A cloud around the silver lining of implantation.

[DougAnd]

It's only been 76 bionic days for me used to have PE often when I had dry spells. Right now with this new feel I can't even imagine having PE. I have to really REALLY try. I love it!

[Larry10625]

A cloud around the silver lining of implantation.

I have noticed a disappointing similarity in my capacity for coitus between before and after implantation.

Before implant, erectile collapse from E.D. would pretty much signal an end to coitus. It mattered not if I wanted to continue; it was over because my penis became just a squishy toy.

After implant, my penis remains perfectly erect and capable of continuing coitus indefinitely but (after ejaculation) my desire to continue and my energy level drop off precipitously. Obviously, the wash of hormones released upon my orgasm is the cause. I had expected my refractory period to not matter at all, but I was mistaken.

I had not expected this and actually had expected to be able to continue fucking like the Energizer Bunny (thanks to Everready Battery Company for use of their icon).

It is disappointing how quickly I am "done" after being done.

I used to be incapable of continuing coitus after ejaculation. Now, I am just physically unwanting, even if I want to continue intellectually and emotionally. And it's not just interest in coitus; it extends to all other forms of sex, cunnilingus or anything other than cuddling - or sleep.

The silver lining of this cloud is that, since my premature ejaculation is delayed (sometimes by several minutes or so) my lover can experience a few orgasms before I do (I am so grateful that she orgasms easily during coitus when she has had effective and adequate foreplay).

I fear this is disappointing to her, since she is perfectly willing and eager to continue right on and I have yet to exhaust her appetite for more penile action.

Before implant, the desire was there but ability was not. After implant ability is there but desire is not (at least not for very long after MY climax).

I do not want to look a gift horse in the mouth, but just had to share my dual complaint/jubilation.

Thanks for reading.

This is me exactly. During foreplay I take care of her needs with oral and toys etc. and then I take care of me. When I orgasm, I am simply no longer interested in continuing. Unfortunately, I have never been able to bring a girl to orgasm through intercourse.

Larry

[Lost Sheep]

This is me exactly. During foreplay I take care of her needs with oral and toys etc. and then I take care of me. When I orgasm, I am simply no longer interested in continuing. Unfortunately, I have never been able to bring a girl to orgasm through intercourse.

Larry

I am blessed to have a girlfriend who can orgasm through intercourse. But only in certain positions. We have been "researching" different positions to find ones that 1) facilitate her orgasms, 2) are energy-conserving enough that I can maintain them and 3) allow me to delay my orgasm long enough to help me maintain my energy level. Some positions are MUCH better than others.

The implant blesses me with an erection that allows us to change positions any number of times during a love-making session so we can go through the list of positions and modify them to optimal effect.

Being willing to approach sex with an experimental mindset may not be the most romantic, but once you find a few good positions with a clinical attitude, you can then use those positions in subsequent sessions with a more romantic attitude.

Good luck.

[jackhammerdreamz]

This is me exactly. During foreplay I take care of her needs with oral and toys etc. and then I take care of me. When I orgasm, I am simply no longer interested in continuing. Unfortunately, I have never been able to bring a girl to orgasm through intercourse.

Larry

I am blessed to have a girlfriend who can orgasm through intercourse. But only in certain positions. We have been "researching" different positions to find ones that 1) facilitate her orgasms, 2) are energy-conserving enough that I can maintain them and 3) allow me to delay my orgasm long enough to help me maintain my energy level. Some positions are MUCH better than others.

The implant blesses me with an erection that allows us to change positions any number of times during a love-making session so we can go through the list of positions and modify them to optimal effect.

Being willing to approach sex with an experimental mindset may not be the most romantic, but once you find a few good positions with a clinical attitude, you can then use those positions in subsequent sessions with a more romantic attitude.

Good luck.

Do you think diet or exercise might help at least in the energy/stamina department? I know that I was having the best and strongest sex of my life when I was working out 4-5x a week and eating properly (now it's no gym and all pizza lmao) but I'm gonna get back on track after the holidays are over

[Lost Sheep]

Do you think diet or exercise might help at least in the energy/stamina department? I know that I was having the best and strongest sex of my life when I was working out 4-5x a week and eating properly (now it's no gym and all pizza lmao) but I'm gonna get back on track after the holidays are over [/quote]

Absolutely yes! Exercise particularly.

