wife (she turns 60 this year) no longer likes sex -- it hurts (so getting an implant was a waste--maybe ?)

[MyImplant]

I can relate to the unwilling/unable wife problem. I am dealing with such now. I now have the world's greatest dick, I am the world's greatest lover with super human out of the world skills that only the chosen few can pretend to claim ( I am being factitious.. I am not serious).. And I have nowhere to go. Well I do have choices.. But maybe not with my wife. I am evaluating all of this now. I have some thoughts..

My options are.. Do nothing and be miserable but "faithful", get the masturbation devices and fuck myself into oblivion remaining "faithful", find a sexually charged woman who really wants what we have to offer, or a prostitute. Or combination thereof.

Personally I am almost like the perfect storm. 10 years of penis enlargement and my former LGX gives me a long and very thick cock that has not been tested. It is possible that my girth is too much (wouldn’t that be ironic?). I am desperate to try myself out. To make matters worse my deflated state is almost the same as my inflated state ( a back filling problem) and I am reminded of my dick every second.. It bulges out and I cannot hide it. I am using testosterone injections which really work (I have lost almost 40 pounds and I am bordering on being sexually addicted if not already there, capped of by Capergoline to help me have true natural wet orgasms. Then the last straw is that I have learned to have true multiple orgasms that are unrelenting and endless such that there is no sense of relief that results from the refractory period which means I am having the most intense orgasms that have lasted for hours.. (Get your head around that last comment. Am I exaggerating? NO.. I can prove it and willing to demonstrate all of this with a video call. I am for real.)

Great.. Now where is my wife when I need her? She is not interested in sex. As you can imagine there are active discussions. This is a case where I am truly fucked.. Buti am not.

Now to the positive side. I have very very intense sex with myself using my fleshlight and Venus 2000 which I highly recommend. I use them at least 3 to 5 hours every day. I am like a freak show on steroids. Hollering, jabbering, cumming, talking dirty, pounding etc. You get the picture. Obviously I have time on my hands.

I could stop right there and theoretically be satisfied with my implant journey. So to Tangerine I suggest you explore the devices and try to rewire your brain to separate your orgasms from your ejaculations. Then who needs a woman? Right?

Unfortunately I do. I have this ridiculous need to please a woman and get the orgasmic triggers her climax gives me. In short I need a woman to fuck her brains out. This leaves me with the online dating scene or a professional. Flashback in history. My most recent use of a professional was back in 1950 when I was a freshman in high school and the English father of one pf my fiends paid for both his son and me to experience this right pf passage. God I love the English. I remember.. $3 at the "sewing circle". Should I assume they charge more now? True story.

I am looking forward to her reaction to her client going berserk in continuous climax that never ends.. How long before she bails out? My guess is about 15 minutes, Now I think my girth is huge.. 6" midshaft and 7" at the base. I am not an expert in penis sizes. But I expect her to be. I suspect she will say she sees a lot of men like that and I am not a big deal. This would be good news. I do not have a problem then.

So much or my rambling. So to Tangerine.. BE HAPPY WE HAVE A WHOLE NEW WORLD OUT THERE. You and I are old. But we are going out in style. "Step back honey.. I do not know how big this will get!"

to Lost Sheep. Thanks for the links. I will check them out.

[Larry10625]

I can relate to the unwilling/unable wife problem. I am dealing with such now. I now have the world's greatest dick, I am the world's greatest lover with super human out of the world skills that only the chosen few can pretend to claim ( I am being factitious.. I am not serious).. And I have nowhere to go. Well I do have choices.. But maybe not with my wife. I am evaluating all of this now. I have some thoughts..

My options are.. Do nothing and be miserable but "faithful", get the masturbation devices and fuck myself into oblivion remaining "faithful", find a sexually charged woman who really wants what we have to offer, or a prostitute. Or combination thereof.

