Crazy Psychogenic ED, on anti-depressants now

What are your fears? Ideas? Hints? to coping with ED. What helps you with your mental game? How are relationships affected?
confused95
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Re: Crazy Psychogenic ED, on anti-depressants now

Postby confused95 » Tue Oct 05, 2021 6:54 am

Update:
I am now only taking 15mg Mirtazapine, Cialis 5mg every 36 hours.
My anxiety problems worsened a lot unfortunately, but I think this is because of the withdrawing of antidepressants. Masturbation is good 95% of the times, sometimes I lose my erection but I am always able to recover it.
Sex is still causing anxiety, I'm dating a girl but we haven't had any sex yet.
Penile implant is still a possibility to me, as it is one week I'm feeling very suicidal and depressed.
26yo from Italy. Psychogenic ed since dec 2019, got worse in Jan 2021. On Cialis 5mg every 24hrs, it works! But masturbation and sex bring me a lot of anxiety. On talk-therapy.
Update: diagnosed with slight Peyronie’s, investigating more on that

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Re: Crazy Psychogenic ED, on anti-depressants now

Postby abhishek26 » Tue Oct 05, 2021 12:12 pm

confused95 wrote:Update:
I am now only taking 15mg Mirtazapine, Cialis 5mg every 36 hours.
My anxiety problems worsened a lot unfortunately, but I think this is because of the withdrawing of antidepressants. Masturbation is good 95% of the times, sometimes I lose my erection but I am always able to recover it.
Sex is still causing anxiety, I'm dating a girl but we haven't had any sex yet.
Penile implant is still a possibility to me, as it is one week I'm feeling very suicidal and depressed.

Oh for fuck's sake, please stop thinking about an implant. you most definitely don't need one bro!
24 y/o suffering from sudden onset of severe ED (from previously having no ED at all). perfectly normal penile doppler and blood/hormone/urine test results. UPDATE: diagnosed with tight pelvic floor dysfunction :roll:

confused95
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Re: Crazy Psychogenic ED, on anti-depressants now

Postby confused95 » Sat Dec 25, 2021 4:19 am

Quick update:
Almost antidepressants free now: just taking 7.5 mg Mirtazapine before sleeping.
Dick is working better during solo and I’m on talk therapy also. Anxiety btw is still very high.

The main problem is that I had a particular Doppler that evaluates the elasticity of the tissues and they found a plaque, not calcified yet, 17.9 x 11.7 x 3.8mm, quite huge to me…
I’ve started a new therapy that includes 4 pills of Peyflog, gotta put a cream on my dick 3 times a day and gotta get one injection per month for 12 month.
Many guys here in Italy have been able to stop Peyronies with this therapy, and some have also been able to heal completely as the plaque was not calcified.
26yo from Italy. Psychogenic ed since dec 2019, got worse in Jan 2021. On Cialis 5mg every 24hrs, it works! But masturbation and sex bring me a lot of anxiety. On talk-therapy.
Update: diagnosed with slight Peyronie’s, investigating more on that

confused95
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Re: Crazy Psychogenic ED, on anti-depressants now

Postby confused95 » Tue Aug 23, 2022 7:26 am

So I met an amazing girl one month ago and I am now having sex.
Isn’t it crazy that I have more anxiety with masturbation wrt sex? Sex is going amazingly, no anxiety, good erections but I am on 5mg daily Cialis. We fuck twice a day with no issues at all! And we also do anal, sometimes we fuck for 10 minutes, sometimes we go on for 1.5 hours.
I have peyronies and the curvature is changing.
At the moment I am happy but since I started fucking I cannot really get an erection on my own as I am less horny and I cannot really get hard if I do not get 5mg cialis. But till 2 weeks ago I was perfectly fine in getting hard on my own. Not an issue at the moment btw, I do not need to masturbate.
Lesson learned: I am not sure if I’ll ever overcome my performance anxiety 100%, but for sure I was a desperate case, and I am now having good sex, stressless.
Gonna tell u more soon!
26yo from Italy. Psychogenic ed since dec 2019, got worse in Jan 2021. On Cialis 5mg every 24hrs, it works! But masturbation and sex bring me a lot of anxiety. On talk-therapy.
Update: diagnosed with slight Peyronie’s, investigating more on that

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Re: Crazy Psychogenic ED, on anti-depressants now

