured it out anyway and chooses not to tell him she knows. Very enlightening (even though some skeptics early in the thread suspected she was not female at all, but some kind of troll-read past those and you will see she is indeed, real.

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[Anonymous3]

I'd probably get it out in conversation before things were even headed in the direction of sex, but that's just me. I'm an open book by nature -- what too open for my wife's comfort.
Maybe I'd lose some chances this way, but like I said, that's just me.
Bob

Exactly the same here

[TANGERINE]

The topic about "how to deal with getting discovered" is very much on the minds of anybody who is dating.
This has come up again, so I am bumping this topic into the active discussions.

It is scary, exhilirating, powerful and vulnerable to be in that position when you're both intertwined and naked and your nearing the point of penetration, but unexpectedly, she feels this hard ball in your scrotum and asks - what's this ?

Franktalk brothers, let's help each other by providing some specific advice for the man who is out in the field playing and trying to win the game.

QUESTION: "what is a suggested script that you might use to tell a woman you are bionic"

[Skier123]

How about this:

"Honey, I want to give you a little heads up before we get too serious here ... I had to have a little surgery on my friend down there a while back ... everything looks and feels completely normal, but it made it so he can last ALLLLLLLLLL night.

Is that OK with you?"

[Vagabond127]

I plan on telling a potential partner that I incurred a serious sports injury and now I have 3 balls. Everything else just wing it. Gay/straight guys love a good sports injury story. I won't know how it works for a few months.0

[new dick]

i have had an implant for 5 weeks 1 day waiting for my doc to let me pump it up.
my wife says she cant wait to play with my power ball..

if the lady you are with wants to know what the extra ball is tell her what my wife said it is your power ball..

[merrix]

QUESTION: "what is a suggested script that you might use to tell a woman you are bionic"

No right or wrong here in terms of should you tell them or try to hide it. We're all different and many things influence our standpoint in the matter.

However, the issue of whether you will be "detected" or not, is for sure an issue about how you have sex. The whole thing is about her touching the balls thoroughly. If she does, with her fingers or mouth, she most likely will find the pump. If she doesn't touch your scrotum at all, she will most likely not find anything unusual, except for the stamina.

My experience is that most partners I've been with actually do touch my balls thoroughly when giving oral. I am sure most of them felt the pump. However, not all of them choose to say something. The ones who do say something, usually say "What is this?".

And my answer is always something like: "Don't worry about it, I had surgery after an accident when I was young. Just keep going, it feels so good".

For those of you dating, and having sex with a woman you want to get more serious with, I'd still use the same approach the first time. But at some point, i would of course tell them.

I also agree with what someone said in one of the earlier posts in this thread.
You don't want to go from avoiding (or feeling stress when having) sex because of the risk you won't get it up, to avoiding (or feeling stress when having) sex because you are afraid your partner will detect your implant.
Then it was all for nothing, wasn't it?
We got the implant because we wanted to be free.
Free to have sex, good sex, with focus on pleasure for all involved and not focus on whether your fucking crap dick stays up or not.
You wanted to feel strong, confident and as a man again.
So don't let this thing take over.
Remember, having sex with an implant, even if discovered by your partner, is still a million times better than not getting it up at all.
Put things in perspective.
I advise you young guys to use my explanation. No one has ever continued the conversation after that answer. And these women have been all from 25-45 years old

I am also 100% sure that how we handle it makes a big difference. If you feel ashamed about it, if you do all you can to hide it, if you worry about it, it will shine through. It will make you a worse lover. It will also make you feel even more embarrassed when she does find out. Just try to be strong and confident. Take some moderate measures to avoid detection if that is important to you. E.g. you don't need to inflate in front of her, do it in the bathroom. But don't go overboard, putting all your focus on her not finding out. Your focus should be on the moment. The sexy woman, the pleasure, your confidence to be a stallion who can fuck as long as anybody wants you to. If shit happens and she feels your pump, just say something like I suggested and move on. Don't let this fill up your mind.

[defiant]

Merrix chiming in with the Triple A advice yet again.

[lunacynic]

wow i'm surprised to see so much doubt and uncertainty regarding this issue, and the default strategies on the board seem to be ignore or conceal. i live in asia and have a lot of partners and i guarantee this does not have to be a problem. in fact there's no reason you can't have fun with it! i have two graphic images on my phone, an exploded view of the components and a cross-section of an installed device. as soon as the clothes start to come off i announce i have something i want to show them and launch my presentation. i detail where all the parts go and invite them to feel everything out. they're always, without exception, fascinated by the whole thing. it can actually boost your collective anticipation! the only reservations i've ever faced have been their concerns it might be painful for -me-.

why contaminate the experience by trying to sustain a deception? they're gonna love it, bring 'em on board! seriously there's no rational justification for being embarrassed to have a bionic dick, it's something to be proud of! would you be shy about revealing any other super power? the robocock is invincible! just go for it