Been dating a lady for 5 months, she still has no idea I am bionic

[LetoMan]

I’ve also been with a number of women in the past 4 months, and none of them have suspected a thing.

Why aren’t they playing with my balls? First of all, now that I am hard on demand I don’t need stimulation from my partner to get hard. That changes my foreplay moves. Previously I might be encouraging her to play with my dick or blow me to get me hard. But now I don’t need that. So I focus on warming her up, and then on fucking. I keep the blowjob request for after I’ve fucked her for a while, in case I need it to cum.

Now that I am on the other side, my perception is that women find it pretty nice to not have to worry about getting you hard… they are pretty content to skip fluffing you and just be spoiled!

One woman did start to play with my scrotum. I simply moved her hand away, smiled and said I’m sensitive, and that was that.

I have told two women about the implant after we had fucked at least once. Both were curious but super cool about it. Both fucked me again.

I agree with Hiker… I would not tell any girl I had an implant before I fucked her. First of all, it would just put the focus on that, whereas you want your focus on the sex.

I’ve been dating one girl for a period of time. We’ve had sex on six occasions. I still haven’t told her, and don’t plan on it for a while. She’s pretty young, she doesn’t find my staying power at all out of the ordinary, though she seems to really enjoy it!

Concern about girls finding out you are implanted or it bothering them if they found out is really not an issue. Virtually no one can figure it out. Guys should just roll with it. Even just a few months in it is the least of my concerns… I’m focused on my partner and on the sex, not on hiding my implant.

Be well,
Leto

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I've been dating a lady that is 12 years younger than me. We have sex often and she has given me numerous BJs. I dont think she is a super experienced, maybe only had sex with a handful of guys prior to me and tends to be more laid back. We've done every position including anal.

She has no clue that I have an implant. Pumping discretely before hand is always easy, just excuse my self to the restroom or to the kitchen and within 30 secs I am ready. If things begin to get more serious at some point I will tell her no problem.

FWIW, I've had sex with maybe 7 women since getting implanted and not a single one could tell. I ended up telling one of them and she thought it was kind of cool.

Did you every have any issues with girls feeling your dog ears when you were cuddling with them naked in the deflated state? Spooning is pretty common after sex, and I wonder whether they could feel the dog ears on a Titan or AMS poking their butts. I could always give it a few pumps, but I wonder if I can get away with having the implant fully deflated.

[HikerMan]

If she touches around the shaft, would she not feel the tubing?

I have got caught several a few times when that happened

Am i right in assuming that your surgeons did a very neat job--cant one always feel the tubing around the shaft?

There is NO tubing running down either side of your shaft.

Only inflatable cylinders

[strongagain]

One got to be extremely insecure if 'not telling her‘ is such an important issue. Quite childish as well. I wonder why certain guys get an implant at all. I mean why not being happy to have the best dick in the world. Any lady should know that she can use that dick for endless hours. Instead you brave guys believe it‘s way better to keep the girls/women in the dark. BTW for anyone with the slightest degree of experience will it be easy to notice that that dick is different from a 'real‘ one. Not knowing after 5 months, how blonde can one be? I guess she knows for a long time what‘s going on, but because she is aware of the fact that you are insecure and very shy, she is playing the game, playing dumb.

[ViaSwiss]

Did you every have any issues with girls feeling your dog ears when you were cuddling with them naked in the deflated state? Spooning is pretty common after sex, and I wonder whether they could feel the dog ears on a Titan or AMS poking their butts. I could always give it a few pumps, but I wonder if I can get away with having the implant fully deflated.

Have not had that issue. I know some girls might get handsy at any point after sex and in that scenario maybe she would feel it. But if you have not told her yet at that point, just say you are sensitive from just finishing and not to touch yet.

When I do a quick deflate after sex, it doesnt deflate enough to notice much of a dog ear until I go back later and deflate all the way.

One got to be extremely insecure if 'not telling her‘ is such an important issue. Quite childish as well. I wonder why certain guys get an implant at all. I mean why not being happy to have the best dick in the world. Any lady should know that she can use that dick for endless hours. Instead you brave guys believe it‘s way better to keep the girls/women in the dark. BTW for anyone with the slightest degree of experience will it be easy to notice that that dick is different from a 'real‘ one. Not knowing after 5 months, how blonde can one be? I guess she knows for a long time what‘s going on, but because she is aware of the fact that you are insecure and very shy, she is playing the game, playing dumb.

Some people live in smaller towns / cities with small circles. You let one wrong person know that you have an implant and then suddenly half the town knows including your family, coworkers, kid's friends, etc. That is probably why most guys want to tell a partner until they are in more of a serious relationship with them.

I would argue that being so concerned about what another dude thinks/want from their own dick is kind of insecure behavior. But what do I know... I don't spend much time thinking about other dudes' dicks.

