SoggyS wrote:she is divorcing me solely due to my ED!
Please forgive me for posting this publicly, but I respond not only for you, but for any man reading this thread.
Very few women divorce ONLY because of a single reason. Especially sex, as it is less important to women than men, compared to other elements of a complete relationship, much less a marriage.
I do know that some women will leave a guy because of bad sex (has happened to me because of my E.D.), but any woman who would leave a mature relationship with a good man who fills out the other criteria for a good relationship for JUST sexual reasons is not a good match for that man.
In short, addressing E.D. is not a panacea and if you expect it to change your entire life, you will likely be disappointed. It will almost certainly make a VAST improvement in your life, but it will not by itself fix everything.
Good luck.
p.s. Of course, I could be wrong. And certainly any one woman (yours) might be an exception to what I believe is the general rule.