First Use

[Larry10625]

I was so horny durning recovery and finally caved in to masturabte at 3 weeks. I did ejaculate and very quickly. When I went for my 4 week activation appointment my doc told me I was free to,have sex at 5 weeks. Our only issue was I umped up as much as I could and my wife said it was too hard. I had never had that problem before. Anyway I deflated to about 80% and it wa better for both of us. It took a little longer to orgasm having sex than it had jacking off. As I have gotten accustomed to having sex again I have learned to control my pace better so I am able to last as long as I need to for my wife to orgasm.

Greg

How do you get it back down to 80% ?

Larry

Hit the deflate button and then push once on the pump when it is where I want it.

OK thanks, good to know. Did you see my PM to you?

Larry

[Greg1956]

How do you get it back down to 80% ?

Larry

Hit the deflate button and then push once on the pump when it is where I want it.

OK thanks, good to know. Did you see my PM to you?

Larry

Larry,
I have not had a PM from you since Aug 8. Was it more recent?

[Larry10625]

Hit the deflate button and then push once on the pump when it is where I want it.

OK thanks, good to know. Did you see my PM to you?

Larry

Larry,
I have not had a PM from you since Aug 8. Was it more recent?

Oh good god Greg... Yep, you answered me. With all the meds I take for my back, I seem to suffer from CRS (can't remember shit). Thanks again.

Larry

[dg_moore]

Our "first use" was a total bust. When I was finally healed sufficiently I asked my wife if she'd like to try it out. She said, "Not really." To be honest, I wasn't actually all that enthusiastic either - my libido was gone. So ten years later we still haven't had our "first use" and her desire and my libido have declined even further. Ah, the "golden years."

[Happy Toy]

Our first use was a week and a half ago, our first intercourse in almost a year do to my ED. She enjoyed it as did I but I could not climax or cum. We did it again this past Saturday and it went the same way. I do not have the sensitivity that I had pre-op but hope to get some of it back with time. I have masturbated with my flashlight and did cum big time and climax, going to try it again later this morning, it's been over 3 weeks since I last came and really feel the need. No pain with intercourse but do not have a lot of feeling on my shaft, which I think is some of the problem.
Andy

[Larry10625]

Our first use was a week and a half ago, our first intercourse in almost a year do to my ED. She enjoyed it as did I but I could not climax or cum. We did it again this past Saturday and it went the same way. I do not have the sensitivity that I had pre-op but hope to get some of it back with time. I have masturbated with my flashlight and did cum big time and climax, going to try it again later this morning, it's been over 3 weeks since I last came and really feel the need. No pain with intercourse but do not have a lot of feeling on my shaft, which I think is some of the problem.
Andy

Some of it could be anxiety. The exact same thing is happening to me. I think we will get back the sensitivity with time. In the meantime, it sure feels great.

Larry

[Happy Toy]

Our first use was a week and a half ago, our first intercourse in almost a year do to my ED. She enjoyed it as did I but I could not climax or cum. We did it again this past Saturday and it went the same way. I do not have the sensitivity that I had pre-op but hope to get some of it back with time. I have masturbated with my flashlight and did cum big time and climax, going to try it again later this morning, it's been over 3 weeks since I last came and really feel the need. No pain with intercourse but do not have a lot of feeling on my shaft, which I think is some of the problem.
Andy

Some of it could be anxiety. The exact same thing is happening to me. I think we will get back the sensitivity with time. In the meantime, it sure feels great.

Larry

I think your right Larry about the anxiety, to worried about if she's OK, am I trying to hard, am I staying in to long...........

[TANGERINE]

i had numbness along the undersurface of my penis during the first three months (penoscrotal incision) -- that was a good thing since I have always had premature ejaculation, and now I was able to last ten or fifteen minutes. During the first three months, If I orgasmed earler that day through masturbation, I likely would have a hard time reaching orgasm during sex in the evening (but it would happen with vigorous thruting over a sustained time -- everready bunny fast motions)

All of this has now improved. I had 90 percent sensation back at one year and now at 1.5 years, I have complete sensation back.


And, my premature ejaculation has returned ... booo

but I am able to keep thrusting so that things last a little longer.

[Larry10625]

i had numbness along the undersurface of my penis during the first three months (penoscrotal incision) -- that was a good thing since I have always had premature ejaculation, and now I was able to last ten or fifteen minutes. During the first three months, If I orgasmed earler that day through masturbation, I likely would have a hard time reaching orgasm during sex in the evening (but it would happen with vigorous thruting over a sustained time -- everready bunny fast motions)

All of this has now improved. I had 90 percent sensation back at one year and now at 1.5 years, I have complete sensation back.


And, my premature ejaculation has returned ... booo

but I am able to keep thrusting so that things last a little longer.

That sure is reassuring... I am 8 months post op and have very little sensation. I had VERY BAD PE (less than 1 minute) now I can go for as much as 30 minutes. If I have masturbated earlier in the day, it's not happening again and if I don't I have a 50 50 chance. I am using the Fleshlight and another electric toy to stimulate myself without the Vulcan death grip in hopes of reclaiming some live nerve roots and get some feeling back.

Larry

[Vagabond127]

I was MAYBE thinking of pain pills during first 3 weeks of cycling? Thoughts. Is that dangerous in terms of addiction?