33yrs old Implanted February 6th 2018 Journal (Pic page 6)

[David_Webb]

Jack,

Thanks for sharing the post op benefits you are enjoying. I am patiently waiting for my Uro appointment to get the ball rolling. Reading your posts helps squash the doubts and fear that tries to erodes my resolve to proceed with the implant.

[jackhammerdreamz]

Day 61

Hey guys!
Sorry it's been 2 weeks of silence!
Time does fly as they say

Well besides the sex we had 2 weeks ago we've had sex a handful of times but my girlfriend was struggling with getting used to the feeling of the new implant.
Because of that I began to have some waves of regret. Mainly because she wasn't having full on orgasms.
My natural penis of course felt differently and the implant moves a bit differently.

Beyond that we have had a few busy weekends and my work schedule changed so I have less "alone time" to write on FrankTalk.

But here I am! About 2 months post-op.

Today was the first day we found a position that she could have an orgasm!!


We found if she lays on her side while I'm entering from sort of a missionary position I hit her G-spot well.
Didn't take much movement and she clenched down on me and just about passed out and said "Finally!" with a big grin.
It was a great relief to find out she can cum from the implant. I knew it would take time I should've been more patient and trusting of my new dick.

She is a very "in her head" type so I don't know how much of it is actual feel or if it's more she can just feel the cylinders more in the old positions we used.
It is great having sex whenever we want. Had sex twice today, and a couple times yesterday.
Much more consistent sex. I'm glad I can provide or stand up to her appetite now. Even if it is more sex than I would prefer to have lmao.

She gave me a blowjob today for the first time which she said felt the same to her and I loved it. I think I enjoyed it more than before implant because I don't have to worry about going soft in her mouth.


Overall things are great. The regret subsided and I'm glad we can keep exploring each other's bodies and have fun. Not worrying about my dick is such a great relief. It can be there any time and we are both learning the positions that rock our world.

I do still pump to near full maxed out for sex which gives me some pain at the base. Just stretching while I fuck I guess.... She loves the full max pumped out feeling and the little bit of pain keeps me from cumming too soon.


I probably won't be checking FT a huge amount but I'll try to stop by once a week. Like I said earlier work hours changed so working an earlier shift I have less night owl time to go through all the forum posts.

If you have any questions or comments of course let's hear them.

And thank you all again for being such a great source of comfort and helpfulness when it comes to this implant stuff. It's a crazy thing and can be scary for the noobs. We were there once asking the same questions and thinking, "Holy shit am I really going to do this???".

Cheers brothers

Hey man good to see you back here. How do you deal with switching positions during a sexual encounter? Obviously your dick is still going to be hard until you trigger the release valve. Does switching around position wise become a bother (errant knee to your junk, squashing your still-hard dick against the bed?) Thank you and I'm glad all is well!

Haven't had too much of an issue when changing positions. I'll usually pull out and we'll just move and roll with it. It behaves as a "normal" hard dick would so yea I mean these days I can roll over on it in bed and it'll sorta hurt but it folds up against my abdomen and life goes on lol.
I usually have more of an issue trying to cycle and do things like wash dishes. bumping it against counters or cabinets is more of a pain than when switching positions

[jackhammerdreamz]

Day 61

Hey guys!
Sorry it's been 2 weeks of silence!
Time does fly as they say

Well besides the sex we had 2 weeks ago we've had sex a handful of times but my girlfriend was struggling with getting used to the feeling of the new implant.
Because of that I began to have some waves of regret. Mainly because she wasn't having full on orgasms.
My natural penis of course felt differently and the implant moves a bit differently.

Beyond that we have had a few busy weekends and my work schedule changed so I have less "alone time" to write on FrankTalk.

But here I am! About 2 months post-op.

Today was the first day we found a position that she could have an orgasm!!


We found if she lays on her side while I'm entering from sort of a missionary position I hit her G-spot well.
Didn't take much movement and she clenched down on me and just about passed out and said "Finally!" with a big grin.
It was a great relief to find out she can cum from the implant. I knew it would take time I should've been more patient and trusting of my new dick.

She is a very "in her head" type so I don't know how much of it is actual feel or if it's more she can just feel the cylinders more in the old positions we used.
It is great having sex whenever we want. Had sex twice today, and a couple times yesterday.
Much more consistent sex. I'm glad I can provide or stand up to her appetite now. Even if it is more sex than I would prefer to have lmao.

