How to deal with the Hinge effect

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I don't really have any advice. It sounds like you're dealing with it pretty well. VEDs and rings aren't a perfect solution but they are a solution that works.

Some guys get a sleeve to wear at the base that both cushions the VED tube and provides some support to combat the hinge effect. Possible source: http://uandmetime.com/products/for-men/. I have no experience with such devices or the linked company so I can't recommend. Just an example.

It sounds like you're doing OK to me. Just keep practicing.

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Dear Friend,
There is no such thing as first time standard position. Every woman expects you to lead the interaction. My best advice to you is sit the girl at the edge of the bed, start kissing and foundling, lay her down, eat her pussy(inspect the goods lol), and start fucking her like that. Perfolect position. She is comfortable, you are in full control and can go forever. You two have 4 free hands to touch each other, play with the clit or use a vibrator. Every girl loves it.
All the best.

[AnotherOldMan]

I really don't want more gear on my penis after all the cock rings. Hope it doesn't come to that.

I don't suffer from the hinge effect.(Knock on wood.) I have experimented with using the penile sleeve in the last couple of months. Some say it can reduce the hinge effect.
The sleeve does not feel like adding more gear. In fact it reduces the sometimes distracting effect of the rings. When I first used it I followed directions from previous threads on this site and softened it in hot water before putting it on. When I applied the rings there was a moment where I wondered if the ring(s) were on at all as I did not have the usual sensation when they are first applied and did not feel them as usual.

I sometimes like to use a Tantulus C-Ring to "lift" everything up. Since the c-ring goes around the penis and balls and lifts up, the penile sleeve interferes with the effect and, in this case, is a hindrance.
It is also somewhat of a nuisance to have to put on before using a pump and rings and does add another step and time before I am ready.

If you search this site you will find informative discussions where guys have, to varying degrees of success, used the penile sleeve to reduce the hinge effect. I would recommend you read those discussions and then decide. If you decide to try a sleeve at worse you will be out 20 some dollars and some time spent experimenting.

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Dear Friend,
There is no such thing as first time standard position. Every woman expects you to lead the interaction. My best advice to you is sit the girl at the edge of the bed, start kissing and foundling, lay her down, eat her pussy(inspect the goods lol), and start fucking her like that. Perfolect position. She is comfortable, you are in full control and can go forever. You two have 4 free hands to touch each other, play with the clit or use a vibrator. Every girl loves it.
All the best.

A "Man" taking control and remaining in control is a far more powerful influence under these circumstances tthan some "standard position" she might "expect" from her experiences with other men.

When she feels a man take a strong lead towards sex, biologically women are programed to follow. She shouldn't question your moves unless there would be some physical or medicall objections. [she has a bad back or hemorrhoids or something]

Make it so she just, "wants it" too bad to question anything. Plenty of foreplay and lubrication should do it. [Saliva from eatting pussy is acceptable lube]

A wimpy lead might assist her insecurities to surface, then she might begin questioning your advances.

Don't allow your concerns about what she might think mentally defeat you. Act confident.

If she really objects, dump her; she's probably a feminist and "whatever position" Y0U choose to utilize is just the beginnings of your troubles with her !

[Larry10625]

Dear Friend,
There is no such thing as first time standard position. Every woman expects you to lead the interaction. My best advice to you is sit the girl at the edge of the bed, start kissing and foundling, lay her down, eat her pussy(inspect the goods lol), and start fucking her like that. Perfolect position. She is comfortable, you are in full control and can go forever. You two have 4 free hands to touch each other, play with the clit or use a vibrator. Every girl loves it.
All the best.

I like this position and so does Lisa. She gets every mm I have to give her.. I have to push the bed back, centered where it was but, that's a small price to pay.

Larry