hturner12 wrote:Just remember the fable of the jack rabbit and the turttle. The turttle won. For now you need to be the turttle.
Smart advice.
I was a sprinter when young, so that will be hard for me, I'm the impatient sort.
hturner12 wrote:Just remember the fable of the jack rabbit and the turttle. The turttle won. For now you need to be the turttle.
jackhammerdreamz wrote:Day 43 6 weeks SEX TIME!
Or so I thought
My girlfriend and I have been seeing a relationship therapist just to get back in touch with our sexuality which we've lost the last year or so.
We've always been awkward with sex, but it got to the point where we were so nervous about sex it wasn't working and my ED was making that worse.
Anyway, so we marked our calendar for today.
FUCK THIS DAY
I come home from work much later than she does. 3 hours later actually.
So I get home and she's taking a bath and she gets out and she has sexy silk pajamas on.
I ask if she wants to get busy downstairs or up in our bedroom.
She brushes me off and says she's going to wind down and be on her phone.
So I look at my phone and she's on her phone and I'm like, "I thought we were having sex today?"
She was like well you can have sex starting today but just expecting it doesn't set the mood.
I don't want to have sex right now...
And then she is like You look sad...
And I'm like WELL YEA! Tonight was supposed to be fun and sexy and now it's just nothing.
So fellas, even if your boner is able to be there at the drop of a hat, remember the slow play.
Women are filled with contradictions.
She tells me, "I don't feel like having sex right now" then a second later "I wish you would take charge"
Well I DID express my wants, but you decided you weren't interested.
I guess I'm supposed to just throw her onto the bed and pull her panties down and start going to town.
I'm convinced this is why women out live men. This duality, or mixed messages.
If I were gay, my bf would be like, hey you can have sex today! I better go get my lube.
Okay wll she likes having sex in the morning, at her most horny, so she set her alarm earlier than usual so she can wake me up for sex.
We'll see if she's in the mood then. I am NOT a morning person. lol. Maybe we're just doomed.
I know that we have the rest of our lives to have sex, but tonight was supposed to be that special night. She shaved her legs, she was all ready.
And then she just turned away and shut me down. ugh.
I guess I didn't make it feel special. No candles, or music or rose pedals.
Rookie mistake.
Hopefully I have a better update for you guys tomorrow!
hturner12 wrote:I would take morning sex over no sex
postra7777 wrote:Women are emotional characters. Once we try to logically figure them out they change. I heard somewhere that a woman needs 20 non sexual touches before she get in the mood to have sex. I've tried it and it actually works. I'm sorry that this happened to you and will use your advice to slow play it on my fuck day which is April 20th. I'll start with the touches very early in the AM.
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