Diet also has other benefits. There are foods that make a man's semen taste bad and others that make it taste good. Google the phrase, "How to make semen taste better". One of the first references to come up is this "According to the Kinsey Institute, fruit (especially citrus, bananas, and papayas), spices (cinnamon, nutmeg, and peppermint, among others), parsley, wheatgrass, and celery up the flavor of semen. Cigarettes, caffeine, red meat, onions, and garlic make it taste worse"

An article we read was written by a woman who went on an adventure with her boyfriend to find foods that made him taste better. A fun read and inspiring in that it makes sex more of an adventure and a joint venture.

[Larry10625]

This is me exactly. During foreplay I take care of her needs with oral and toys etc. and then I take care of me. When I orgasm, I am simply no longer interested in continuing. Unfortunately, I have never been able to bring a girl to orgasm through intercourse.

Larry

I am blessed to have a girlfriend who can orgasm through intercourse. But only in certain positions. We have been "researching" different positions to find ones that 1) facilitate her orgasms, 2) are energy-conserving enough that I can maintain them and 3) allow me to delay my orgasm long enough to help me maintain my energy level. Some positions are MUCH better than others.

The implant blesses me with an erection that allows us to change positions any number of times during a love-making session so we can go through the list of positions and modify them to optimal effect.

Being willing to approach sex with an experimental mindset may not be the most romantic, but once you find a few good positions with a clinical attitude, you can then use those positions in subsequent sessions with a more romantic attitude.

Good luck.

Do you think diet or exercise might help at least in the energy/stamina department? I know that I was having the best and strongest sex of my life when I was working out 4-5x a week and eating properly (now it's no gym and all pizza lmao) but I'm gonna get back on track after the holidays are over

I am very slowly losing weight but I can't do much in the line of exercise because of a very significant back injury as a result of 15 years as a paramedic... carrying fat people around.

Larry

[jackhammerdreamz]

I am blessed to have a girlfriend who can orgasm through intercourse. But only in certain positions. We have been "researching" different positions to find ones that 1) facilitate her orgasms, 2) are energy-conserving enough that I can maintain them and 3) allow me to delay my orgasm long enough to help me maintain my energy level. Some positions are MUCH better than others.

The implant blesses me with an erection that allows us to change positions any number of times during a love-making session so we can go through the list of positions and modify them to optimal effect.

Being willing to approach sex with an experimental mindset may not be the most romantic, but once you find a few good positions with a clinical attitude, you can then use those positions in subsequent sessions with a more romantic attitude.

Good luck.

Do you think diet or exercise might help at least in the energy/stamina department? I know that I was having the best and strongest sex of my life when I was working out 4-5x a week and eating properly (now it's no gym and all pizza lmao) but I'm gonna get back on track after the holidays are over

I am very slowly losing weight but I can't do much in the line of exercise because of a very significant back injury as a result of 15 years as a paramedic... carrying fat people around.

Larry

Dang those fat injured people!!

Another thought would be cleaner eating? I know diet plans are only good as long as you're on them, but WeightWatcher or HMR are good (HMR is cheaper) and people on avg lose 25-45lbs over a year.
Something to consider talking to your GP about, of course I'm not a doctor

My Ex actually told me once a few years ago her ex was having performance issues and fatigue.... When he ate better it went away, eating well can do wonders for the body. But it's easier said than done.
When I'm home I want the easiest thing to eat and relax. not stand in the kitchen for an hour and a half and then clean pots/pans for another 20 minutes lol.
Best of luck!

[Larry10625]

Do you think diet or exercise might help at least in the energy/stamina department? I know that I was having the best and strongest sex of my life when I was working out 4-5x a week and eating properly (now it's no gym and all pizza lmao) but I'm gonna get back on track after the holidays are over

I am very slowly losing weight but I can't do much in the line of exercise because of a very significant back injury as a result of 15 years as a paramedic... carrying fat people around.

Larry

Dang those fat injured people!!

Another thought would be cleaner eating? I know diet plans are only good as long as you're on them, but WeightWatcher or HMR are good (HMR is cheaper) and people on avg lose 25-45lbs over a year.
Something to consider talking to your GP about, of course I'm not a doctor

My Ex actually told me once a few years ago her ex was having performance issues and fatigue.... When he ate better it went away, eating well can do wonders for the body. But it's easier said than done.
When I'm home I want the easiest thing to eat and relax. not stand in the kitchen for an hour and a half and then clean pots/pans for another 20 minutes lol.
Best of luck!

Better eating is why I am losing what I am. I am also diabetic and better eating is controlling my diet. It is doing nothing for my suprapubic fat pad though..

Larry