I have many friends who supposedly don’t have ED and almost all of them complain about their sex life: either not enough or not satisfactory and boring.
I personally am very satisfied despite my severe ED because sofar injections work great for me.
I’m single and have sex about 2-3 times a week.
I don’t like that I constantly have to make sure the medicine is chilled and available and use it in secret because they don’t know. The girfriend(s) seem to be extremely happy with me.
Honestly I would like to have more casual sex with new women on the side, but overall I’m very happy and never complain about my sex life.
How happy are you with your sex life and would you change something if anything was possible?
How Satisfied Are You With Your Sex Life?
How Satisfied Are You With Your Sex Life?
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Age 54, Single, Los Angeles. Stage 2 rectal cancer in 2013. Radiation, surgery, chemo. In remission for 5 years. Some ED before cancer, complete since. 2-3 units of Trimix 40/30/2 2-3 times a week since Feb/2017 with great success!
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I would somehow get my wife back to thinking sex was fun and a healthy way to keep us close.
Bob
Bob
Born '52. Married '79. RALP 3/1/17. ED 50+% prior to surgery even w/ meds. VED, Injections, ineffective. Considering implant even before PCa diagnosis. Dr. Kramer 8/2/17. LGX 21cm+0.5 RTE. Kramer replaced/repositioned pump 12/13/17. Willing to Show/Tell.
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Our sex life has been dormant for more than 10 years and we have both been OK with it. It was good while it lasted, but sometimes in life $hit happens.
Dave, 80, Maryland - Implant (Titan) 2008 by Dr. Andrew Kramer (failed Sept 2020) - never used due to a stroke that, among other things, ended my sex life.
Life is not the way it's supposed to be, it's the way it is.
Life is not the way it's supposed to be, it's the way it is.
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newtoed wrote:I have many friends who supposedly don’t have ED and almost all of them complain about their sex life: either not enough or not satisfactory and boring.
I personally am very satisfied despite my severe ED because sofar injections work great for me.
I’m single and have sex about 2-3 times a week.
I don’t like that I constantly have to make sure the medicine is chilled and available and use it in secret because they don’t know. The girfriend(s) seem to be extremely happy with me.
Honestly I would like to have more casual sex with new women on the side, but overall I’m very happy and never complain about my sex life.
How happy are you with your sex life and would you change something if anything was possible?
I really don't know why but my wife lost all interest in sex after the birth of our girls (it really wasn't great before either but every now and then she would do kinky, spontaneous shit... like one time she went down on me while I was on the phone to my commanders commander). Due to a lot of penile surgery (most of it botched by other surgeons) we went 6 years with sex on average of once every two months. After I was given the post implant go ahead for sex we are averaging 3 to 4 times a week. What would I change... well in 2012 my shaft skin was replaced by scrotal skin which is hairy. I had 10 laser hair removal treatments so MOST of it is gone but not all. It is expensive and hurts like hell.
Larry
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RP ruined my pretty lack luster sex life. Prior ED was bad enough even with Viagra. My wife has always had a low interest in sex (she says) and is very conservative in bed. Now I have sex alone if I want an orgasm as nothing she or I can do together in bed works. I lost penile sensitivity and suffered reduced libido after the RP. She has been on holiday since my surgery as I don't pester her for sex anymore. I inject/masturbate twice a week by myself and she is happy to see me take care of my needs alone. It has been difficult to desire some one for 19 years who doesn't desire me back. We've been to marriage counseling where she has expressed her feelings about sex. It turns out that I have been sleeping with her mother for 19 years. Her mother taught my wife sex was a duty one had to endure. Very sad.
Masturbation just does not fill my emotional needs that comes with sex with a partner. Due to my wife's low libido she just does not understand how powerful my needs have been. She just does not understand sex at all. Its more than just a quick act to do and get over as fast a possible. She claims that she has never in her life been horny. Consequently, she has lacked any desire to branch out from missionary sex and try different things like toys, etc. Sex for her is like mowing the lawn is for me..
I ramble....
