Carlosepr1968 wrote:No. ED didn't make me gay. I was already. Just didn't realize until my middle 40s, married, with children. It was a very difficult marriage. No, I didn't marry to hide myself. It is a story for some other time. BUT I still think that guilt and shame have something to do with my ED. I was raised in a very conservative, Catholic, macho family. Went to a Catholic school also and was bullied every day for 12 years and I didn't understand why. Now I do. Coming out on my mid 40s and my divorce was a very dark time in my life to face my wife, my children, my own family that rejected me....imagine all that in your mind trying to get an erection and enjoy sex.
Now we get along just fine. We help each other, and we have gone altogether to the teather, the movies, eating out...
You’ve transcended a difficult journey. Hope your days continue to be bright friend.