Personally I am almost like the perfect storm. 10 years of penis enlargement and my former LGX gives me a long and very thick cock that has not been tested. It is possible that my girth is too much (wouldn’t that be ironic?). I am desperate to try myself out. To make matters worse my deflated state is almost the same as my inflated state ( a back filling problem) and I am reminded of my dick every second.. It bulges out and I cannot hide it. I am using testosterone injections which really work (I have lost almost 40 pounds and I am bordering on being sexually addicted if not already there, capped of by Capergoline to help me have true natural wet orgasms. Then the last straw is that I have learned to have true multiple orgasms that are unrelenting and endless such that there is no sense of relief that results from the refractory period which means I am having the most intense orgasms that have lasted for hours.. (Get your head around that last comment. Am I exaggerating? NO.. I can prove it and willing to demonstrate all of this with a video call. I am for real.)

Great.. Now where is my wife when I need her? She is not interested in sex. As you can imagine there are active discussions. This is a case where I am truly fucked.. Buti am not.

Now to the positive side. I have very very intense sex with myself using my fleshlight and Venus 2000 which I highly recommend. I use them at least 3 to 5 hours every day. I am like a freak show on steroids. Hollering, jabbering, cumming, talking dirty, pounding etc. You get the picture. Obviously I have time on my hands.

I could stop right there and theoretically be satisfied with my implant journey. So to Tangerine I suggest you explore the devices and try to rewire your brain to separate your orgasms from your ejaculations. Then who needs a woman? Right?

Unfortunately I do. I have this ridiculous need to please a woman and get the orgasmic triggers her climax gives me. In short I need a woman to fuck her brains out. This leaves me with the online dating scene or a professional. Flashback in history. My most recent use of a professional was back in 1950 when I was a freshman in high school and the English father of one pf my fiends paid for both his son and me to experience this right pf passage. God I love the English. I remember.. $3 at the "sewing circle". Should I assume they charge more now? True story.

I am looking forward to her reaction to her client going berserk in continuous climax that never ends.. How long before she bails out? My guess is about 15 minutes, Now I think my girth is huge.. 6" midshaft and 7" at the base. I am not an expert in penis sizes. But I expect her to be. I suspect she will say she sees a lot of men like that and I am not a big deal. This would be good news. I do not have a problem then.

So much or my rambling. So to Tangerine.. BE HAPPY WE HAVE A WHOLE NEW WORLD OUT THERE. You and I are old. But we are going out in style. "Step back honey.. I do not know how big this will get!"

to Lost Sheep. Thanks for the links. I will check them out.

Are you serious when you say that you have not test driven your implant with your wife?? WOW. Have you posted pictures of your whopper on here for all the potential implantees to admire??

Larry

[MyImplant]

no pictures yet but working on taking them.I did a video conference with another member but the sound was not working. All of this is a work in progress.

I do not think I have a whopper etc. I do think it is a hellova lot bigger than it use to be. And I love my results. But better than others? Not really. I have no way of judging other men other than by watching porn. I have to be honest.. I am blown away with what I see in the mirror. I keep staring... is that me? that only means I am impressed by myself. Others might and probably will not be impressed.

But I do want to tell my story as a form of "pay forward" for this site. I think I have something to contribute. This other member I mentioned said I was really big. I guess I liked that. Better than telling me I was too small. Other than talking about the implant journey my two major contributions would be evidence that men can increase their penis size AND true MMO (think "rolling thunder") is possible and dangerously addictive.. it is that great! Hard to do but possible.

[dg_moore]

...Are you serious when you say that you have not test driven your implant with your wife?? WOW.

As I've related here before, I have had a perfectly functional Titan since 2008 that has never been used. My wife had not the slightest bit of interest, and I had a stroke that among other things completely killed my libido. When neither partner is interested, life goes on quite normally. But when one partner is interested and the other is not, things can be difficult. Since my wife is not interested, I'm just as glad that I'm not either.

[Larry10625]

no pictures yet but working on taking them.I did a video conference with another member but the sound was not working. All of this is a work in progress.

I do not think I have a whopper etc. I do think it is a hellova lot bigger than it use to be. And I love my results. But better than others? Not really. I have no way of judging other men other than by watching porn. I have to be honest.. I am blown away with what I see in the mirror. I keep staring... is that me? that only means I am impressed by myself. Others might and probably will not be impressed.