Masturbation just does not fill my emotional needs that comes with sex with a partner. Due to my wife's low libido she just does not understand how powerful my needs have been. She just does not understand sex at all. Its more than just a quick act to do and get over as fast a possible. She claims that she has never in her life been horny. Consequently, she has lacked any desire to branch out from missionary sex and try different things like toys, etc. Sex for her is like mowing the lawn is for me..
I ramble....
Retired. R.P. 2016. Bilateral nerve sparing surgery. Now use .15cc of Bimix twice weekly & anorgasmia, moderately incontinent. Wife no longer interested so go solo with Electro-stim using Erostek ET-312. Now am Type 2 diabetic.
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Reggieman wrote:RP ruined my pretty lack luster sex life. Prior ED was bad enough even with Viagra. My wife has always had a low interest in sex (she says) and is very conservative in bed.
Masturbation just does not fill my emotional needs that comes with sex with a partner. Due to my wife's low libido she just does not understand how powerful my needs have been. She just does not understand sex at all. Its more than just a quick act to do and get over as fast a possible. She claims that she has never in her life been horny. Consequently, she has lacked any desire to branch out from missionary sex and try different things like toys, etc. Sex for her is like mowing the lawn is for me..
I ramble....
Reggieman,
You may be rambling, but I can relate. I have a new functioning, reliable dick and she has little interest. I have to initiate everything, and then it's all about her orgasms, not mine. I am depressed.
Bob
Born '52. Married '79. RALP 3/1/17. ED 50+% prior to surgery even w/ meds. VED, Injections, ineffective. Considering implant even before PCa diagnosis. Dr. Kramer 8/2/17. LGX 21cm+0.5 RTE. Kramer replaced/repositioned pump 12/13/17. Willing to Show/Tell.
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Gentlemen,
My suggestion is to get yourselves a Hitachi Magic Wand massager. Who would refuse a great back massage that slowly slides down the bottocks then between the thighs. I guarantee you this $70 machine will wake up the sexual desire of a mummy laying dormant for thousands of years. And if I’m wrong the massage is still awesome and better than watching stupid shows on tv together.
For me it never failed...
My suggestion is to get yourselves a Hitachi Magic Wand massager. Who would refuse a great back massage that slowly slides down the bottocks then between the thighs. I guarantee you this $70 machine will wake up the sexual desire of a mummy laying dormant for thousands of years. And if I’m wrong the massage is still awesome and better than watching stupid shows on tv together.
For me it never failed...
Age 54, Single, Los Angeles. Stage 2 rectal cancer in 2013. Radiation, surgery, chemo. In remission for 5 years. Some ED before cancer, complete since. 2-3 units of Trimix 40/30/2 2-3 times a week since Feb/2017 with great success!
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Yeah they seem to work well.
R.R.P 2011 Mayo Jacksonville, Dr. M. Wehle. Not nerve sparing. C in margins. Radiation 2023, V.E.D, Viagra and PGE-1 (80mcg/ml) injections @ 8 - 14 units. Originally Edex20, then compounded PGE due to cost. Inject. 12 yrs. It works. Treasure coast of FL.
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Reggieman, I feel your pain,I am married to her mother or sister for 50 years. She does not understand it nor is she able to change it. My wife's mother taught her that sex was dirty and a duty, I think her sorry ass mother is burning in hell today for that and other things that she did to her daughters.
Dave
Dave
born 1949, Cancer 2014, 1st Implant AMS CX 18 + 3 RTE, Oct 2015 by a Houston Doctor. Left with loss of length, Floppy Glans and pain, a very poor job. Revision in Dec 2016 by Dr. Kramer, 21 + 3 1/2 RTEs, LGX, Regained length, Glans supported and no pain.
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Three Stages of Husbands:
Lover
Breeder
Yard Boy
That is all.
Lover
Breeder
Yard Boy
That is all.
Born 1948, wed 1969. BPH & Type II Diabetes at age 35. TURP-2002; ED even before that--diabetes. Cardiac valve surgery: 2007 & 2019. Poor results with pills. Started trimix injections in Nov, 2010. Great results from the very beginning.
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