She gave me a blowjob today for the first time which she said felt the same to her and I loved it. I think I enjoyed it more than before implant because I don't have to worry about going soft in her mouth.


Overall things are great. The regret subsided and I'm glad we can keep exploring each other's bodies and have fun. Not worrying about my dick is such a great relief. It can be there any time and we are both learning the positions that rock our world.

I do still pump to near full maxed out for sex which gives me some pain at the base. Just stretching while I fuck I guess.... She loves the full max pumped out feeling and the little bit of pain keeps me from cumming too soon.


I probably won't be checking FT a huge amount but I'll try to stop by once a week. Like I said earlier work hours changed so working an earlier shift I have less night owl time to go through all the forum posts.

If you have any questions or comments of course let's hear them.

And thank you all again for being such a great source of comfort and helpfulness when it comes to this implant stuff. It's a crazy thing and can be scary for the noobs. We were there once asking the same questions and thinking, "Holy shit am I really going to do this???".

Cheers brothers

Good morning Jack;
Sadly, I have NEVER brought ANY girl to climax while penetrating her. My wife and I embraced sex toy a long time ago. She gets to cum every time so I never have to worry about that. Back when I was using Viagra, we had sex one night and I was so excited I came on the first stroke. I was so devastated and got very depressed. I lost my interest in sex which started to cause problems in my marriage. I started having sex with her just because she wanted it but, all that did was cause me to resent her. I spoke to my urologist and he prescribed Androgel (for low testosterone). This jelly like stuff you rub all over your belly. It stinks like rubbing alcohol and gets off on to your clothes and just plain doesn't work. Then he prescribed the injectable testosterone and my libido returned. You are right though, there is a bit of discomfort from the pump, my balanitis on my glans and the implant itself... because of that discomfort I can not go for between 20 minutes and 30.

Larry

Thanks for the input Larry and hello good sir!

I had considered getting a cock-sheath, where it's basically a wearable dildo that I would still be able to have an orgasm from the friction and she'd have a big silicone dick to ride. Almost bought one but I think we'll hold off now til we figure out which positions work. We have a smooth glass g-spot dildo/toy that we use as well, but she loves when I can give her the orgasm with my on cock.

It's sort of the last piece of the puzzle for us. We know I can enjoy sex, and now we know she can enjoy the implant sex too.

[jackhammerdreamz]

Jack,

Thanks for sharing the post op benefits you are enjoying. I am patiently waiting for my Uro appointment to get the ball rolling. Reading your posts helps squash the doubts and fear that tries to erodes my resolve to proceed with the implant.

I'm glad you are benefiting from my posts. That's why I do them
It's definitely a huge choice, if there were other options that worked this well, with less invasive surgery you bet your butt me and a lot of people here would be trying it.
Injections can do more harm than good, pills have nasty side-effects and loose efficacy, therapy can help only so much. All while we suffer as well as our partners.

I'm very happy with the results but even with that, I do still think about my natural boners from time to time.
A sort of nostalgic look back, thinking about when I could fuck a girl 6 times in an afternoon and not think twice about it; leaving her in a pool of sweat shaking from orgasms.

But I come back to reality and realize this new chapter is going to be just as much fun.
I'm excited for the future.

[David_R]

I usually have more of an issue trying to ... do things like wash dishes.

You mean you're saying, "Sorry. but I can't do the dishes because I have a penile implant"??

[RayChez]

20cm is 7.874 inches. Welcome to the club.

[jackhammerdreamz]

20cm is 7.874 inches. Welcome to the club.

Ha well something like 1/3 or that is inside the body. But thank you! My size and ability to use it are coming together

[jackhammerdreamz]

I usually have more of an issue trying to ... do things like wash dishes.

You mean you're saying, "Sorry. but I can't do the dishes because I have a penile implant"??

LMAO exactly David

[jackhammerdreamz]

HELLO EVERYONE!!!!

Well shit, it's been 8 almost 9 months since I wrote an update on this site

My last post in this Journal was a seemingly great breakthrough.
I was able to give my girlfriend an orgasm with my Implant.

The celebration was short lived unfortunately.
As we all know, an implant won't fix a relationship.

