Strange Timing

The final frontier. Deciding when, if and how.
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Kodixx
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Re: Strange Timing

Postby Kodixx » Tue Sep 02, 2025 4:23 pm

ElbowRoom, I wasn't trying to do that. Nor do I think that I know more about your marriage than you do.

I was just trying to be helpful.

- Chuck
ElbowRoom wrote:Please don’t try to “save my marriage” over the internet as if you know more about it than I do.
Feb 2025 - 58 yo, 38 with greatest wife ever
AMS CX, Tenacio, Dr Broghammer (excellent) - pre-op L:7", post-op @ 6 mo L: 6.75" G: 5.5"
2 wks pain, cycling-sex-lifting @ 7 wks, only minor discomfort @ 10 wks, felt like 'new normal' @ 16 wks

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ElbowRoom
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Re: Strange Timing

Postby ElbowRoom » Tue Sep 02, 2025 8:30 pm

Kodixx wrote:ElbowRoom, I wasn't trying to do that. Nor do I think that I know more about your marriage than you do.

I was just trying to be helpful.

- Chuck
ElbowRoom wrote:Please don’t try to “save my marriage” over the internet as if you know more about it than I do.


I get it, I apologize if I jumped the gun a little. I have done everything humanly possible to salvage the situation and it's frustrating, so if my fuse is too short ATM, again I'm sorry for that.

I know with rare exceptions people on here just really want to help.
58yo Coloplast Titan implant scheduled for 10/23/2025 with Dr. Hakky. Pre-op erect measurements:
8.5"L and 6.5"C

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Wooody
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Re: Strange Timing

Postby Wooody » Wed Sep 03, 2025 1:07 am

ElbowRoom, I went through a similar situation with my now ex-wife. 7 years ago, and we remain friends.

Life is short and you only live once. I'm much happier now and not just because of my IPP. Find your happiness and live life! Good luck to you!
Titan Classic 22cm + 1cm RTEs - 2/25 - Dr Karpman, Bay Area CA

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ElbowRoom
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Re: Strange Timing

Postby ElbowRoom » Wed Sep 03, 2025 11:11 am

Wooody wrote:ElbowRoom, I went through a similar situation with my now ex-wife. 7 years ago, and we remain friends.

Life is short and you only live once. I'm much happier now and not just because of my IPP. Find your happiness and live life! Good luck to you!


Thanks. It’s been several years of frustration and I’m looking forward to living life on my terms again.

I never expected to be single coming up on 60 years old, I haven’t dated in 20 years and I’m not sure what to expect out there!
58yo Coloplast Titan implant scheduled for 10/23/2025 with Dr. Hakky. Pre-op erect measurements:
8.5"L and 6.5"C

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Re: Strange Timing

Postby Old Guy » Wed Sep 03, 2025 3:13 pm

Damn, what a strange twist to life. On one hand I find it awesome that you are in agreement and the breakup is amicable, but on the other hand it's sad that's how it has to be.
Good luck with the surgery. Hopefully you will find a willing partner to give it a test ride.
Nov. 8, 2019
5+ years, Coloplast Titan OTR
Married 37 years to my beautiful young bride
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Re: Strange Timing

Postby Kodixx » Wed Sep 03, 2025 9:36 pm

ElbowRoom, hey no worries. Thinking about how difficult that situation must be, I feel really bad for you, and wish you big success at moving forward !

- Chuck
Feb 2025 - 58 yo, 38 with greatest wife ever
AMS CX, Tenacio, Dr Broghammer (excellent) - pre-op L:7", post-op @ 6 mo L: 6.75" G: 5.5"
2 wks pain, cycling-sex-lifting @ 7 wks, only minor discomfort @ 10 wks, felt like 'new normal' @ 16 wks

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ElbowRoom
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Re: Strange Timing

Postby ElbowRoom » Wed Sep 03, 2025 9:50 pm

Kodixx wrote:ElbowRoom, hey no worries. Thinking about how difficult that situation must be, I feel really bad for you, and wish you big success at moving forward !

- Chuck


Thanks brother!
58yo Coloplast Titan implant scheduled for 10/23/2025 with Dr. Hakky. Pre-op erect measurements:
8.5"L and 6.5"C

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Re: Strange Timing

Postby SWorks17 » Thu Sep 04, 2025 11:07 am

Elbowroom,
Sorry about what you're going through but you're still a fairly young whipper snapper to get back out there and enjoy your later years with a new Bionic Weapon :!:

In my wife's and my marriage, I've always had the higher libido, always wanting to get in her pants when we were younger, but she never has had that kind of a libido. So, for 32 years it would be hit and miss for sex, sometimes once a week and most of the time once every two weeks and the other times, I would jerk off to release the tension.
After I got my Bionic Weapon, I definitely wanted to have sex more often, so I asked her to get her hormones checked out after another Franktalk couple that I made friends with in Dallas, had a great outcome with her hormone therapy.
First, my wife tried the testosterone cream and progesterone cream from one clinic for three months and nothing, it just wasn't working, plus she didn't like the clinic.
Second, my wife went to the neighborhood wellness clinic where she had went to previously for some weight loss treatments. She isn't heavy or obese she just wanted to look better. So, after checking her levels which were all low and probably have been all of our married years, they recommended the pellet which they insert on the side of the buttocks area every four months, and bam :!: it worked, she got a lot hornier and and super wet.
She's still not a nympho, but she likes sex a lot more and I usually still initiate. Thankfully, she doesn't just lay there and let me bang her, she loves kissing deeply when we are fucking and she likes to suck on my tongue which makes her start bucking more while I'm banging her. :D

Elbow, I just wanted to relate my story, I know that it's different than your story and what you're going through and I hope that everything works out for both of you and you get your manhood back with a new bionic weapon.

It's changed my life and my wife's and I would do it again if it broke.
I'm 67 and my wifey is 62
SWorks
Age 67, Garden Ridge Texas, Boston Scientific Rezum procedure for benign enlarged prostate 19 May 21, AMS LGX 18cm with 3cm RT's installed 5 Nov 2021 by Major Dr Shane Barney, BAMC, San Antonio, Texas, Married 36 years.
DOD Pg 131, Faces Pg 27

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ElbowRoom
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Re: Strange Timing

Postby ElbowRoom » Thu Sep 04, 2025 11:52 am

Yeah, my wife’s had all her levels checked and balanced out using creams and transdermal patches. Even after all her hormones were made perfect, her libido is near zero. I think that’s just how she is, she has never once initiated sex, even when she was much younger and more willing to have sex more often.

Glad it worked out for you though SWorks!
58yo Coloplast Titan implant scheduled for 10/23/2025 with Dr. Hakky. Pre-op erect measurements:
8.5"L and 6.5"C

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Re: Strange Timing

Postby SWorks17 » Thu Sep 04, 2025 12:05 pm

ElbowRoom wrote:Yeah, my wife’s had all her levels checked and balanced out using creams and transdermal patches. Even after all her hormones were made perfect, her libido is near zero. I think that’s just how she is, she has never once initiated sex, even when she was much younger and more willing to have sex more often.

Glad it worked out for you though SWorks!


Hang in there Elbow, you'll get through this!

SWorks
Age 67, Garden Ridge Texas, Boston Scientific Rezum procedure for benign enlarged prostate 19 May 21, AMS LGX 18cm with 3cm RT's installed 5 Nov 2021 by Major Dr Shane Barney, BAMC, San Antonio, Texas, Married 36 years.
DOD Pg 131, Faces Pg 27


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