Any Swingers Out There?

[Lost Sheep]

how do you pump it with out them seeing you?

I never felt the need to conceal my implant. But I do feel that concealing the pumping up process is polite. So, I have some tactics that might work for you. And I added in some speculations I think might also work for you.

Start out the evening partly inflated. 1/4 to 1/2, whatever is convenient to not appear too "eager".

Depending on how the disrobing process proceeds (will she be feeling you up through my clothes, etc?) a discreet pump once in a while through my pocket can increase size and firmness.

Any time you reposition yourselves (especially if disrobing has proceeded) a discreet pump can be accomplished.

Most women will allow you a bit of privacy to put on a condom. If she wants to put on the condom for you, of course, you should be fully inflated by that time, so that is a different situation.

Excusing oneself to urinate is a popular way to give yourself enough privacy and time to get fully inflated.

If you perform cunnilingus on her she cannot easily see anything you are doing.

A woman accustomed to her man being erect as soon as any intimacies begin might wonder that your erection does not follow the usual timeline, but consider that a woman who has decided to have sex with you is not likely to change her mind as long as your penis is larger/harder each time she has a chance to tell.

DO PRACTICE pumping up one-handed with each hand. Know exactly how long it will take you and make sure you do not make strange facial expressions or take on odd postures as you do.

[needhelp]

how do you pump it with out them seeing you?

I never felt the need to conceal my implant. But I do feel that concealing the pumping up process is polite. So, I have some tactics that might work for you. And I added in some speculations I think might also work for you.

Start out the evening partly inflated. 1/4 to 1/2, whatever is convenient to not appear too "eager".

Depending on how the disrobing process proceeds (will she be feeling you up through my clothes, etc?) a discreet pump once in a while through my pocket can increase size and firmness.

Any time you reposition yourselves (especially if disrobing has proceeded) a discreet pump can be accomplished.

Most women will allow you a bit of privacy to put on a condom. If she wants to put on the condom for you, of course, you should be fully inflated by that time, so that is a different situation.

Excusing oneself to urinate is a popular way to give yourself enough privacy and time to get fully inflated.

If you perform cunnilingus on her she cannot easily see anything you are doing.

A woman accustomed to her man being erect as soon as any intimacies begin might wonder that your erection does not follow the usual timeline, but consider that a woman who has decided to have sex with you is not likely to change her mind as long as your penis is larger/harder each time she has a chance to tell.

DO PRACTICE pumping up one-handed with each hand. Know exactly how long it will take you and make sure you do not make strange facial expressions or take on odd postures as you do.

Loss Sheep...Thank you.... your right... I don't feel funny about having (getting) an implant...its the pumping that should be discrete..love the pointers...keep them coming....
question?? you say you give it a little pump through your pocket?.... did you cut your pocket?

[needhelp]

sorry meant to say "lost sheep"

[Lost Sheep]

Loss Sheep...Thank you.... your right... I don't feel funny about having (getting) an implant...its the pumping that should be discrete..love the pointers...keep them coming....
question?? you say you give it a little pump through your pocket?.... did you cut your pocket?

Some guys do cut their pocket. Not only does it give them access to their pump, but it gives their girlfriend (or boyfriend as the case may be) access for a little fun, too.

I do not want to give up the ability to keep stuff in my pockets. I can just see me losing my car keys or wallet through such a pocket.

Editing your post is easy, just click on the pencil icon to open up the post for editing.

[needhelp]

Loss Sheep...Thank you.... your right... I don't feel funny about having (getting) an implant...its the pumping that should be discrete..love the pointers...keep them coming....
question?? you say you give it a little pump through your pocket?.... did you cut your pocket?

Some guys do cut their pocket. Not only does it give them access to their pump, but it gives their girlfriend (or boyfriend as the case may be) access for a little fun, too.

I do not want to give up the ability to keep stuff in my pockets. I can just see me losing my car keys or wallet through such a pocket.

Editing your post is easy, just click on the pencil icon to open up the post for editing.

OMG thats so funny losing you keys with a hole in your pocket ha, ha
I think I'd need to practice trying to get a little pump in with my hand in my pocket. Will your pockets allow your hand to get over that far to use the pump?
PS: where do you find that pencil for editing

[Lost Sheep]

Loss Sheep...Thank you.... your right... I don't feel funny about having (getting) an implant...its the pumping that should be discrete..love the pointers...keep them coming....
question?? you say you give it a little pump through your pocket?.... did you cut your pocket?

Some guys do cut their pocket. Not only does it give them access to their pump, but it gives their girlfriend (or boyfriend as the case may be) access for a little fun, too.

I do not want to give up the ability to keep stuff in my pockets. I can just see me losing my car keys or wallet through such a pocket.

Editing your post is easy, just click on the pencil icon to open up the post for editing.

OMG thats so funny losing you keys with a hole in your pocket ha, ha
I think I'd need to practice trying to get a little pump in with my hand in my pocket. Will your pockets allow your hand to get over that far to use the pump?
PS: where do you find that pencil for editing

To find the editing tool (pencil icom) you must be signed in. Then look to the upper right of your screen.

You should see a row of four icons. Maybe three. The edit tool (pencil), an "x" (the delete tool ) which may or may not be there, an exclamation mark (for flagging inappropriate posts for the moderator/administrator and a quote mark (for responding to a post with quoting of the post)