Should I be excited or scared?
Re: Should I be excited or scared?
I’m having a harder time solo also? As I heal I feel the sensitivity is going away some!
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Re: Should I be excited or scared?
Waynetho wrote:Raycaba wrote:Another thing is I’ve noticed it’s a lot harder to reach a orgasm with the implant the before with other Ed treatments!
I originally agonized over the fact that I had such a difficult time to get to orgasm (to this day, I've only cum with my wife ONCE since I was implanted and only about 3 months after surgery).
I decided that the enjoyment of making love (or having sex) doesn't have to be connected to orgasms. I can always relieve my tensions solo whenever I have time. I enjoy my wife, or whatever partner I'm with, enjoying my efforts for as long as I feel able to service them. Getting my wife to 20-30 orgasms (she cums easily) or her best friend to an orgasm so strong (from penetration and oral) that she almost snaps my head off with her legs, gives me immense pleasure.
I figure my penetrative orgasms will come back when they decide to - and until then I can fairly easily get one solo.
Wayntho, your experience is exactly the same as mine except for the wife, her being supportive of the extracurricular relationship and going solo. The most important point of agreement, I feel, is that sex does not have to be connected to my orgasm.
My girlfriend would like be to have more of them and she REALLY likes to feel me ejaculate inside her and also wants to swallow my ejaculate (pretty much mutually exclusive desires, but women are inscrutable, yes>).
Any man interested in this attitude might want to check out this thread and my recent post there for mor of my story.
viewtopic.php?f=3&t=17284&p=157110#p157110
Lost Sheep
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Re: Should I be excited or scared?
Yes thank you good words! I’m just glad I don’t have to worry about a hardon anymore. Just complain about the size and some pain.
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"I’m having a harder time solo also? As I heal I feel the sensitivity is going away some!"
This is one of the main reasons I wont get an implant
This is one of the main reasons I wont get an implant
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"Getting my wife to 20-30 orgasms (she cums easily) "
Can women be so libidinous post-menopause? I know they can take hormonal supplements to help with their sex drive, but wow if women can maintain a libido like that they are certainly fortunate
Can women be so libidinous post-menopause? I know they can take hormonal supplements to help with their sex drive, but wow if women can maintain a libido like that they are certainly fortunate
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Mark74 wrote:"Getting my wife to 20-30 orgasms (she cums easily) "
Can women be so libidinous post-menopause? I know they can take hormonal supplements to help with their sex drive, but wow if women can maintain a libido like that they are certainly fortunate
She uses Premarin cream twice a week, using the included applicator for vaginal application. This helps her to be physically more receptive (eliminates pain on insertion), to not be dry and to enjoy it more.
62yo, married 41 yrs. Urolift (x4) 8/12/19. AMS 700CX 15cm (no RTE) penoscrotal 10/28/19, Frisco, TX. PD 1995/ED 2011. Cialis helped but hinged. (1995)L:6/G:5.5+, (2019)Pre-op L:5/G:4.5, (2/2020)L:6.0/G:5.0
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Re: Should I be excited or scared?
Mark74 wrote:"I’m having a harder time solo also? As I heal I feel the sensitivity is going away some!"
This is one of the main reasons I wont get an implant
The only reason to get an implant is if you cannot get erections suitable for coital sex. If the cost of that is a little sensitivity, I think it is well worth it.
If your ED is not bad enough that such a trade is not worth it, then you don't need an implant.
Lost Sheep
AMS LGX 18+3 Nov 6, 2017
Prostate Cancer 2023
READ OLD THREADS-ask better questions -better understand answers
Be part of your medical team
Document pre-op size-photos and written records
Pre-op VED therapy helps. Post-op is another matter
AMS LGX 18+3 Nov 6, 2017
Prostate Cancer 2023
READ OLD THREADS-ask better questions -better understand answers
Be part of your medical team
Document pre-op size-photos and written records
Pre-op VED therapy helps. Post-op is another matter
Re: Should I be excited or scared?
Mark74 wrote:"I’m having a harder time solo also? As I heal I feel the sensitivity is going away some!"
This is one of the main reasons I wont get an implant
Your statement just begs me to ask why are you reading & posting to an implant forum? I've read posts from most of the sections of FT. Seems to me like they all pretty much lead to the likelyhood of an implant in my opinion.
Please enlighten me as to what I'm missing?
68yo, HBP at 40, high triglycerides at 45. Phimosis at 57. Type 2 at 60. Dr. William Brant May 1, 2023 CX 21cm w/no rte's penoscrotal 6" girth @ 6 months
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Yes make no sense to me either!
Re: Should I be excited or scared?
4 months now since surgery and all healed up! I feel more comfortable with my implant and getting used to the size or let me rephrase my wife loves the size I want bigger girth. Have follow up soon and without getting fat injections see what there is to do about that? The cream for the glan called alprostadil/phentolamine 1 mg engordes the glan tremendously! So I need a drug for some girth bothers?!
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