Postby Martin6469 » Mon Sep 26, 2022 12:15 am

Congratulations! Glad to hear of your success! Keep us posted!
Age 79 in 2024. On testosterone replacement due to hypothalamus malfunction. (Attention depressed guys: low testosterone is a cause.) Healthy health nut but ED due to getting old. Like to keep enough cardiovascular ability to thrust for 30 min.

confused95
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Re: Crazy Psychogenic ED, on anti-depressants now

Postby confused95 » Mon Jul 03, 2023 12:01 pm

Just a quick update.
I am now fucking with no issues at all, erection is perfect and I can keep it for as long as I want (5 + minutes after ejaculation in very good nights).
I am now using Cialis or anything and I have now fucked with my girlfriend more than 300 times since Aug 22.
I am taking care of my Peyronies that has improved a lot (also verified by ultrasound), thanks to a multimodal therapy in Italy (pills, cream and injections every 30 days).
Life is beautiful and ED is just a far nightmare.
Never lose hope guys, I was ready to commit suicide 2 years ago.
26yo from Italy. Psychogenic ed since dec 2019, got worse in Jan 2021. On Cialis 5mg every 24hrs, it works! But masturbation and sex bring me a lot of anxiety. On talk-therapy.
Update: diagnosed with slight Peyronie’s, investigating more on that

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Re: Crazy Psychogenic ED, on anti-depressants now

Postby Martin6469 » Thu Jul 06, 2023 11:51 am

What a good success story! Other guys learn from this!
Age 79 in 2024. On testosterone replacement due to hypothalamus malfunction. (Attention depressed guys: low testosterone is a cause.) Healthy health nut but ED due to getting old. Like to keep enough cardiovascular ability to thrust for 30 min.

confused95
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Re: Crazy Psychogenic ED, on anti-depressants now

Postby confused95 » Fri Aug 04, 2023 4:18 pm

Sure:
Talk therapy -> 2 months of EMDR to help me overcome the traumas of when I couldn’t get a proper erection. Sometimes I still have anxiety, but it is something I can cope with now, and it is much less btw.

Multimodal -> it is solving my peyronies and it requires
- 1 injection per month of Trental in my penis (performed by the urologist), not inside the plaque but very close to.
- 4 pills of Peyflog per day, 2 in the morning and 2 in the evening
- 2 Sclero Hayal gel per day, morning and evening
- 1 Dolaut Spray per day at lunch.

My plaque has reduced of 45% in terms of volume in one year. The evaluation has been performed with an advanced elastosonography instrument.

PSSDorAmINormal wrote:
confused95 wrote:Just a quick update.
I am now fucking with no issues at all, erection is perfect and I can keep it for as long as I want (5 + minutes after ejaculation in very good nights).
I am now using Cialis or anything and I have now fucked with my girlfriend more than 300 times since Aug 22.
I am taking care of my Peyronies that has improved a lot (also verified by ultrasound), thanks to a multimodal therapy in Italy (pills, cream and injections every 30 days).
Life is beautiful and ED is just a far nightmare.
Never lose hope guys, I was ready to commit suicide 2 years ago.


Can you elaborate on the multimodal peyronies treatment and the talk therapy?
26yo from Italy. Psychogenic ed since dec 2019, got worse in Jan 2021. On Cialis 5mg every 24hrs, it works! But masturbation and sex bring me a lot of anxiety. On talk-therapy.
Update: diagnosed with slight Peyronie’s, investigating more on that

confused95
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Re: Crazy Psychogenic ED, on anti-depressants now

Postby confused95 » Tue Aug 06, 2024 12:42 pm

Hi guys,
Just got back here after 2+ years to tell you that I am now living a good sexual life with no stress or anxiety about erection.
Life is good, continue working on your mental and physical wellbeing.
26yo from Italy. Psychogenic ed since dec 2019, got worse in Jan 2021. On Cialis 5mg every 24hrs, it works! But masturbation and sex bring me a lot of anxiety. On talk-therapy.
Update: diagnosed with slight Peyronie’s, investigating more on that

Martin6469
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Re: Crazy Psychogenic ED, on anti-depressants now

Postby Martin6469 » Tue Aug 06, 2024 1:42 pm

Glad to hear your success - shows other guys that working on a problem can fix it!
Age 79 in 2024. On testosterone replacement due to hypothalamus malfunction. (Attention depressed guys: low testosterone is a cause.) Healthy health nut but ED due to getting old. Like to keep enough cardiovascular ability to thrust for 30 min.


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