[Mark1974]

One got to be extremely insecure if 'not telling her‘ is such an important issue. Quite childish as well. I wonder why certain guys get an implant at all. I mean why not being happy to have the best dick in the world. Any lady should know that she can use that dick for endless hours. Instead you brave guys believe it‘s way better to keep the girls/women in the dark. BTW for anyone with the slightest degree of experience will it be easy to notice that that dick is different from a 'real‘ one. Not knowing after 5 months, how blonde can one be? I guess she knows for a long time what‘s going on, but because she is aware of the fact that you are insecure and very shy, she is playing the game, playing dumb.

You are 73 or 74

Some of these guys are young.

I'm 50 and I know a lot of women in the 50-65 age range will be put off. I won't even contemplate dating younger

I won't try to hide it and I'll be up front, but I get it why these guys don't want to talk about it.

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One got to be extremely insecure if 'not telling her‘ is such an important issue. Quite childish as well. I wonder why certain guys get an implant at all. I mean why not being happy to have the best dick in the world. Any lady should know that she can use that dick for endless hours. Instead you brave guys believe it‘s way better to keep the girls/women in the dark. BTW for anyone with the slightest degree of experience will it be easy to notice that that dick is different from a 'real‘ one. Not knowing after 5 months, how blonde can one be? I guess she knows for a long time what‘s going on, but because she is aware of the fact that you are insecure and very shy, she is playing the game, playing dumb.

You are 73 or 74

Some of these guys are young.

I'm 50 and I know a lot of women in the 50-65 age range will be put off. I won't even contemplate dating younger

I won't try to hide it and I'll be up front, but I get it why these guys don't want to talk about it.

Well, if young guys are concerned you are quite right I suppose, I never thought of young men when writting my comment. When I was young and up to the age of 57 I could make love for hours. A botched surgeon job changed that.

[nuance]

I’m curious how much sex people have. I read and know of people in their 20s in relationships that barely have sex after a year. I’m on the younger side and often thought most people stop having sex by the time they get to 50. This forum has been eye opening, especially when I see men in their 70s (even 80s) getting an implant. I’m only expressing my curiosity/surprise. I figured if I can get implants to work till 50, I’d be lucky and throw in the towel at that point but damn, now sure how I’d make it to 70/80 with so many revisions.

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Did you every have any issues with girls feeling your dog ears when you were cuddling with them naked in the deflated state? Spooning is pretty common after sex, and I wonder whether they could feel the dog ears on a Titan or AMS poking their butts. I could always give it a few pumps, but I wonder if I can get away with having the implant fully deflated.

Have not had that issue. I know some girls might get handsy at any point after sex and in that scenario maybe she would feel it. But if you have not told her yet at that point, just say you are sensitive from just finishing and not to touch yet.

When I do a quick deflate after sex, it doesnt deflate enough to notice much of a dog ear until I go back later and deflate all the way.

One got to be extremely insecure if 'not telling her‘ is such an important issue. Quite childish as well. I wonder why certain guys get an implant at all. I mean why not being happy to have the best dick in the world. Any lady should know that she can use that dick for endless hours. Instead you brave guys believe it‘s way better to keep the girls/women in the dark. BTW for anyone with the slightest degree of experience will it be easy to notice that that dick is different from a 'real‘ one. Not knowing after 5 months, how blonde can one be? I guess she knows for a long time what‘s going on, but because she is aware of the fact that you are insecure and very shy, she is playing the game, playing dumb.

Some people live in smaller towns / cities with small circles. You let one wrong person know that you have an implant and then suddenly half the town knows including your family, coworkers, kid's friends, etc. That is probably why most guys want to tell a partner until they are in more of a serious relationship with them.

I would argue that being so concerned about what another dude thinks/want from their own dick is kind of insecure behavior. But what do I know... I don't spend much time thinking about other dudes' dicks.

Thanks ViaSwiss. I'm curious - do any of these girls ever spend the night? When girls spend the night at mine, what often ends up happening is that we end up getting frisky midway through it and have sex/fool around. When that happens to you, do you just excuse yourself to the bathroom and come back every time? Ideally one would just pump up in bed, but I'm guessing the Titan pump's squeak rules that out for you? Or is it actually not that loud?

[TANGERINE]

1) agree with the comments that young guys will of course feel more self-conscious about having an implant -- younger women will be more judgemental of a young guy who needed help to get it up; but as many have indicated, the high quality long lasting sex that a bionic man can provide to a young woman is very much worth it to them. And a woman's concern about having to make foreplay exactly right, so her guy gets really hard , is a stress for women (eg, "is he not super hard because the women feels not pretty enough, or fat, or smells?"). Taking this stress out of sex makes for a much more relaxing experience for women, and they can just enjoy the moment and themsselves -- so women will of course love implanted guys

2) the best answer I have learned here on franktalk if you are discovered by the woman feeling your balls is to confidently say:

"yes, I have some surgery done down there after a ski or bike accident, but don't worry, everything works great, please continue, what you are doing feels really awesome"

3) "regarding "tubing down the sides of the shaft" This is a known issue with the infapubic surgery approach if extra rear tip extenders are used.

4) me personally, I had a great install, and I could very easily have sex and the woman would not know it ---- siper easy to hide the ssteps to get to inflation, and it feels fine in their hands