We got too far into our heads during or leading up to sex and were just never comfortable again.
Seeing a sex/relationship therapist didn't help much and may have made things worse.
I think my ex was starting to understand that a lot of this was on her and her negativity/depression/standoffishness and she couldn't handle that.
She didn't want to (and probably never will) accept that she can be a very cold person.
Anyway we couldn't communicate our needs, we couldn't meet each other's needs, the relationship spiraled into essentially a boring, meaningless, frustrating friendship.

Even worse was the fact that lack of sex started making me cum way way too fast in the rare chance we did try to have sex.
We're talking 45 seconds to orgasm.

It was a painful thing to do but I did end our relationship and she moved out a couple months ago.
Hoping she finds what she needs and I'm working on myself now too.


I think all those months of therapy and shit just underlined how incompatible we had become and that in turn made me avoid this site.
I felt like I failed. I failed myself, I failed everyone here. My girlfriend never really approached sex the same way after the implant.
Because I could get an erection at the drop of a hat, it was like she would just lay and wait for me to pleasure her limp body.
Like she didn't have to engage me at all in the process.
Which was a major turn off to me!

Well I've met a girl about a month ago. We've had sex a few times and she's astonished.
I gave her the first internal orgasm she's had in over a year.

I never thought there was anything wrong with my dick, I just felt ashamed that I couldn't get on the same wavelength as my crazy ex girlfriend.
When you love someone, you want to please them in every aspect of life. We had a good friendship, she was my best friend.
But when you try so hard and want someone to feel pleasure and can't get them to, I just had to let it go. I couldn't live like that.
It was so depressing and dejecting and heartbreaking.

I'm glad I've found reassurance from this new girl, she's an angel.
My confidence is higher, my appetite for sex is way higher, things are firing on all cylinders for sure.
Much happier these days there were so many mindfucks going on with the ex-relationship, I won't go into detail here but man.
I'm glad to be past it.

I'm glad to be back on here!!!
I am sorry for ghosting for so long!!!

I'll close with a few thoughts/reflections regarding my experience with the implant so far:

1.) I thought I wouldn't be able to get random chubbies, turns out you still can with an implant!
2.) Sometimes that chubby tho comes from a little backwash, sort of pushing fluid into the cylinders when there's pressure on the reservoir. From activities that engage your core.
I haven't had any embarassing gym moments or anything but it seems the mechanism that keeps you deflated sometimes does let some back in....
3.) I still do feel a bit more sensative than I used to. My glans in particular. Kinda had a "duh" moment, I can use desensitizing spray which helps a lot (but not too much) to numb the sensitive bits.
Also having more frequent sex has already helped in the sensitivity department. Turns out once a month makes you super prone to spurt early.
4.) Girls don't really give a shit about the implant. Post-relationship; I've had 2 sexual partners. The first I didn't tell about it cuz she was sort of a weird judgy past-fuckbuddy and if she asked about it I would've told her.
I remember her sucking on my scrotum too, I wonder if she noticed the pump lmao. The second we were in bed naked and I said, I have a bit of a trick up my sleeve to tell you about. I explained that due to some sports injuries and the like, my penis stopped getting hard, so after years of pills I finally got an implant. I just pump it up and it works and I told her that it wouldn't feel any different from a dick with no implant or a "normal" dick.... She just said that's cool, as long as it fucking works let's go! lol so I gave it about 15 pumps in 25-30 seconds and she went down on me for a bit and hopped on it. That was when she had her first internal orgasm in a year.... I came a few minutes after

5.) If you're in a relationship where sex is a struggle or you feel ashamed and your partner does NOT support you or make you feel sexy to try and help you feel better about yourself. Forget it. Implant won't help. If anything after you breakup with your partner and move on to a new one, then I'd say get an implant. For me, it was like she missed the old one, even though the implant worked fine and she could cum on it, she got too lost in her own worry and that made me worry and it all fell apart.
6.) Like the point above, do not expect an implant to fix a relationship. I wasn't living my best life, I wasn't living life for myself, I know that now, and I'm happy to be working towards a more positive sex life now!!!

[defiant]

I'm surprised no one replied to your update, bro!

It was a most candid and ultimately positive report on things post implant!

It's nothing but positives really if you ask me. Failing relationship gone. New one in. Implant providing you with satisfying sex and improved quality of life.

Perfect! Really happy to read this!