Can't get off :-(

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scharff
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Re: Can't get off :-(

Postby scharff » Sat Nov 18, 2023 7:58 am

It can be frustrating. The worst time for me was when she tried everything to get me off including her great oral skills. But her arm got tired of the hand job and her jaw got tired from oral and She got dry after climaxing herself a few times. But an hour later she suggested mutual masturbation and we both lubed up. Voila, within 20 minutes we were both moaning. Go figure, but I wish it was more predictable.

Alan810
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Re: Can't get off :-(

Postby Alan810 » Sat Nov 18, 2023 4:23 pm

I had the same issue. I think in my case I was trying too hard - every time I was getting the feeling, it was like I was forcing the issue and not relaxing. When I realized I was tensing myself and stopped worrying about it, I would finally have an orgasm (unfortunately retrograde but it is what it is). I find it much easier to take care of her first and then worry about me with her help and her vibrator. PIV can happen on rare occasions, but her orgasms come on quick with almost no notice and are too intense for her for me to continue. Worrying about it just makes conditions worse.
85 yrs old. Married 42 yrs. On meds for B/P, Cholesterol and BPH. Greenlight procedure yrs ago. 30 yrs ED w/Retrograde Ejaculations. Tried Pills, Injections & different pumps. Excellent results with ErecAId pump & Beige D & Gray D rings.

Jake2365
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Re: Can't get off :-(

Postby Jake2365 » Tue Nov 28, 2023 9:25 pm

Does anyone have experience with a auto stroker or spinner? I'm thinking the spinning ones may provide even more stimulation, which I desperately need.
51 yr old male. Injections began failing at 15 months. Implanted 2-24-21, Titan 24cm, no RTE. Dr. Goldstein, San Diego, CA, USA

Swinger, Kinkster, BDSM & all kinds of other crazy play I need to get back to!

Completely willing to show and tell.

oldbeek
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Re: Can't get off :-(

Postby oldbeek » Fri Sep 27, 2024 1:02 pm

all those toys just make me sore. My hand is best.
82, good health, RP 7-2017, all nerves taken , PSA 0.05, 4-18,, .07 1/19,.05 4/19, .03 11-21, .04 11-23, implanted 4-1-18, Infra-pubic, AMS lgx 15 cm with 5cm rte. Implant at USC Keck. Dr Boyd and Dr Loh Doyle 6.5 x 5, 800 AUS 7-21-20

John Dday
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Re: Can't get off :-(

Postby John Dday » Wed Oct 02, 2024 7:20 pm

I have been told that Celery is a winner in creating more cum. But you have to use it daily otherwise, it stops functioning; it's such a 'hard' life
1955. I have had ED for years. We are going for a Rigicon Infla10 in October. Life got in the way (heart attack), so we are now going for Trimix as a fill-in.

oldbeek
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Re: Can't get off :-(

Postby oldbeek » Wed Oct 23, 2024 12:45 pm

This morning feeling Horney. Orgasm took awhile but I did come, and come, and come. What a relief. Young guys want to know if you can keep going with an implant after you come. When I stopped having my O ,I didnt have the strength to do anything.
82, good health, RP 7-2017, all nerves taken , PSA 0.05, 4-18,, .07 1/19,.05 4/19, .03 11-21, .04 11-23, implanted 4-1-18, Infra-pubic, AMS lgx 15 cm with 5cm rte. Implant at USC Keck. Dr Boyd and Dr Loh Doyle 6.5 x 5, 800 AUS 7-21-20


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