But I do want to tell my story as a form of "pay forward" for this site. I think I have something to contribute. This other member I mentioned said I was really big. I guess I liked that. Better than telling me I was too small. Other than talking about the implant journey my two major contributions would be evidence that men can increase their penis size AND true MMO (think "rolling thunder") is possible and dangerously addictive.. it is that great! Hard to do but possible.

When you mention looking in the mirror, I think about myself. Before my implant, I had about 1" of floppy skin and the rest was in a supra pubic fat pad. After the surgery, I had a penis that was 4.5" long. Certainly not John Holmes but I am so happy. I have never been that big flaccid... I still stare and I catch myself playing with myself all the time.

You have contributed a lot to FT before and I am sure there are members that would like to read your journey. I will tell you (and all members), for every members we have, we probably have 10 read FT who are not members. Each of them can find one of our members that they can relate to. I look forward to your pictures and journey.

Larry

[beachbum]

I would like to put my two cents worth in on this.
I have said it before in another thread before but will repeat it again here.
Due to ed I had gone without having sex for close to 10 years. I could get an erection but it would only last a mim or so. That didnt work and later couldnt get an erection at all. I know that that hurt my wife thinking she couldn't get me aroused anymore so she quit and even though I wanted to have sex I quit trying also. My only relief was masturbating. I had never heard of implants so I just settled for what I was doing. A couple of years ago I had some prostate problems and while looking up the problem I ran across implants which led me to finding FT. So I started looking into implants and at the same time I turned 65 and got on medicare. Found out they covered implants and that my Dr. did implants I decided to get one in hopes that it would change things at home and we could get back to having sex again. Told my wife and she seemed supportive of so I got it. The implant turned out great. Didn't lose much, if any lienght, and I love it. BUT my wife wants nothing to do with it. She has completely lost interest in sex. So here I am with, (what I think) is a very good looking dick that gets hard as a rock and stays that way as long as I want and haven't used it for sex now for going on 2 1/2 years. I get up in the morning and pump it up and leave it that way for 3 or 4 hours in the morning. Walk around the house nude like that all morning. Wife gets up and sees it, I'm nude in front of her with it pumped, yet still no intrest.
I know this is a long post but I wanted to do the background first so I could answer the post.
Was getting the implant a mistake? My opinion is, and this is just me, absolutely NOT a mistake. For me just the opposite. I think it was the best think I could have done. I love it. I love the way it looks, the way it feels, the hardness or Simi hard what ever I wish to pump it up to. I think it's great. More over if it broke and needed replaced tomorrow, still knowing what I do now, I would do it in a Hart beat. I would go through all of that again to get it fixed. As much as I wanted a working dick to have sex with my wife again, I wanted it more for my own well being. I feel good about it. I feel good about knowing it works. Good about the way it looks. And good about knowing that if things ever changed, I would be ready and ABLE to have sex again.
Again just my opinion but you have to remember just who did you really get the implant for to begin with before you say it was a mistake

[Phil65]

Holy crap, I'm flabbergasted by all the defeatist talk when the wife isn't interested anymore. After all options are tried and she still doesn't want sex: YOU HAVE EVERY RIGHT TO GO TO YOUR LOCAL RUB N TUG! Good god men, your wife has a duty to service you and she's not fulfilling it. YOU fulfill YOUR needs.

[Lost Sheep]

Holy crap, I'm flabbergasted by all the defeatist talk when the wife isn't interested anymore. After all options are tried and she still doesn't want sex: YOU HAVE EVERY RIGHT TO GO TO YOUR LOCAL RUB N TUG! Good god men, your wife has a duty to service you and she's not fulfilling it. YOU fulfill YOUR needs.

Of course, there is more than one side to that coin. More than two sides, for that matter. Without judgement from me, I point out that some people define "duty" differently.

[Phil65]

Call it her responsibility, her obligation, fulfilling marital vows, then.... call it what you will but if your partner refuses to have sex, you find it. Or find another wife. LOL

[oldbeek]

I masterbate and enjoy my dick by myself. My wife lets me in about once a week and just lets me get off. About once a month she gets hot and wet and fucks like a wild woman. Better than nothing.